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  1. Dave, I used to have the same problem. I was multi-orgasmic (more than one orgasm per sexual encounter), but once I came, I felt like I couldn't stand to have any more clitorial stimulation for several minutes. Well, one time my husband didn't take no for an answer, and he kept it up (if I had reallllly wanted him to stop, he would have, but I wanted to try and see what continuing was like, too). At first I felt as if it was painful, but when I came again it was mind blowing. I realized it wasn't really pain, but just being super-sensitive. There is a difference. Now I absolutely love it, and usually come five or six times before I finally say "Wait, let me catch my breath." Encourage her to just once let you continue and I think she will come around (or again?).
  2. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, HOWARD! Sorry I was inactive at the time. I've been really busy with school. And believe it or not, I think I was on that site a few weeks ago. We had to do an object speech, and I did mine on the antique powder horns we have, and was getting info for the speech. I believe it is one of the sites I checked out, but not one I ended up using.
  3. The only thing I would change about my husband isn't what most people are posting. I would go back and warn him about the times he ended up getting hurt and the hep B immunization he had to take that have left him disabled. We still please each other and our love life and sex life are both good, but it's not the same as it was when we were younger, and I would still like to have that.
  4. Well, for a while the military kept our sex life hot--when you are separated for a time, whether it is a few weeks TDY or a year for deployment, that sex when you get back together is better than newlywed sex (because you have learned more about each other)! But for 31 years my husband and I have never stopped experimenting with new ideas (recently bring toys into the mix) and new ways to excite each other. And, we hug, kiss, caress each other a lot through out the day. We don't wait until we decide to have sex to be passionate with each other.
  5. Wow, this subject got a rather emotional. But I still wanted to weigh in on it. I've been open with my kids about sex, and they realized as young teens we had a pretty active sex life when they would notice how often our bedroom door would be locked. I do discuss somethings with them, especially my daughter, but often get "That's TMI, Mom," from my sons. I have wondered about introducing my daughter to Too Timid as she doesn't have a boyfriend right now, how she would react, so it is the opposite problem. But one of my problems from way back was that sex was private. I was never taught that it was bad (although my parents did sort of freak out when they caught me masturbating at a very early age), but private. I do have one girlfriend I can discuss sex with, but with some of the others sex is barely alluded to. And it has been very difficult to open up here, even with people who don't know me, but I am working on it!
  6. Great new addition! Since I've been married for 31 years, this is wonderful to see!
  7. We were just discussing this in my Economics class yesterday. My professor is a firm believer that government gets too involved in peoples' lives. Some points that were made in class were made here in the forum, too. First and foremost, this should be a choice of the parent, not mandated by the government. While I supported giving my children polio vaccines, and even measles, I sometimes have wondered about the viruses that cause less problems for children (mumps, rubella and now chicken pox). I've even read articles that these type of viruses can even make the immune system stronger, but I don't believe that has been proven. I don't even want to get into the hep B vaccine, as my husband was forced to take that in the military (he was an MP so considered a first responder and they had to have it) and he developed severe adverse reactions to the vaccine--his body thinks he has hepatitis and it has been linked to the vaccine. Now we have another vaccine that has not been totally proven, in my opinion. But what I really don't like is that fact that the drug company is lobbying for this. They are the ones trying to take our freedom of choice away.
  8. The first thing is showing love for me. When I met my husband I was going through emotional issues where I really needed to know I was loved. Even though those issues have long since been worked through, I still love the fact that my husband is very verbal and fairly demonstrative in showing his love for me. Second is a good sense of humor. That is one thing that makes a man sexy to me. Looks are not that important. I mean we may all look a second time at someone great looking, but what keeps us coming back may not be the looks. Third is kindness and a good heart. Willing to do things for others, and putting his loved ones first.
  9. Well, after six days of ice and below freezing temps, we finally started thawing out on Thursday, and all the roads are clear now, and most parking lots. Friday morning we got some more thaw, then Friday afternoon it started raining and is still raining. That was our best case scenario for this weekend. Our worst case scenerio was an inch of ice before it started snowing, and then 8-10" of snow. It could still snow some tonight, but I think the worst is probably over. The gym has been closed, my belly dancing classes cancelled, school has been out all week (but not college). The only problem now is the mud in the back yard that my dogs are tracking in. I keep a Swiffer wet on the ready for the kitchen but my living room carpet will have to be shampooed when this is over. For right now I'm trying not to worry about it. That's what I have the carpet cleaner for....
