Draven

CONGRATS!!!!!

call me a slut in the morning...........................that so funny since my wife calls me a male slut...........lmaoo that to funny thanks Tyger

ok finding a costume for the ladies is easy. but finding a good one for the guys is kinda hard. my wife and i are in the lifestyle and we are hitting a party for halloween and i am having a hard time looking for a costume so ladies plz give me some ideas. my wife says i should go as preist she says that would be sexy as hell. so ladies i need your opinion.

confidence in herself is a huge turn on for me no matter what they look like. like how they walk into a room most guys know just from that or am i just the odd one out. i guess that goes with personality. that is big thing for me and i have seen lots since i am in a life style that you see lots of different kind of ppl. the teasers and then the real ppl.

nice club in westeren PA.....http://www.djsisland.com/ this might work for you.....http://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/ if is doesn't then you have to join...but you can join for free

Women in stockings or sexy pantyhose (like the seamless ones that wolford makes) well the heels have to be a part of that too.

i find it easier to shave down there when i am hard, that way the skin is streched already and you get a closer shave. the best thing i have found out though is using my wife's coochy creme that stuff is great it keeps the bumps and the irritation down. and um it feels why better when she is sucking and licking down there. and i mean the rimming too.......wowzers.....

the math doesn't work out. i was born in 1970 and i am 36

i will say only one thing and it about covers everything in life for kids. it starts at home!!!! as a parent it is up to you to be involved in yer kids lives. you can't not leave it up to that the schools or the coaches or anyone one in there lives, but you. they learn from what they see everyday. so in those words again its is up to you to be involved in thier lives, and is up to the parent to make that decision. beacuse they know that kid better then anyone.

OH i grabbed all the movies and put them in the foot locker that we have in the closet< but they do keep askin about the big eye hook in the ceiling (thats for the swing) but i keep telling them its for plants . yes kids will be kids. this kinda new territory for me my dad and me where not very close and i made a promise to myself that i would be close with my boys. it was very weird for me to talk to him cause i didn't know how to approach it. and thank you for all the comments on this.

my 13 yr old son found my porn stash. what should i do? i have had a talk with him about it not being wrong and nothing wrong with watching it. its more the fact that he came in mom and dads bed room. had a talk about that too. maybe i answerd my own question but kinda curious what you guys think. oh and yes i should have had it locked up and i didn't before any of the women reply to that

A bus, carrying only ugly people, crashes into an oncoming truck and everyone inside dies. They then get to meet their Maker and, because of the grief they have experienced. He decides to grant them one wish each before they enter Paradise. They're all lined up and God asks the first one what their wish is. "I want to be gorgeous, " and so, God snaps His fingers and it is done. The second one in line hears this and says, "I want to be gorgeous, too." Another snap of His fingers and the wish is granted. This goes on for a while. But, when God is halfway down the line, the last guy in the line starts giggling. When there are only ten people left, this guy is giggling uncontrollably, barely able to breathe. Finally, God reaches this guy and asks him what his wish will be. The guy eventually manages to catch his breath and says, "Make 'em all ugly again!" Not all those who wander are lost. -JRR Tolkien

sam i couldn't agree more with the comment about total confidence. that is the sexiest thing all the other things are bonues....

evilwife i thank you for chimming in on this subject and is good to see that you and your hubby are happy with the lifestyle. my wife and i also do the signals...lol... and we also agree with the not sheating as long as it is together. when you hide, lie, and sneak then its cheating. with going to the club for us though its more with being with the other ppl out there in the lifestyle and just have a good time. and if we are lucky enough meet some cpls that we might interested in. you do have some cpls out there though that they are ouot for it cause they want to see how many ppl that can sleep with and that is what is bad with the lifestyle. i will say this again you do have to talk about it for a long time before you can go ahead and see what it is like. you can't not be a jealous person in this lifestyle.

again it goes back to the trust thing. and no i dont'y mind the questions. i know she loves me and i know she will be coming home to me. yes there are lines that you don't cross but that is up to the cpl to set those lines. swinging is not for the jealous type ppl. you talk about tempting and playing Russian roulette. you take that chance every day in real life anyways it can happen online it can happen at the work place. trust is the key and being open and not hiding anything. we are all human we will always look and wonder about some other ppl and think how they might be in bed. this takes the thinkin out of the problem...lol...its more about the sex and flirting then anything. no strings attacted and no repercussion from the partener cause well they are doing it too....lol... i will go back to the trust issue cause that is a big thing in a marraige no matter what. as i have been readin on some threads well more in the bondage threads TRUST is the key same with this lifestyle. here is a link that might help you anwser some of yer questions. http://www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html