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Someone who makes me feel big inside, like I am something of value worth putting effort into.

I am thinking.

I am 50, I have have been with between 25 and 30 women. However just 4 in the last 22 years. My ex-wife for 20 years and two short flings after the divorce and finally with my Asawa who will certainly be my last. I was 18 when I lost my virginity.

Though I do not read during it, this sight gives me ideas for what to say: http://dirtyboy2.blogspot.com/2005/11/dripping-wet.html

From a male perspective. I love it when my asawa squirts. It took me a while to convince her it was not pee though.

Good to here you are going to become an attorney. Any ideas on what type. I do criminal defense. Look up "Roxanna Shepard Plains Murder" on the internet. It was a death penalty case I was on. I am Kirk Krutilla "allit" is part of my last name spelled backwards.

As I await my asawa to get her visa, I write stories for her about our sexual experiences. I don't want to enter all these in the contest. Could there be a spot dedicated to stories?

Interesting. I have a friend at the bar "April". She has lived a pretty wild life. She talks about hitchhiking nude back from Sturgis when she was 18. She says that sperm is good for the skin. All that being said my Asawa has beautiful small little nubins so it is something I probably won't experience unless she puts on a lot of weight, and it is not necessary for me to try as she fulfills me in every way possible.

She is becoming a nurse. We usually chat all the time and can't. So I made up this little story about one of our sexual experiences. Look up Boracay on the internet; it will add to the flavaor. Boracay The moon slowly rose over the distant horizon and cast its silky light across the sea. The wave caps or small, we are in the inland sea on the Island of Boracay. In the air the smell of the salty fresh air is present. It is cool now, and humid. The person belting out versus of Barry Manilow has subsided now, for an hour, the crowd on the beach has dissipated. Our daughter is with Monica, my Asawa’s friend back in the room. She is laid on the blanket on the sand in the moonlight, I feel a delicious sense of anticipation. I look at her laying on the blanket, naked but for her black bra and panties, soft, already aroused, wanting me. I am hard. I roll her over my hands slipping her black panties off, feeling my hard cock between her legs, as I spread the oil on her back. Releasing her bra and rubbing the oil softly over her shoulders and down her back, kissing her neck softly, to a low moan. I reach around and feel the nice small breast, and massage the oil into them. I feel her tits firm up, and I want to enter you. I twist her nipples while I pinch them to a low moan. I pick up the bottle again and spread more oil on her. Moving my fingers up her legs, massaging her thigh, inner and feeling the heat from her pussy. I rub the oil around, not touching her delight, just softly teasing. I move my hands up to her firm tits hanging nicely in the moonlight, and feel her nice long neck with my tongue. The full moon night reflects off her beautiful oiled butt. I move my hands between her thighs once again. She arches her back as one hand massages her nipples and the other hand plays with her wet pussy. Her beautiful pussy that she has shaved just hours ago. I tease her clit with my fingers as her wet thighs part. She needs me inside her. I turn her over. I run my tongue over her clit; she moans. I thrust my fingers into her, feeling her tight vagina suck my fingers in. I hear her moan as she thrust her pelvis meeting every thrust of my fingers. “Please do me” she cries out. I am hot an horny, watching her beautiful stomach in the reflection of the moon, thrust up and down. I lay down and position her on top of me. She smiles as she slides down on top of me. Soon she is riding my cock wildly, her hair flying all around her face, her nails running down my chest and her head thrown back. I spank her firm butt. Soon she is moaning again as I start to move, start to take care of my own. I too moaned as my cock swelled up inside of her tight pussy and I pump more cum into her. She screams as my cum triggers her own orgasm. She shudders and falls into my arms. Holding grasping our hot oils and sweat feeling warm against our bodies. I feel her small firm tits against my chest. She feels so good. We lay there, the moon filling her body as she gently kisses me. After a while, she kisses my chest and works her tongue down to my cock, now getting hard again. She swallows my cock with her mouth and hand gently stroking and bobbing up and down. I reach down and caressed her breasts, taking a nipple in each hand and pinching them, She moans. The moans vibrate along my cock and I begin to pump cum into her throat. I look at her as the cum flows gently out of her mouth and down the side of her lip. She looks so sexy, a fantasy I will remember and use when I am away from her. We get up, hold hands and walk into the reflection of the moon skipping across the in land sea.

