DirtiestMindedVirgin

This was definitely not the same as my natural lube, lol--that's ALWAYS really clear, like basic KY. This stuff wasn't see-through at all. YAY!!

Hehe...if my bf and I get married on the date we're planning on, it'll be...23 years, seven months, and 27 days! But of course that's ONLY if you don't count masturbation!

I saw that episode of SatC, and the issue was not that he was coming in for the kiss immediately after, it was that it was all over his face/chin and it was messy. She wanted him to wipe his face off, not NOT kiss her, lol.

So I had a "Me Time" session not too long ago. I had just gotten home from my boyfriend's house and was plenty horny, and really went for it. I ended up using four toys all at once (one inserted, one on my clit, one under the small of my back, and the other all over my body) so there was a LOT of stimulation going on, lol, some to my G-spot. I came really hard, not the hardest ever but harder than usual. It was a quick session, too--only about 15 minutes, which is about half my normal time. When I started cleanup, I found that there was some kind of ejaculate on the toy that had been inserted--white, milky, like natural lube only whiter and thicker. I'm wondering if I had a G-spot orgasm (the stimulation was there, and it was certainly better than usual), but since it was so quick, there just wasn't time to build up enough ejaculate to squirt? Thoughts?

Oh, I think it's very exciting--right now I LOVE hearing stories of people meeting online and it working out. =)

It's hard to wait, but I promise--Mr. Right is out there, and when you find him, you'll KNOW! I, too, went through a couple of "relationships" where I was left wondering what I did wrong. It isn't always you! I advocate really knowing yourself and analyzing what you might have done wrong, but sometimes you really do just end up getting stuck with a couple of douchenozzles, lol. I would suggest not advertising your virginity, though. Wait until he becomes serious and starts asking for sex--then tell him. That way you'll end up giving it freely instead of having it taken by someone who (as someone said earlier in the thread) wants to take your v-card and run.

My family had a party line up until about 10 years ago--though there were several different segments of the family living on one piece of property. (Me and my parents in one house, an aunt an uncle in another, my grandparents in another, and one of my cousins with her hubby and 4 kids in the last.)

Sun_flower, you just made me feel a bit better--that's the same age difference between me and my boyfriend. =) We met online, on a dating site, and even though he's only an hour-and-a-half away, we spent the first several weeks counting down to his birthday so he'd be legal--he'd fudged his age by about two months in order to get on the site. Relevant to the topic--yes, we were both looking, what with it being a dating site, but I don't think either of us expected to find what we did. I was hoping to find someone to date for a while (watch movies and snuggle with, lol) that MIGHT turn out to be The One, but the whole thing went far faster than I'd expected and now I can't imagine living without him. When it's right, it's right!

Awww...I'm finally in a committed relationship, and yeah, we're going to wait until marriage for sex (and most other sexual things--the rule right now is CLOTHES STAY ON, and there's no touching of naughty bits, including boobs), but I have lots and lots and lots of ideas--and we're definitely already discussing likes and dislikes. (We've both been pleasantly surprised by openness/compatibility in this area.) This thread has inspired me to start a check-off list to give him once we're married. =D Some random things that'll be on the full list--I have a year or so to work on it, lol, and I think it will be very very long: -get that first time done and overwith! (I'm sure it will be special, but I'm afraid of it hurting despite his promises of being slow and gentle, and honestly, if the first time was the best time ever, well, that would actually kind of suck, wouldn't it?) -sex in my parents' house, though not in their bed (we'll be in the middle of something and I'll think "if only my mother knew what I was doing right now," and it's MORE, not LESS, of a turnon) -sex with fishnets on (I've discovered he has a thing for stockings, which works well with my thing for shoes) -sex in my car, with and without the top down (we already discovered the backseat is surprisingly roomy if the front seats are pushed forward, but the weather was too warm to stay in there) -me sitting on a washing machine while it's going, with him standing and going at it -he suggested honey and a paintbrush...I'm for that, and for whipped cream and/or chocolate syrup, possibly even snowcone syrup, or anything else a bit drizzly or spreadable...heck, even peanut butter... -sex while trying to play a videogame, preferably Rockband or Guitar Hero (and obviously eventually giving it up/failing the level in favor of more fun) -there's a study room at his college and he says every time he goes in there he wishes he could throw me down on the table and go at it...I'd do it if we were guaranteed not getting caught -in a library with the smell of books, ZOMG -in front of a fireplace -I told him I wanted to invest in thigh-high leather boots someday, not sure how he'd react, and he typed back "ZOMG I'm stiff as a board" =D -on a waterbed (though we won't be able to have one ourselves, since I have a thing for stilettos) -painting on each other, probably with edible paint -I wouldn't want to be full-on naked, but with snow coming down all around would be really romantic (perhaps oral? or without taking off pants?)

Conversely, when I see relationships like this, I always wonder why the MEN put up with it and stick around! It takes two to tango! But I agree. If you're not in it to make the other person happy, you should stay single. Don't harangue your man and then wonder why he's not happy.

I agree with everyone saying HE'S the selfish one here! I personally believe that the majority of children are born for the wrong reasons entirely--not that they're not loved and it doesn't work out in the end, but "our family is just not complete" or "we want something of us to live on" is not enough! (And wanting a son--utter nonsense! My brother was wise enough to quit after three girls, even though his wife offered to try once more.) What about things like "being around children (any children, not just ones you happen to like) makes me happy" or "I think we can provide a stable environment which would produce well-adjusted children, and want to do so"? If you feel you're at your limit, then stick to that! You might try explaining it to him this way: having another baby would just build up resentment between you two, to the point where you would no longer want to be with him. His pressure to have another is eventually going to do the same--either way, his insistence is ONLY going to cause him to lose you. Ask him what he'd rather have: you, the awesome wife that he already knows and loves, or a baby that he doesn't know at all? There's an episode of Sex and the City where Carrie happens to find out that the man she's dating has already had a daughter in a previous relationship, and his attitude is "been there, done that, don't want to do it again." She's torn at first, but when she starts talking about it with the girls and Charlotte says that it simply won't work, Carrie asks her, "Why should I give up a man I barely know for a baby I barely know I want?"--ie, if this man turns out to be what I think he might, I could very well be perfectly happy with never having a baby. I bring this up because it sounds like you have a lot more to lose--and I admire you for being brave enough to be willing to let it go, if it comes to that. I hope it doesn't!

Yay, not just me, if not universal. Like I said, it makes me happy since I'm so small to begin with.

Do your boobs get bigger during your period? Just me? I gain roughly half a cupsize for the last 2/3 or so. (Which is nice, being a FULL B instead of trying to fill it!)

This isn't quite a joke, but I'm not sure where else to put it: New Playstation Ad (NOT safe for work--but then if you're on this board you're probably not at work, lol) Yes, it is a real ad campaign. Look closely. It's not a cock. It's a THUMB. I'm not quite sure what to make of it (what are they trying to imply?) but it strikes me as funny anyway.

My first toy was an egg-shaped bullet. The one in the picture was covered in purple leopard print, but the one I got was pink. I hate pink, but I wanted my O so I tried it anyway. After that I was definitely okay with having one pink object in the house! (It's since been replaced with a silver bullet.) Personally, nothing beats an egg-shaped bullet. The narrower ones (shaped like this) just don't do the job as well for me. I can put in an egg and lay back and let it goooo, but the skinny ones require me to work hard at it.