sexygranny

Hi Tyger, I really like The Woman's Gourmet Sex Book by Peggy And Even Burke. They have alot of wonderful suggestions in there! I bought my hubby The Man's Gourmet Sex Book and he has not even looked at it yet. Another book I bought is Creative Screwing By Nannette Laree Hernandez but I have not had the time to read it yet. so I'll have to let you know on that one. sexygranny

Hello trishy, Well just wanted to remind you that there are many way for your lover to please you with his tongue, fingers (and I'm sure more that I can't think of right now) not just his penis. If he is a considerate lover he will make sure that get pleasure from making love.As you get more comfortable with him and your relationship grows you can introduce toys into the mix.I thought my hubby would be against toys being brought into the bedroom but boy, was I wrong. Also the Kegals sound like a great idea. I think i'll give them a try too. Also don't let him know that you think he may be on the small side it won't be good for his confidence or the sex. Have fun honey sexygranny

onlyone, I am so sorry to hear about your husbands passing ((hugs)) that must have been very hard on you. I am so glad that you have found a wonderful man and I'm also glad you found this forum. I just wanted you to know that i know what you mean about feeling niave, when it comes to sex. I have been married for 40 years and that is how I feel sometimes. I have learned so much on this forum. To answer your question I am not sure. I do know that there is stuff like good head gel for men. You may want to try that. LoL, I know that someone will be around to be more help then I am. sexygranny

My would like to try one of the Liberator shapes. I have been playing with the idea of buying one but have not decided on one yet.

Oh, thats so sweet!! Valntyn, Hope you have a great time when your hubby gets home!! Tyger, That is so neat that you all have been able stay friends and stay in touch!

Valntyn, Is Thurisas your hubby?

Wow, I didn't even know this was possible until I read it here. I guess you do learn something new everyday!

Thanks katprr, more great ideas!! I love the strip club idea. I think I may try that for him this weekend but I will have to leave out the pole because I would proably kill myself trying to do that and wow the hooker one is great too! It all sounds like so much fun. Thanks for all the great ideas!! I'll keep you posted

Happy birthday to both of you !! Hope you both have a wonderful birthday!!

katprr and Valntyn are so right you should get tested. I know I would just drive myself crazy with worry and you maybe worrying over nothing. So to just be on the safe side. ((hugs)) sexygranny

Thank you for the great ideas. I just didn't realize that there were so many costumes and stuff to make sex fun and exciting! I feel like a kid in a candy store . coming on here and seeing all the toys and all the ideas and information and then looking at the lingerie web sites it is all so much fun. I just wish that I had known how fun it could all be when I was younger but now I'm making up for lost time !! This will be the first birthday for either of us since my transformation and I want it to be very special. Valntyn, I love your idea with the foam finger and the black smudges under my eyes. I have a red (red and white are the team colors) mostly see through babydoll I could wear with it. I think I would be to shy to have nothing on but I love the idea! Ginger J, very cute video made me laugh! want2know, you are so right this is something me and my hubby will have to talk about. I do think I would like to try doing a roleplay it sounds like so much fun. Just thinking about it makes me excited to try new things. There was a cop costume on one of the lingerie sites I thought looked sexy. I will talk to him and see if he would like to give it a try. sexygranny

Welcome to the board, you'll love it here . I know I do

What does everyone think about costumes? My Dh and I are big football fans and my sexyhubbys birthday and the first game day for our favorite team is on the same day.So I was thinking I may get a Referee costume to wear for him. I guess what I want to know is do you think costumes like that are sexy? I have worn lingerie for him but never a costume. I'm not sure that it would lead to a roleplay or not because that is not something we have talked much about. I just want to wear something sexy and different for him and something fun . What do you all think? They also have sexy football girl costumes and Cheerleader costumes. Boy, I 'm not sure what I should get. sexygranny

Those are funny Tyger, I really like the Oscar Meyer Wiener one.

WifeMomSlave, How was your anniversary? what did you end up doing for your hubby? also how is your puppy doing? I hope the little sweetie is feeling better sexygranny

Hi starfallz, First, I want to thank you and your husband!! I can sure understand how you feel about having sex with a house full of people but I would tell you to go for it! quietly but go for it. You and your husband have been away from each other for a while and I don't think his grandparents would mind you two fooling around a bit. I know I you were my kids I wouldn't mind at all. I would actually be worried if they were not fooling around. Thurisas and Howard gave you great advice !! So just have fun with your hubby. ((Hugs)) sexygranny

, thank you for the laugh!

Welcome, This is a great forum with wonderful, caring people. You will love it here! As far as not knowing what to say, I feel the same sometimes but just join in and have some fun I love Tyger's idea of a date night. Taking time for each other alone can help with keeping the romance alive in your marriage. I also wanted to add if you don't already help her with chores around the house, please start. I know when I had five little boys running around the house and all the chores to do Sex was the last thing on my mind. I was just way to tired to even think about it, let alone do it. So if your not doing that already give it a try. It can't hurt and maybe it will help Sexygranny

So glad to see you back and that your feeling a little better. Take care of yourself honey, and I will be keeping you in my prayers. sexygranny

These sound like fun! I may have to add them to my shopping list The game you made up sounds great too.

Those are all good but I say Chocolate,Chocolate,Chocolate !!!

Happy anniversary!!! So glad to hear you puppy will be fine Well, I guess I would say make a nice dinner and dessert, wine, lots and lots of candles. Maybe after dinner you could do a little strip tease for him. Sorry, I'm really not very creative but I will keep thinking and try to come up with something better. I really like Thurisas's idea! very sexy!

thank you all ! I guess I was just worried I had caused trouble for the board. My husband tells me I worry too much and in this case I guess he was right. Mike, you didn't hijack the thread so no need to apologize and I don't feel you were dis-respectfull at all. I am new to computers and forums like this and how everyone can post their own opinions without any problems. LOL, I like that because I know that I can post my opinion without having to worry and I really do like hearing everyones thoughts on this. Well, the kids will be back next week . We are having a big party for july 4th and will be having all the kids and grandkids to the house. I know that the three will be staying for a few days but I'm not sure about anyone else staying. If they do I'm not sure where we'll put them Valntyn, I like the shower idea.Now that would sure surprise my sexyhubby. sexygranny

WOW, I will have to give all of these tips a try. My sexyhubby loves getting oral but does not climax from it very often. Looks like he is in for a surprise tonight. sexygranny

Thank you sweetheart, I just don't want any hurt feeling or anything. you saying that makes me feel a little better sexygranny