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My penis would get immediately hard! "Come here". I grab your hand and then the back of your neck to draw you to me. I begin to kiss you deeply, inserting my tongue and then sucking your tongue into my mouth. You press your breasts against my chest. Your breathing is slow and deep. Your body heat begins to increase. I move my hand to the back of your head and gather a handful of your hair. I know that this makes you hot! I then pull your hair firmly enough that you tilt you head to the side and towards the ceiling exposing your neck and ear. My mouth moves back and forth between both areas liberally alternating between nibbling, biting and licking there. As my other hand massages your arms and breasts, I notice the goosebumps covering your skin. Your breathing is deeper. You body heat is definately rising, along with my dick. You begin to work your hand to my penis. I tell you to take it out. I then apply a bit of downward pressure on your shoulders and then tell you that your wonder lips, mouth and tongue need to be on my dick. "Suck my dick. Your mouth is so good, especially when you suck my dick and lick my balls". As you are begining to really enjoy yourself lick, sucking and nuzzling my dick and balls, I tell you to get up. My penis comes out of your mouth with a "pop!". You give me that pouty disappointed look. My penis is so hard now that it hurts, but there is so much more to come. I don't say a word, but rather I pick you up, put you on the bed face down and tear you panties off your bottom, as you always have them on under your nighty. I then tell you that you will not be needing those panties tonight. You don't say anything, as you begin to wonder what is coming next. Next, you feel the head of my penis rubbing between your slightly spread legs. You open your legs wider, to allow me access to your very wet and hot pussy. And almost at the same time you roll your ass and hips up inviting me into you pussy. I rub the head up and down a few times, and then pull back. I grab a hold of your ass, and lower my face to you creamy cheeks. I begin to nibble and lick your cheeks, ever so slowly working my way to you pink asshole as I spread your cheeks apart. I lick your asshole, spending time.....

She is certainly not quite ready for this site yet; I do hope the day will come/cum! The truth is, I have asked her what she wants new, different. The only response I get from her is, "I loke what you do. You know what I like." She is just not able to "let go" yet...I guess if I have waited for more than 20 years, I just have to keep on waiting. That said, I thougt that maybe I could find something that might "peak her curiosity" to play outside of the lines without causing her to believe "it is a foul". I like the idea of a game, if I can get her to play. A nice dinner, and a couple glasses of wine with the ocean in the background may just work. Thanks for the suggestion(s) and encouragement, Njoy

Beautiful body! Congratulations on honoring your body/temple. Njoy

Okay, so how does one get a sexually conservative wife to loosen up? Will toys help? What toys, and how does one make the introduction? My challenge is that my wife and I are having the same sex that we had when we first started dating over 16 years ago. Now I have to say that we spend almost five years without a sexual realtionship. And it has only been over the past month that we have begun to have sex again...yes it has been a long time, but I am committed - or maybe I should have been committed for waiting for so long for her to "defrost" - to our marriage. Funny thing is that all of the women I dated - and I did have healthy active, creative, lust filled sexual relationships - were as voracious as I was when it came to sex. I thought that my wife was that type of woman. We started slow with petting, then moved on to oral, and then onto intercourse, so I thought this is great and will only get better as we grow with each other! Opps! Thoughts? Njoy

hmmm....have had sex in a plane, on a train, in a car, in a hammock, ffm threesome, and as a early teen used and washed my own socks...but that isn't what you asked. The question was what havn't I done. I have never had a mmf threesome, never participated in an orgy (private party or sex club), have not cum in my wife's mouth, never had anal sex with my wife, nor had sex with my wife in her parents house...is that enough of a list for now?

