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*snicker* Cute list -- glad to "see" you again!

Holy upper body..!! Your countdown makes me think of two kids counting down for Christmas. *giggle* *sends hot4hubby a bow*

Very nice, miss!

First off, welcome to TooTimid! I'm glad to hear you returned from Iraq -- hopefully all safe and sound. Secondly, that's quite a major shift in attitude "just like that." Not meaning to sound the cynical one, but three things popped in my head first... A. something bad happened to her while she was gone that scared her away from sex; B. you two had an argument and she's just not wanting to have sex with you; C. she's messing around with someone else. Hopefully, of course, it's not A. or C. If it is C., she could either be feeling guilty and doesn't feel she deserves you OR she likes the "someone else" better and is trying to drive you away. Hopefully it's B. and easily fixable -- but no matter WHICH it is, the only way you're really going to find out is to sit her down outside the bedroom and ask her. Have a gentle talk, no finger-pointing ("Why do YOU..."), and see if she'll tell you what's going on in her head. Good luck... I truly hope the best outcome for this (and again, I'm sorry to jump directly to the BAD, but I couldn't think of the GOOD this time.... ).

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I REALLY like it longer -- it's perfect for his face. And man, aren't you two sweet together!!!! BTW, been meaning to tell you, I really love your new avatar! *purr*

Love to see a happy woman!

Who says education can't be hot? Nice find, Mikayla! Was that Nina Hartley?

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Welcome to TooTimid.

Ooph... although I was nauseas through the whole thing (hahahaha), I couldn't stop smiling. He IS darling!! I want one of those bouncy seats (for future children.. yah.. hehe)... they look like so much fun and I bet they're great physically for babies! Thanks for sharing him with us!

Oo Autumn, my favorite season...

*snicker* Well, can't say the boy doesn't have fun with his toys!

Aw, pink, I'm sorry. Even though he sounded the selfish dud the first time, I'm glad you gave him another chance, because it gave you the absolute answers you were seeking. But I am sorry he turned out to be a zero. Don't give up. Although I'm a firm believer that when you stop looking, there it is... I also believe you need to put yourself out there and give yourself another chance to find what you want. Stay safe, but have fun.

I, too, remember hearing surgical correction is the only "fix." I'd suggest, if you haven't already, to let-go of the internet research option (sounds like you've been using it a while with still not much gain in help) and go see a doctor. Good luck and welcome to TooTimid -- we'd love to hear what happens in the future. It'd be a great source of help to others who suffer the same problem.

I've heard of it before (and think I remember seeing it when I worked retail), but I've never used it. This has been talked about before (but I'm too lazy to do a search for it, *snicker* sorry...). Currently I use Coochy Cream bought through TooTimid and I love it. A little goes a long way and it smells yummaliscious!

Great to see you!! Too cute with your daughter, the two of you all smiles -- "sidekick of little trouble..." *rofl*

tootimidtoo, have you thought of having a mutual masturbation night with your husband? The next time you're "settling in" to have sex together, give him a wry grin, shake your head, push him onto his back, place his hand on his penis, lay next to him on your side, nibble his ear, and start moaning against him as you pleasure yourself. I love when we have mutual masturbation sessions -- I just love watching my husband please himself -- it gets me right worked up!

Welcome to TooTimid. Great introduction! First off, if you don't want to use the word "fucking," don't! I don't use it in terms of the act between my husband and I. I use "making love" or "having sex" -- unless it's just wild and animal-like... then the term "fucking" CAN be appropriate without being a BAD word. Use what ever is comfortable for you (just realize you'll read many different terms on this site, none of which are MEANT to be offensive to anyone, but MAY be so). It sounds as if all the elements are there for an open-communication-relationship... but the both of you need to get over the "If I say this, I'll get laughed at." hump. Don't tell him you WANT to talk dirty to him... just do it. He might be shocked at first... he might be incredibly turned on... he might not like it. But you'll never know unless you just suck it up and do it. You didn't specify to whom the anal would be, but next time you're giving him oral, gently stick a finger in his backside (you can slip a condom over your finger without him even knowing, I'll bet, if you don't want the yuck factor). If it's on YOU, guide his hand back there... whisper in his ear that you want him to finger your ass... My point is, it doesn't HAVE to be "pretty routine." The two of you make it however you want it. But you have to be open to communicate those wants and desires. It's never too late, ttt, unless you give up altogether. Good luck, welcome, and I hope you're able to get where you both want to be. P.S. (Sun, I think those are my favorite in-signature shoes yet!! MEOW!!)

Lovely colors!

Welcome to TooTimid!

Very sweet. Thank you for sharing this!

Gumby!

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*laughing* Whew hew! *blushing* Well, to be very honest... because I was frustrated about her falling off twice and interrupting the blowjob I was TRYING to give Thur... she's really just named, "My Bitch." Totally unlike me... but VERY appropriate! Don't think bad of me -- -- calling her that makes me feel very naughty.