I tried it once about 30 years ago. It was not much of a turn on then, but I was probably doing it wrong. Do you like it? What are your techniques?

I would love some bondage both ways. What is your favorite?

I would certainly take that as an indication she might be willing to go for more. As metioned above, I would ask her and go slow. I was once with a woman who I guess liked rimming, (I think that was the term). She told her next boyfriend I was the best ever for her. (not a wise idea). If she is up to it certainly give it a try.

Is it he can't or he won't. Things like medication will diminish sex drive. If his sex drive is purely selfish, maybe you should be looking for another SO. I know both extremes. My ex would not have sex with me basically. I had to fight through alot of passive aggressive behavior and pretty much lost all desire for her because sex was impossible. (She was a very beautiful, sexy woman). My Asawa now has a higher sex drive than myself. If she wants it; she gets it. It is all about pleasing my partner. Visa versa, she will do anything to please me. This is not only in sex for both of us, but in life also. I can't describe how fulfilling it is to go through life with someone who is totally into making your life wonderful (with boundries), versus having to fight through life with someone who is constantly into themselves.

Thanks for the input. One thing I have learned from this forum is that I need to communicate more. Coming out of a long marriage where sex was supposed to be spontaneous governed by a strict set of rules, I pretty much stopped communicating. (Sex with a passive aggresive is not fun). My Asawa seems real open to communication so I probably should be more direct.

Filipino for wife.

You seem like my kind of Gal. Thank God I am with my type of Gal!!!!!!!

I think advice above is good. But, he might be passive-agressive so discussion will not work. My ex wanted totally spontaneous sex, subject to a strict set of rules. The first thing I would do is see a marriage counsler. I know he is just your bf, but, I think there might be underlying issues.

Just a thought, my asawa is Filipino. She was upset because I have the average size American Popo and her other 2 sexual encounters were with Filipino's who were much smaller. She almost cried because she couldn't fit all of me in her mouth. The tip of the popo is the most sensitive and the rest can be done by hand. I get wonderful bjs from her, so just do what you can. As a man I think all women who give good bjs are wonderful. In my experience (20-30) I have found 2.

Definitly true. My advice is to get to it soon. I remember my mom saying "Why don't I have orgasms like the are described by D.H. Lawrence". I don't tell my mom this, she is 82 now, but he was describing the g-spot. I am an attorney. As your attorney I advise you to hit your SO's g-spot immeadiatly.

Thanks for your response. I search the internet. But I often get bad advice. Great to be on this forum and get the information.

