Thank you so much, MystryKitten. I have never had the kind of relationship with my mom that would allow questions. In fact, my mother sat down the day before my wedding and said, "Well, since you're a nurse, I figure you know more about sex than I do, but do you have any questions." I had lots of questions, but couldn't have voiced them to her for anything. I have worked very hard to have the kind of relationship with my kids that I never had with my mom. My 17 year old frequently tells me that her friends can't believe the things she tells me, because they would never be able to tell their mothers. I believe it's something you have to truly want, and be willing to work at. Anyway, thanks for your comment. It means a lot.