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Here is a funny one that my best friend sent me in an email yesterday.

I'd wait on suggestions from some of the more active/experienced members on the site. But I wanted to add my 2 cents even though I'm not and have never been married. I understand that you want to make your marriage work, but you can't do it alone. I feel like you've pulled out all the stops and he still isn't pulling his weight in the relationship. And to me, it isn't just about the sex. If he can't put in the effort on something that is supposed to be fun for BOTH of you, then he clearly isn't interested in putting effort into doing ANYTHING (not just sexual) to make you happy. If I was that upset and crying so much, my boyfriend better at least try to talk to me about it or he'd be getting the boot. Counseling could help, but I don't see how much is going to change through counseling if he already knows what your complaint is and won't try to fix it. I guess I am of the opinion that you've done everything you can. It seems as though you have already flat out told him that if something doesn't change (and SOON) then you are going to leave him...and still nothing has changed. If this is the case, you are going to have to actually do it or suffer with his selfishness for the rest of your life. I realize that it's hard to end a marriage after so many years, but you have to think about what is going to keep you happy and healthy.

Thanks for the more in depth description!

Hehe, it's a very common disorder of the temporomandibular joint in the jaw. For me it is basically just pain and tension in my jaw that is brought on mostly by stress. It certainly makes blow jobs more of a challenge when your jaw is so tense!

OC, do you have TMJ? I know personally that it's always been hard for me to complete a blowjob because of my TMJ. My jaw would get so sore and tight. For some reason I haven't had that problem with my current boyfriend. I think I'm SO comfortable around him that I am relaxed enough not to have the old jaw problems. The tips put forth by Howard and Mikayla about changing technique are what I have always done to try to ease the problems. But also, make sure you are totally relaxed when doing the deed. Even stress from work or something else could add to extra jaw tension!

Thanks for your opinion. We are very vocal about what we do and don't like, so you are definitely right. I'll bring it up with him later and see what he says!

I LOVE girl on girl porn as well. I agree with Tyger, women know how to please each other. It's so hot to watch that.

I've only done this a couple times years ago with my exboyfriend. I definitely enjoyed it and have been thinking about adding it to the mix with my new boyfriend, but I have some drawbacks. I'm only a B cup so I wasn't sure if my boyfriend would still enjoy it. Obviously that is enough to do this act with, but what does everyone think about doing this with a girl who isn't so well endowed?

I am!

My eyes, my butt, my smile, and my feet! I don't even like feet, but I think mine are so cute and sexy.

I wish I lived near you. I'm always looking for babysitting jobs I can't give you much advice as a youngin with no kids and probably more time to spend with my boyfriend than I'll ever have after this year. I did, however, just want to comment to say that it's nice to see parents who are committed to spending time with their children even if it means making sacrifices. I can't tell you how many parents I have recently babysat for, worked for, etc. who spend far too little time with their children to make time for each other. I'm not saying it isn't nice for couples to have alone time every now and then, but it's nice to have family time too. Definitely find time for each other whenever you can, even if it means taking your daughter to the park as someone else mentioned. Playdates for your child might be another way to have alone time without reliable babysitters or neglecting your child. Maybe try to find other parents in your situation who would be willing to watch your daughter for a couple hours, and you can return the favor later. That way you don't have to fork over any cash, you know the person has experience with children, and your child won't feel like they are being left behind!

Okay, I've been SO busy with midterms that I haven't gotten a chance to post much lately. The router at my townhouse is also broken so it's been hard for me to get on the site (since it's a bit difficult to do so from campus). Anyway, I've completed the second-to-last task and have yet to post it. For the fantasy task, I've been wanting to have sex in the back of my boyfriend's pick-up truck ever since we started dating. I tell him a lot of my fantasies, but somehow hadn't gotten to this one yet. I met him at his work after he got off late one night last week. When he came out to his truck I was sitting on the tailgate. I told him about how I'd been wanting to have sex in the back of the truck ever since I'd met him. He happily obliged after I revealed this fantasy by driving down a secluded/semi closed off road near his work. I couldn't complete Mikayla's task because it's that time of the month and my cramps are out of control (sorry if that's too much info). I hope to be done in time for the dessert task...

I LOVE undressing my boyfriend, but I also love for him to strip for me! It's so sexy when I sit back and watch him and get to see all of his body and how it moves as he takes his clothes off... Howard, was there another post about men stripping that I missed? I'd be interested in reading what people had/have to say about it.

Female: Angelina Jolie Scarlett Johansson Male: John Travolta (circa Grease) Brad Pitt

I like the tips that Howard gave as well. My boyfriend and I have only been together a few months, and I was pleased to find that he is very adventurous and extremely open to suggestions (I make sure they sound this way instead of like criticism) as far as pleasing me is concerned. He loves to try anything to make me happy. He used to play melophone and trumpet in the marching band, so I especially look forward to giving him the "buzzing" idea tonight I'll let you know how it goes!