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Hi again, As for Mikayla's post on fidelity in a relationship like the one of her friend's... I share your view. One cannot be held a hostage in a serious relationship where large stakes are involved. Love, friendship, togetherness, shared life experiences, good times, bad times, shared friends, finance... Not to mention the children. I have always regarded a relationship as a chair with four legs. It is up to everyone to define what the legs are, but for me, one of them has always been sex and intimacy. The point is, a chair can stand on three legs, too. But should there be a tiny little gust of wind or inbalance, the chair is sure to tip over. When there is a lot to lose, one could find alternative ways to "fix the broken leg". I have self been in a situation where I have very seriously weighed the option of getting my attention from someone else in order to save what is worth saving. Only that time, I finally decided that I can deal with the loss. So I broke up with her. These are not easy issues. And they are not supposed to be. I don't know if cheating is sometimes the only way to remain sane in a relationship. Nor do I know if it's always wrong. But if it comes to weighing the alternative, it surely is a bit tragic. Always.

This goes to both J and Mikayla's friend. I feel you. I believe that most of us who have experience of a long term relationship are familiar with this issue, at least to some extent. Whether it is about sex or some other major area in a relationship, I hope you know that drastic changes can happen. If they have happened one way they most definitely can change the other way, too. And it can happen quickly. I just hope that if you find it worth fighting for, you wouldn't lose the faith. My fingers are crossed for you. The thing I have always wondered is: Do people with drastically decreased libido miss the feeling of craving for sex and intimacy? And if so, could that person be somehow reminded of that feeling so that the old flame would fire up again? After all, the craving cannot be initiated by anyone else, can it?

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Hi Moontide, I don't know if there is or isn't something wrong with him but here's a thought: Could you maybe make oral sex something a bit over the top? A bit more kinky, perhaps? You could give him blowjobs - ten second tease or all the way - in inappropriate places or moments. That way, it maybe wouldn't be a part of your bed sex, but it might take another kind of permanent place in your sex life.

Last year in Barcelona, Spain, we got a bullet and some lube from a vending machine at a gas station. We thought that it is only right that your nearest Shell station can provide you with the kind of lubrication you need.

Mikayla. Do you know if the wife of your friend has seen this thread?

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The archipelago is amazingly beautiful this time of the year.

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Thanks. I definitely gave me a pat in the back. And, of course, ate more than I should've afterwords.

What kind of a miserable bastard goes running on a Friday evening? I just did.

12 Gauge, I think you just answered your own question.

Anyone else? Please. Otherwise you all make me look like a sad and lone wanker.

Oh yes. You definitely need a good spanking to get your act straight. Bad, bad, bad girl.

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Hi All, As we are all getting more and more familiar with each other in here, why not introduce ourselves in terms of what kind of porn turns us on. So, the name of the game is: 1) Give a link to a very typical porn clip that is sure to make you horny. 2) Point out what in particular it is that appeals to you in the clip.

My my. The ladies at TT have gone totally crazy. And don't I just love it.

How could anyone have anything negative to say about those lovely breasts! Beautiful indeed.

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Haha! I guess hearing him say that didn't make you feel too bad...

Lesbian dreams of your ex can make a man melancholic.