  10. I had used a vibrator regularly for about 3 years before I met my husband, so I just introduced him to it early when we were dating. It has never bothered him, anything that gives me satisfaction is fine with him. Now we are experimenting with all different types of toys and he loves using them on me.
  11. A Naughty Adult Survey - Be honest. If you aren't honest then what is the point? 1) Ever been to a strip club ? No 2) Ever been to a bar? Yes 3) Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club? No 4) Ever been so drunk you had to be carried out of somewhere? No 5) Kissed someone of the same sex? No 6) Thrown up from drinking too much? Yes 7) Had sex in a car? Yes 8) Had sex at the beach? No 9) Had sex in a movie theater? No 10) Had sex in a bathroom? Yes 11) Had sex at work? No 12) Have you ever been in an "adult" store? No (only on-line) 13) Bought something from an adult store? Only on-line 14) Have you spent over $100.00 in one visit to the adult store? No 16) Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider? No 17) Have you been caught having sex? Yes 18) Are your breasts real? Yes 19) Have you ever kissed a stranger? No 20) Does anyone have naughty pics of you? Yes
  12. Trying to stay warm here in Oklahoma. We have had about 1 1/2" of ice. The main roads are OK, but the residential areas are still iced over and treacherous. Schools are closed. I just saw two wreckers come by the house with vehicles (our street is completely residential), so that's not a good sign. This isn't normal for this area, but we do get ice storms occasionally, but usually it is warmed up the next day. We've had below freezing temperatures since Friday, and we are finally predicted to be above freezing on Thursday, but Friday, Saturday and Sunday have chances of snow/rain/wintry mix in the forecast. We lost power for about 3 hours late Friday afternoon. We have a generator, so I wasn't too worried--we have a gas range, so I'd be able to cook and we'd be able to keep warm enough. But I was still glad when the power came back on.
  13. I came across this website today, thought I would share. Very beautiful/interesting photographs! Earth Erotica
  14. For men, I like fairly short hair, but that probably comes from all the years my husband was in the military. For women, long.....mine is waist length, and as long as it is clean and well kept, the longer the better!
  15. This picture has always made me want to run out and buy some Stetson cologne!
  16. My husband has brought me to orgasm with my nipples only. It is amazing how many different ways a woman's body will orgasm. And I'm also glad to know the turbo nipple clamps work. The review with it is rather vague, but I have been interested in them. Thanks for adding that in your reply. They are going on my wish list.
  17. Tyger--not a nice way to ring in the New Year. It definitely could have been worse, though--I'm glad you didn't break anything. Take care of yourself. And Liesl, we need to stay in touch. I start my Bachelor's Degree (I have my Associate's) next Tuesday (school starts back Monday, but all my classes are Tuesday and Thursday). I got my Associate's on-line, but am attending a regular University for my Bachelor's. I'm 53 and rather apprehensive. But my husband and kids, who have all been through this before, tell me I'll do just fine.
  18. I've been thinking about this and I can't come up with a definitive answer. My husband and I have just always talked. We've told each other what we liked, what we would like to try, and if something was really good, we talk about it even outside the bedroom. We share fantasies in the bedroom and driving in the car (we have been married 31 years and can still make a round trip drive from Oklahoma to Florida and still not run out of things to talk about). We just talk and tell each other everything.
  19. I was thinking about this while working on supper and realized that both the British Sterling and the cherry pipe tobacco were both used by the same guy I used to date. I still buy British Sterling for my husband (although he prefers Old Spice), but alas I know no one that still smokes a pipe. Funny, I hate cigarette and cigar smoke, but pipe tobacco I never minded.
  20. I hope everyone has a safe and Happy New Year. May 2007 be a wonderful year!
  21. I'll have to watch for it. I like her movies!
  22. Hope you feel better soon!
  23. I love the smell of the old cologne British Sterling. Ummmm.....I also love the smell of Obsession on other women, it smells horrible on me. And I know what pipe tobacco Howard referred to. That was yummy, too.
  24. Same problem here with the small ones, and I have done Kegels for years. I like the one with two joined together, rather than four. You don't have to have the Ben Wa balls to do the Kegels, it just makes you more aware. For years I have used stop lights to remind myself to do them. Every time I stop at a stop light, I do my Kegels until the light is green again. You can use other things to trigger yourself to do them.
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