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Restoring old photographs. After a 10-12 hour day at a high stress job, I find that restoring photographs helps me relax (ok, not nearly as much as a couple of rounds in the bedroom!), and it's great to see how happy it make people.

Welcome! I'm sure you'll find this one of the most informative adult information sites around. There are many very intelligent and experienced members who are always willing to share their knowledge. I know that I've learned a lot here. To include an avatar just click on the "My Controls" link in the upper right portion of the screen. On the next page click on the "Edit Avatar Settings" link on the left side about 2/3 of the way down the list. From that control panel you will be able to either select an avatar or upload an image to use as your avatar. Good luck! - Robert

Joe (not his real name) dies suddenly and finds himself at the Pearly Gates being judged. St. Peter faces Joe with a stern look and points to a long set of stairs with smoke billowing from them. Joe is crushed, but he turns and proceeds to walk down the stairs. After a week or so in the fiery depths, Joe approches Satan with an offer. "You know," says Joe, "it's pretty miserable down here. It's really hot, there's no ventilation, the lighting is poor, and the air really smells." Satan appears uninterested, but Joe continues, "I've been an engineer all my life and, with your permission, I'd like to fix this place up a bit." Satan looks at Joe with a mocking expression and mumbles, "Whatever." In a few weeks Satan comes by Joe again and takes a look around. Joe's installed track lighting, there are huge fans venting all the smoke, HEPA filters are maintaining high air quality, and there's air conditioning. Pretty soon everyone's much happier and Joe's become quite a legend. God hears about this and asks Satan how he managed to make it so comfortable. Satan replies, "It's that engineer you set me, the guy's a genius!." God's shocked, "An engineer? Who sent you an engineer? It's a mistake, send him back immediately!." Satan refuses, "No way are you getting him!" God's infuriated, "Send him back now or... I'll sue you!" Satan roars with laughter, "And where are you going to get a lawyer?" (Sorry Howard!)

I'm not sure if it's that a man's sex drive wanes as he ages as much as it may be his sex-interest. I'm 55 and my gf is 41 and we are both at least as active as we have been at any time in the past (and we were both *very* active!) We keep our sex lives interesting, trying new things in new places; there's nothing routine, and most important, we keep it fun. It's possible that a man's interest in sex may diminish if he is not able to get, or maintain, an erection. This is where the drugs come in, if you're referring to Viagra, Levitra, etc. They are for erectile dysfunction (ED), not for sex drive, and ED is definitely linked to increasing age, as well as other factors. Robert

Started way too young, we were both 13. It was the last day of school and we wouldn't see each other all summer. Imagine, two 'good' Catholic school kids in the back seat of a Rambler in broad daylight on a street in Brooklyn - ahh, the good old days! Well I'm 55 now and have had fewer partners than I have years, but that inludes one marriage and a few relationships during which I was faithful. The best part is that, after so many years and all that sex, I'm still learning and definitely still having fun! Robert

Well I bought my GF one of the previous toys you reviewed (the Heart-On) and she LOVES it! I think that this one will find a permanent spot in her business trip luggage. Thanks for some great suggestions!

CL, it's under Massagers & Vibrators then G-Spot. Hopefully this link will take you there: http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...TS&Category=625

Her eyes, definitely her eyes! After the eyes a nice ass does it for me. My GF has the brightest blue eyes that immediately draw attention to them, and a very nice rear as well.

Chocolate and a little wine works well for getting my GF in a romantic mood, but if anything acts as an aphrodesiac, it's the smell of cooking with garlic. If I'm baking some garlic bread or cooking something with a bit of extra garlic when she arrives, then we'll almost certainly not make it out of the kitchen for round one! I don't know why it works and neither does she, but we don't try to analyze it, we just enjoy it

Ok, ok I'll respond! My girl friend gets very wet, more than any woman I've been with, and it's a BIG turn on! When I'm driving home on one of our "lunch breaks" I'll put my hand down her panties and feel how wet she is and just can't wait to get home. She gets so wet that, when we're in a 69 position with her on top, she will actually be dripping on my face. I don't know if it has anything to do with being very wet, but she also tastes better than any woman I've known. I don't know how this could turn a guy off, but then some guys don't like oral either (how sad!)

Oops... sorry for the misunderstanding; but it looks like Mikayla has already provided some excellent suggestions!

Vixen, You'll probably get many different answers since it really differs with each guy. For me, standing close is good, touching is even better. Compliments are always good too. Mentioning that you know a place for drinks (or food, or whatever) that is very private would work (am I just too easy?). It also depends on what you're looking for. Do you want a long term relationship or a one (or two) night stand? If you're looking for the latter then take the direct approach and just ask for what you want. A word of caution though. Unfortunately there's still a double-standard and women who take the direct approach too often, or with the wrong person, can quickly earn an uncomplimentary reputation. If you have some specific questions then ask them here. This board has some very helpful and intelligent men and women.