I gave to my wife (then my girlfriend) first...but then I have always been a giver! Truth is that I think oral sex is critical foreplay, especially with the women who have been in my life. I did then, as a single guy, and still as a married, monogomous guy, feel that I want my partner to enjoy my "giving"! And what I have learned about my wife, is that she really enjoys the licking, blowing, nibbling, touching and fondling that takes place when my head is between her legs! Oh, how I enjoy how she looks, smells and tastes....and yes!!! I tell her that as her glaze covers my face. The one thing that confuses me a little, is her reluctance to kiss me after I have eaten her. It is funny, she tells me that I am so good at never giving up until she has come at least once! She really does a lot of giggling at varios times, and has told me, "boy, you are evil!" because my mouth, fingers, nose and moustache are all at work to please her. After more than 15 years of this, I only wish she would provide me with the same enthusiastic oral. I am holding out hope that some day in the future, she will realize that my penis, balls and oral without a warning ("Remeber, if you cum, I will vomit!" - no I have never cum in her mouth) would be such a turn on! Sorry for the rant, I just love sucking and fucking! Njoy

We are still struggling...explicitly there has been no intercourse. I have performed oral for her to the point of multiple orgasms; manually stimulated her to orgasm; used lubricant in addition to her very, very well lubricated vagina (my saliva and her body generated), but wife says that she cannot accept my penis, as it is too painful. I have asked her to see OB/GYN and Psych, as it is clear that something is not quite right. I am very concerned that we are headed for an undesired end of our marriage. The confounding this is that she keeps telling me that she loves me, and does not want a divorce. I keep telling her that all of these mixed signals are getting to be too much, even for my resolve!!! Sorry to unload. Ladylove, thanks for "reaching-out" Njoy .

Well, the saga continues. I purchased his and hers lubricant even before kisskat suggested and placed it on my wife's pillow. That led to another conversation when she found it. At first she said she was angry, then she said it was OK. At that point I asked whether we should have an open marriage to which she replied "no". I am going to attempt to have sex with my wife tonight. If things do not work, then I am going to strongly suggest that she go to see her OBGYN. If that is to no avail, then I will have to go outside of our relationship. My only question is what that means...divorce??? Thanks again for everyone's input! Njoy

Kisskat & Dadt, You both offer good advice and perspective. Thank You. The truth is that I made a conscious choice to be with and marry my wife because I believed that together she and I could, "make each other happy 99% of the time, AND that we could take on the world as a dymaic pair". We talked about people growing at different rates as being inevitable, but that really good partnerships work to "get back to the center" when the two people are getting too far apart. Well, as you can guess, I am a bit more self aware then she is. I also am much more interested in "working on our issues" than she is. Unfortunately, as I have come to find out, her parents relationship is the model that she is basing our relationship on. If only I had been paying more attention as we dated, I would have had further discussions with her about what married life looks like 15 years into the relationship! And that brings us to today. After my wife and I had our discussion four of days ago, we were "sexually active" two nights ago. Yes, that is a sterile term - Sexually Active - because that what the event was. She accepted oral sex from me, but that was it! She did not return the favor. She did not allow me to have intercourse with her. She told me that we needed KY as she was too dry and it hurt? The funny thing is that my tongue and fingers were inside and outside of her, and it is amazing that her memory was that short lived. I am going to give this a little more time, and then it will be time for me to move on. Life is just too short to spend that back half of my life unhappy. And whether she knows it or not, she too cannot be happy with this arraingement. Njoy

My real story took place when I was in my last year of undergrad. I had been dating my then girlfriend for more than five years and we had a very active sex life. This particular episode took place at 35,000 feet above the Atlantic Ocean in the upper deck of a Pan Am 747. We were on our way to London, after departing JFK. More than two hours into the flight, and three beers the cabin was relativly quiet. My girlfriend decided that she needed some attention, and she let me know by first putting her hand into my lap and massaging my penis and scrotum. When I grabbed her hand, she took mine and put it into her crotch, where I felt the increadible "heat". When I looked her in the face, she leaned forward and not just kissed me, but devoured my lips and tongue to rid my mind of any doubt. I looked around to see where the stewart was, and found that he must have gone down the stairs to the first class cabin. When I returned my attention to my girlfriend, she had removed her pants, and handed me her panties to my absolute excitement! She then pulled the blankets over our mind section, laid her head on my lap and pretended to sleep. Well, as you can imagine, she began to fondle my penis and scrotum to my delight. Then the next thing I feel is the wonderful, wet, warmth of her mouth. I was in heaven and joining the mile-high club at the same time. Once again, I looked around and there was nothing but silence in the cabin, and my heavy breathing. At that point, I was committed to the "adventure", so I began to fondle my girlfirend's breats, ass and vagina. I am certain someone had to hear and smell what was going on, because we were beside ourselves with lust! The next thing I know, my girlfriend sat up, turned her body so that she was facing the window which positioned her back and therefore backside to me. I understood what to do, and quietly slipped my painfully erect penis into her extremely wet vagina....oh GOD I still remember how fantastic it felt. I reached around and rubbed here distended clitoris so that we both were climbing toward the climax creshendo together. I think the excitement of potentially being discoved helped to etch this in my mind forever. The intercourse was one of the slowest, wettest I have ever had. And when I came, it felt like I gushed forever. It took us a good ten to fifteen minutes to get our breath back. When we finally recovered, we shared the biggest smile! I think the combination of the sex, and the knowledge that we were on only the first leg of a three week vacation across the Atlantic that clearly was to be filled with many more life changing sexual escapades! I'll share more of them later. Njoy