The breast are nice, they hang just a little as I look at her suckable nipples. This is my second trip to Davao City and I want to give her great sex. We lay on the bed at the Marco Polo hotel. We had walked by the pool earlier. I had a plan for that later. She has no bra on, I see her breast hang through her loose shirt. Those beautiful breast. Earlier, when her daughter Sophia was with us. Jenny grabbed my hand and put it on her breast. “No” her daughter screamed; “Those are mine. I run my hands through her dark hair and kiss her warm wet mouth. Her mouth fucks my tongue as I feel her small breast soft breast. I lift her to the bed where I start kissing her neck and then her beautiful brown skinned titties. I feel between her thighs as she spreads her legs. She is wet already. I suck both tits sucking on her nipples and stroking her warm welcome pussy. I pull her baby blue panties off her. She gyrates her hips as I move my mouth slowly down toward her shaved pussy. Down to her sweet tasty wet warm pussy where my tongue laps up her sweet fluid. “Suck my clit” she cries out I lick it gently, then flicking my tongue against it. Now for something new, I slip my middle finger into her wet warm pussy so tight. That is why I like fucking her. Her pussy is so tight and it just sucks my seed from my cock. I move the middle finger in and out of her warm wet pussy, I am so hard but I will wait. I suck her clit now holding it in my mouth as she is begins to buck and it is too soon. I pull my mouth from her clit and finger from her vagina. “No” she yells out. I insert my tongue into her vagina which is opening up and seems to be trying to suck me in. I move my tongue up to her clit flicking my tongue over it. I now insert two fingers into her sweltering wet pussy, palm up, feeling for the roughness of the g-spot. I move my fingers slowly, her pussy is so tight, I think of the pleasure it gives me once I get my hard big cock into her. Her pussy slowly loosens and I move my fingers back and forth in her gushing pussy until the spot hardens. As her clit hardens I know she is ready for the rough stuff. I lick her little clit hard and move my fingers quickly in and out of her. I grasp with the other hand one of her nice little mellons and squeeze it feeling the tits harden. Her hips gyrate forcing her tiny, tasty clit against my tongue. My fingers rush back and forth in her beautiful pussy. “I am cumming” she yells out. As her body convulses I hold my tongue hard against her clit. She shakes and jumps several feet from me still shaking. I am so hard, I look her beautiful face, tits and butt. I have to have her. Slowly, she relaxes and I begin to tease her with my tongue. Sucking those beautiful erect nipples. Then slowly moving my tongue up to her neck, long and narrow; she moans. Slowly I move my tongue down over the belly button stopping momentarily and back down around her pussy to her inner thighs. She is moving her hips again. I lick her sweet pussy lips then pick her up and put her on the table where I have I have left a bag. From the bag I remove some lubricant and spread it on me and in her. I am an average sized American, she is not built for me. I slowly enter her;” are you okay I ask” she is so tight. “I am okay” she says, I go slow, gradually she loosens. I feel her warm wonderful pussy lips surround my popo. She moans, and as she does, I remove a clit vibrator from the bag. “Try this” she does. I grab her legs and move them up and back toward her breast. I watch her beautiful brown breast sway as I I keep moving slowly in and out of her. I look at her beautiful brown eyes and black hair, now tangled. I try, to last but cannot. I let her have a whole load. I have not beat off for 3 months just for this moment. I am shaking; it feels so wonderful. I am so turned on by the brown skinned beauty in front of me. I feel bad though, she has not cum. However, I am still somewhat hard. Karma I think. Karma, so elusive. Twenty-three years earlier I was with the virgin. Gave a great blow job. We almost did it, but no condoms. As I walked my 3 1/2 miles to work out with weights the next day I though damn, I wish I had a dollar to buy some condoms. At that time a 5 dollar bill floats by in the drainage ditch I am walking by. “Thank you God” I scream. Destiny, it had been to close for her. She broke up with me that night but pursued me for the next year. In Davao City, twenty-three years later. I move slowly in her, being careful, because I know if I get out of her, I cannot re-enter. She moves the clit vibrator on her clit as I grasp her tight firm ass and watch her beautiful breast heave. “I am cuming” she moans. I watch her as she shakes. My popo gets shot out of her pussy as it convulses. This should be worth a year of fantasies I think. We shower. We go to dinner. We will go to the pool later. After it is officially closed.

This is where I got the idea Basic Technique ideas: #1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day. #2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded. At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle. One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her. Let me know if and / or how it worked for you

I thought it was real interesting. About 5% of the women lovers I have been with have had an equal sex drive. It is so nice to be with someone with an equal sex drive.

I would not say arrogant. I would say just a real fun lady. Your lovers are obviously well pleased. I can certainly say that my asawa's adventourism has made my life wonderful. Sorry to hear that Kirk. I was with a non pleasing sex partner for a long time. It is strange, like you I would have done anything for her. It was such a pleasure to meet my new one, who during our first sexual encounter, after giving me a wonderful bj, told me that is she could do anything better, just to tell her. I hope things work out for you and your wife. I know how frustrating it can get.