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Not really into looking at getting one for masterbation. Looking into it for just the health reason. I've read where this could actually help in prolong activity and help the gland muscles. Hey if the size increase is an extra bonus I am game. But if you want to give him something to masterbate with I would suggest a Fleshligt. These are awesome. But be careful not taking these on an airplane. The FAA security would think that it is a pipe bomb. I would hate for him to have to show it's not by demonstration. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...sh+light&Page=1

Howard don't get me wrong. The clerk just mention it just because they didn't carry the Viva cream. Mention it as a replace for what they didn't have. I didn't know about how some lubes have a different effect on some toys. Will watch out for that next time.

I'll have to give those a try. This could be my ice breaker for me to show my wife this site finally. You the Man Howard.

Ouch. don't think Heet would feel good on anything. Yep KY hot message lube would be just for massaging, only. Now I have used a clit arrousel cream. Bought it a the local sex shop. Was in a sample bin and came in a small around dish the size of a dime. Was looking for the Viva cream and couldn't find it. Lady at the counter knew what I was looking for but they didn't carry it. She mention that this work much better than the Viva cream. I just place a small amount on the tip of my finger the size of this smile face place it on her clit WOW. That was all it took, game on. She came as soon as I put my dick in her vagina. I still have a lot in the dish since it only takes a small amount. It came in different flavors, got mint. After enjoying her for awhile I went down on her to see if this mint stuff was any good. Bad idea. Made my tonuge go num (sp). So the lesson here guys if it says it is flavored with something don't think it is going to taste good. I am sticking to food products.

That is what I thought. I can't image sucking down that Wet product and your mouth being on fire.

I had an exgirlfriend that did the ice cream thing on my penis. Man that was awesome!!!! The cold mix with her warm mouth and tongue was out of this world! I really didn't know about the different procduts as far as messaging oil, verses lubricates and the ill effects that it could cause on a women's vagina. I well have to look at what we are using, because I think we have messaging oil that is cherry/champane flavor scent and have been using it as a lube. I just place an order here for the TooTimid lube. Now that I know the difference I wil be looking out and picking products more carefully. What about the new K-Y lubricates that are the Hot Messaging? Are they safe to use with vibes? and can they be used in the vaginal area?

So that is what sex wax is I did not know that. I have always saw it in stores and just thought it was a candle in a can. Duh See what you can learn from this form. I'll have to check out the ones that turn hard. That sounds like so much fun and a major turn-on for me.

That is a cool idea. Thanks. But really any more thoughts about using oral sex flavors?

Ok, I've seem them, read about them, but do they really work? Before I shell out a bunch of cash for one of these would like to hear from the guys or gals that has their partner that uses one of these. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3210

but doesn't his mouth get hot from the flavored gel? That Wet product seems to be a massging oil and it says that it get even hotter when blown on talk about a hot mouth

We both injoy having oral sex but my wife doesn't like the taste. I have seen Oral Sex gels that have different flavors to help with over coming the britter taste of giving oral sex to your partner. I would like to know which one has the best taste via flavor? Give your feedback on you own personal experience of using one of these oral sex gels. I have use flavored lubricate before and really don't like the taste. Too synthetic tasting and oily, was hoping to fine somthing more really to the fruit tasting.

If you are wanting him to have multi orgasms you will have to be the one to help with that. After he has little nap from the first orgasm you need to help get things up. Normally if the kids would leave us alone I could go about every three hours But I would need a day of rest to build back up more sperm.

Say, is this a variable speed vib or one set speed? Thinking about a new toy to add to the collection.

Well I guess Nair will be out of the question. really don't want to burn my balls off, but if I could get a BJ like BG is getting that would be worth it

Kirk your story is a pre-record message of what I am going through myself. My wife too had been brought up in a religious background. Can't get her to open up about sex either. Married for over 15 years, and yes sex is getting boring. All she thinks about is just hurry up and get it over with. I just bought her anohter vibrator and seems to like it. But she really has to be in the mood to use it. I had gotten her one a long time ago and made me get rid of it of fear the kids would find it. More like her Mother to find it. Listen to Howard, I have tried everthing he has mention in one way or another and seem to work. My next step is to one day sit her down in front of the pc together and show her this form. Starting with shopping for a new toy. Then I hope this will break the ice about talking about sex. Good Luck.

That site is pretty funny. I went to Target web site and check out the reviews on this razor. One guy said that it shaved his skin right off his body and still left his hair. Almost bleed to death. Interested to see how your experience goes. I like to know if any one has tried Nair hair removal product? You know the one that women use to remove the hair on their legs. I have always used a safety razor, which the womens razors work better. But really would like to find something easier to use. A Razor and the thought of cutting my balls off is not to appealing.