There are two types that I've seen. One has supports under the small of the back and across the shoulders. The other is a single piece that extends fully from the small of the back to the shoulders. My feeling is that we could be more creative with the latter since there's no fear of falling between the supports. Stirrups are provided but can be moved or removed easily. As far as disguising the hook, one site had a fake smoke detector. I wouldn't need this in the bedroom, but it does open up the possibility of having several hooks mounted throughout the house! The site I'm considering ordering from (I'll only list it since the product isn't available on Too Timid) is passionswing.com. I think that I may have just found our Christmas present to ourselves!

I'm considering installing a swing (sometimes called love or passion swings) in my bedroom. I've seen some quality swings, ones with full back support, and they look like they would be a lot of fun. I haven't met anyone who has used one though. Any experienced users out there willing to share their opinions?

Hey Shy, Have you looked at Gay.com? There's a free membership which is probably limited (like Match.com), but it may give you an idea of what's there. Good luck!

Since I started my sexual activity at a very young age, it always had to be in public places. Coney Island beach was the first place, then followed various parks at night, golf courses, the late night Ferry to Manhattan (very romantic), commuter trains, more than a few back seats (the most recent being the first time I had sex with my current gf), balconies in downtown Chicago buildings, managers' offices working late, conference rooms at work, etc. etc. I suppose I enjoy it more than I thought!

I've never understood why some guys like to pull out and shoot on a woman's face. I've had some women say that they liked the sensation of hot cum spray their face and run down their necks or drip on to their breasts. Personally, I find it much more enjoyable to have a woman finish me off while still in her mouth. There's nothing like the sensation of a warm tongue, and I love having a woman's juices on my tongue and then kissing and exchanging tastes

That could be a tough one shellbell. A friend of mine had a boyfriend who was very into himself. He worked out every day (excessively), tanned nearly every day, shaped his eyebroys, covered his gray hairs, etc. What concerned my friend the most though, was that he wouldn't do anything but straight missionary, and just once - almost just as if he was fulfilling an obligation. Once, when my friend decided to finish herself off, he stormed out in disgust. She had wondered if he was in the closet, but he always had a girlfriend (for a short time.) I know that doesn't mean that he's not gay, but if he doesn't admit it to himself, then there's no way that you're going to know. With some guys I think that it's simply a great deal of insecurity and low self-esteem. No different that a woman with an eating disorder, she's never good enough. If you really care about this guy then you really must confront him with your concerns. Not an easy thing to do but, if you're intent on having a future with him, the honesty has got to start now. Good luck.

HM2: As others have pointed out in this thread, it's a lot harder for a man to orgasm multiple time than it is for a woman. Also quite a bit depends on age, health, stress, and the fear of not being able to perform. I'm not making excuses, but there's lots to consider. Make sure that you husband's health is ok and try to determine if he's stressed - even if he's worried that he may not rise to the task. Being middle-aged as I am (ok, maybe a bit more!) it can be very frustrating not to be able to get an erection even when there's a beautiful naked woman wanting you. My girlfriend is 14 years youger than I and, fortunately for me, is very patient. While we have sex at least 3 or 4 times a week (we live far apart), most times I can only cum twice. But, since I really want to please her, I'll make her cum a few more times until I'm ready again. Most times just seeing her cum, and the smell of sex in the bedroom (or where ever) is enough to get me ready again. But sometimes it's not. After you husband cums, continue the sex talk, get a sexy DVD playing, talk dirty to him, surprise him, shock him! As far as ejaculating too fast, well HE has to work on that. There's plenty written on how to make it take longer, and there are desensitizing creams that he can use. Maintaing an active sex life isn't easy, but it's definitley worth the effort. Good luck!

I'll be brief, need to start preparing Thanksgiving dishes! I think that you're absolutely correct, honesty needs to come first. If this guy has no idea what he's in for, you and your husband should at the very least begin some sexy talk after a few drinks. If you just start showing a bit too much skin he can easily get the wrong idea about you and feel very uncomfortable because he's your husband's friend. He needs to know from the start that both you and your husband want this to happen. Furthermore, it should only happen if BOTH of you want it to. Are you comfortable having a three-some with a guy who you don't find attractive? Or does it make you husband feel less threatened because you're not attracted to him? Three-somes can be fun, but your relationship needs to be rock-solid first. Give it lots of thought and share your concerns with your husband. Only go forward if you are 100% comfortable, and excited! Hope this helps, and have a Happy Thanksgiving.

It just worked fine for me Kate. Love reading you short stories, especially in the morning, definitely wake me UP