I agree, even if I have the same problems as Virgin. @Virgingirl: You are 27 years old, take a stand and if so, move out. Get a job and your license (This is coming from someone who is always being bitched at to do that), go to a bar, flirt with men and don't stop until one gives you their number. You need to take control of your life because all this 'guilt' you have will take a toll on you. @Mikayla- That last paragraph about the big 'O' cracked me up ! I can so imagine that in my head. Liesl