That is awesome Softlips. I have tried over and over to get my wife to spuirt and cum up short...LOL Any how I would finger fuck her tell she can't stand it no more. At that point She knows that she is about to cum and would always reach down and grab my hands to make me stop . Like dam why stop now, let it rip baby. I now it probably feels different to her and she doesn't know what is about to happen or just doesn't want to cum yet. I am lost at this one. My first wife I got to squirt and man that was awesome feeling. I had my dick inside her when she went and felt so warm like I was in a Jacuzzi. Was on the carpet floor while my parents was gone. Had just finish when thay pull up. Didn't have time to clean up that much. Funny part about it was my dog keep going over to the spot where she squirted and smelling it Couldn't get the dog away from it.

You the Man Howard. Everything that you have mention does work. I have tried just using just the head of my dick to help in prolonging orgasm and it does seem to work. And we both love the corkscrew. But when that clitoris is working like a french tickler, Bam I am done. I am so gald that I found this site. I just wish that I could get my wife to read some of this form. She could learn so much. She doesn't know that I am using this form and would kill me if she new. But hey, she sure does like the results that are coming from what I know now. Thanks Howard.

I know I can't keep up with my wife. I am always finishing way before her. The only problem we have is that I am always wanting to have sex with her and to try new things, but she never is. Once my cock is inside her I am done I think it is because when she finally warms up her clit is so swollen that it feels ruff. Talk about a natural cock tickler. Once I start going in and out of her wet vargina and feel that swollen clit I've done lost it. Howard has some great pointers that I have tried and does work. I have work on getting her to climax several times before I insert. That way I know that she is statisfied and I can blow a nut at any time. But like Howard said all that work does make you every tried. I had not climax and been know to go soft many times because I was working on her so much. Concentration on her made me forget about what I wanted to the point that my dick would go soft. Then I needed that time to relax to get it back up. For me it is much longer time 20-30 minutes is normal for most men. Word here is patients. Forplay can not only be just in the bedroom. Try forplay a couple days before with clothes on. This would give you the rest he needs and you. Build to the moment during the week. This could be by just touching each other caressing each other but never to the point that you need to rip each others clothes off. Then one day when the timing is just right to where you just have to have it NOW, get it on. But let him start the with you, working on you will slow him down to the point that he will last longer. This will get you the multi organisms you need and he will be able to keep his penis harder longer.

Mikayla I was shock to here the news about your Rabbits passing. I know how much my wifes Rabbit means to her and I am sure you was at a loss without it. Gald to see that a new IVib has been adopted. I know life for you has meaning again. But with over 100 toys to play with....

After seeing that I would be gald I was going to Maine just to get away from that mess...WOW. We are looking at a repo house that is about the same condition. The only difference is all the furniture and mess is out of the house. Just the smell of urine and pet shit on the walls that need to be cleaned up. The bank that owns it is being real bitch about selling it. Oh well there will be other houses to come up. Hope your hubby doesn't work to hard while your away and hope you get moved in soon.

Just wandering if they could be use to pull yourself, as if you had a headboard? We too don't have a headboard on our bed and it sure helps if you have something that you could pull yourself up onto for those deep long strokes. Grabing the end of the matress doesn't always cut it.

Me and my wife where in about the same way. I am gald that you are researching to see what else there is that could help. There are some natural herbs that can help with the hormone replacement. But do get check with her OB Doctor first. It very well could be a medical problem that is unforcen. (sp) I have learned that women are like diesel motors. It takes them a long time to warm up. But after they are warm up and their vagina is all wet they can run for hours. We use the Viva Cream to help my wife speed up to my speed and it does help out a lot. You also might want to try and do it outside of the bedroom, like a park, back yard , or your car parked in the garage to make a change. Some where different than the bedroom. That should help spark her sex drive.

You are right on about her growing up in a very religious home. She is not Catholic but good old Southern Baptist. I can tell that she is wanting to mastrubate, cause when I do introduce her to it during sex she goes wild and has an unbelievable Big "O"! The reason I am introducing it to her is that I can't last long enough for her to climax. This form has been a very helpful tool and I am able to bring us sexually closer. Sex, Making Love as my wife would say, has gone to the next level and it is Great! Just last night I was able to give her mulitple O's and it went on for over and hour. I was so tried of trying to please her that I couldn't even get myself up and off. I finally stop and rolled over and past-out. She was major glowing in the morning. I am taking this very slow as you suggested and I am very careful not to hurt her feelings. I wish she would read this form, because she was brought up very sheltered and doesn't know a whole lot about sex. But she married a very good teacher...LOL Thanks

I can't seem to get my wife to masturbate. During sex I can take her hand and work her way down, but unless I am still holding her hand she just pulls away. I know that it is a big turn on for her because she is all over the place on the bed and gets extremly wet/hot!! Not to mention how turned on it makes me. I love to watch women get it on. But for her to just imply to masturate, she thinks it is nasty. I don't know why she thinks it is. She doesn't like to talk about sex that much. Communication link with her on this subject is hard. Any thoughts on how to get her to open up to the subject of her masturbation. Plus the added benfits from her doing it.