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Restoring old photographs. After a 10-12 hour day at a high stress job, I find that restoring photographs helps me relax (ok, not nearly as much as a couple of rounds in the bedroom!), and it's great to see how happy it make people.

Welcome! I'm sure you'll find this one of the most informative adult information sites around. There are many very intelligent and experienced members who are always willing to share their knowledge. I know that I've learned a lot here. To include an avatar just click on the "My Controls" link in the upper right portion of the screen. On the next page click on the "Edit Avatar Settings" link on the left side about 2/3 of the way down the list. From that control panel you will be able to either select an avatar or upload an image to use as your avatar. Good luck! - Robert

Joe (not his real name) dies suddenly and finds himself at the Pearly Gates being judged. St. Peter faces Joe with a stern look and points to a long set of stairs with smoke billowing from them. Joe is crushed, but he turns and proceeds to walk down the stairs. After a week or so in the fiery depths, Joe approches Satan with an offer. "You know," says Joe, "it's pretty miserable down here. It's really hot, there's no ventilation, the lighting is poor, and the air really smells." Satan appears uninterested, but Joe continues, "I've been an engineer all my life and, with your permission, I'd like to fix this place up a bit." Satan looks at Joe with a mocking expression and mumbles, "Whatever." In a few weeks Satan comes by Joe again and takes a look around. Joe's installed track lighting, there are huge fans venting all the smoke, HEPA filters are maintaining high air quality, and there's air conditioning. Pretty soon everyone's much happier and Joe's become quite a legend. God hears about this and asks Satan how he managed to make it so comfortable. Satan replies, "It's that engineer you set me, the guy's a genius!." God's shocked, "An engineer? Who sent you an engineer? It's a mistake, send him back immediately!." Satan refuses, "No way are you getting him!" God's infuriated, "Send him back now or... I'll sue you!" Satan roars with laughter, "And where are you going to get a lawyer?" (Sorry Howard!)

I'm not sure if it's that a man's sex drive wanes as he ages as much as it may be his sex-interest. I'm 55 and my gf is 41 and we are both at least as active as we have been at any time in the past (and we were both *very* active!) We keep our sex lives interesting, trying new things in new places; there's nothing routine, and most important, we keep it fun. It's possible that a man's interest in sex may diminish if he is not able to get, or maintain, an erection. This is where the drugs come in, if you're referring to Viagra, Levitra, etc. They are for erectile dysfunction (ED), not for sex drive, and ED is definitely linked to increasing age, as well as other factors. Robert

Started way too young, we were both 13. It was the last day of school and we wouldn't see each other all summer. Imagine, two 'good' Catholic school kids in the back seat of a Rambler in broad daylight on a street in Brooklyn - ahh, the good old days! Well I'm 55 now and have had fewer partners than I have years, but that inludes one marriage and a few relationships during which I was faithful. The best part is that, after so many years and all that sex, I'm still learning and definitely still having fun! Robert

Well I bought my GF one of the previous toys you reviewed (the Heart-On) and she LOVES it! I think that this one will find a permanent spot in her business trip luggage. Thanks for some great suggestions!

CL, it's under Massagers & Vibrators then G-Spot. Hopefully this link will take you there: http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...TS&Category=625

Her eyes, definitely her eyes! After the eyes a nice ass does it for me. My GF has the brightest blue eyes that immediately draw attention to them, and a very nice rear as well.

Chocolate and a little wine works well for getting my GF in a romantic mood, but if anything acts as an aphrodesiac, it's the smell of cooking with garlic. If I'm baking some garlic bread or cooking something with a bit of extra garlic when she arrives, then we'll almost certainly not make it out of the kitchen for round one! I don't know why it works and neither does she, but we don't try to analyze it, we just enjoy it

Ok, ok I'll respond! My girl friend gets very wet, more than any woman I've been with, and it's a BIG turn on! When I'm driving home on one of our "lunch breaks" I'll put my hand down her panties and feel how wet she is and just can't wait to get home. She gets so wet that, when we're in a 69 position with her on top, she will actually be dripping on my face. I don't know if it has anything to do with being very wet, but she also tastes better than any woman I've known. I don't know how this could turn a guy off, but then some guys don't like oral either (how sad!)

Oops... sorry for the misunderstanding; but it looks like Mikayla has already provided some excellent suggestions!

Vixen, You'll probably get many different answers since it really differs with each guy. For me, standing close is good, touching is even better. Compliments are always good too. Mentioning that you know a place for drinks (or food, or whatever) that is very private would work (am I just too easy?). It also depends on what you're looking for. Do you want a long term relationship or a one (or two) night stand? If you're looking for the latter then take the direct approach and just ask for what you want. A word of caution though. Unfortunately there's still a double-standard and women who take the direct approach too often, or with the wrong person, can quickly earn an uncomplimentary reputation. If you have some specific questions then ask them here. This board has some very helpful and intelligent men and women.

There are two types that I've seen. One has supports under the small of the back and across the shoulders. The other is a single piece that extends fully from the small of the back to the shoulders. My feeling is that we could be more creative with the latter since there's no fear of falling between the supports. Stirrups are provided but can be moved or removed easily. As far as disguising the hook, one site had a fake smoke detector. I wouldn't need this in the bedroom, but it does open up the possibility of having several hooks mounted throughout the house! The site I'm considering ordering from (I'll only list it since the product isn't available on Too Timid) is passionswing.com. I think that I may have just found our Christmas present to ourselves!

I'm considering installing a swing (sometimes called love or passion swings) in my bedroom. I've seen some quality swings, ones with full back support, and they look like they would be a lot of fun. I haven't met anyone who has used one though. Any experienced users out there willing to share their opinions?

Hey Shy, Have you looked at Gay.com? There's a free membership which is probably limited (like Match.com), but it may give you an idea of what's there. Good luck!