Kisskat & Dadt, Thanks for your thoughts and suggestions. I did have a conversation with my wife a few days ago. I made clear my desire to have an adult relationship that runs the gambit from parents to lovers. She said that that is what she desires and cannot understand why there is a problem. I am hopeful, but we still have to consummate our conversation. We'll see. As for the minefield, isn't that what marriage is about? Or do I have the wrong script? Thanks again to everyone on this site; all of you help to "get it framed-in for me". Support. Support. Support. Njoy

So it has been years since I have received road head. But one of the best road jobs I even had was on the way to Virginia Beach with my then girlfriend. I can honestly say that she genuinely LOVED to give head! She was also very "freaky" as am I. As I was saying, we were on the way to Virginia Beach in my car, and her family was in another car ahead of us. She kept grabbing me and telling me that she could not wait any longer for lunch, she was protein starved. Well, after 80 miles of this, I could not stand it any longer. She reclined her seat, like she was going to take a nap, and proceeded to make her way to my crotch. And before you ask, "yes", I got a bit lost in the traffic so her folks would not know what was going on. Njoy P.S. I did use the cruise control!

Trish, I cannot understand any man who does not enjoy a blow job? One of life's glorious pleasures oral sex. And even more fun, is helping your partner learn what really "curls your toes". Truth told, not everyone understands what thrills and excites their partners...that moment...that week...that year. And as we spend more time with each other, keeping it exciting can mean becoming more "varied" - aka more freaky. Next time you could add a new variation, as you begin to suck and lick his penis, say to him, "tell me what you like...tell me what you want me to do". If he tells you, you know, then start doing those things that you like to do, and then ask him, "do you like this?" Then if he says, "no", then "say come on baby I want to make you happy, I want to make you come, tell me what you want me to do". If that does not work, then I would make an appoinment with you husband's doctor for a physical because no blood is flowing to either of his heads! Njoy

I Love Pussy...bushy, trimmed and bald. I have trimmed and shaved for past girlfriends (BFMW), but that was then. Since marrying, there has been no "barbering" in my life, and there has been no trimmed or bald pussy...boy do I miss variety. And like I said, I am know to stay between my wifes legs until she has atleast two orgasms. As she once told me, "boy are you determined". My response was that "the joy is in giving!" Njoy

BFMW, when I used to receive oral, I always thought that giving and receiving any sexual act during sex should be recieved joyfully! Further, I find/found it exciting to have partners who enjoyed having sex without mental limitations...truthfully I loved sex because it was always an opportunity to "let it all go and live in the moment of giving joy to my partner!" Njoy

If it is "unbalanced outside of the bedroom, then it will be so in the bedroom". Further, if she is so critical, and domineering through a "quick tongue", and he is a good guy who shys from confrontation, then the best way he has to control the situation is to "disengage". As I saw stated here, they need to talk. They both need to reconnect with each other. They both need to feel "wanted" by each other; You can only fake sexual attraction but so far. Finally, no man wants to "fight at home". A man especially, likes to feel that his home is a safe place where he can feel like "this is his space, and that the woman he loves and who loves him, "re-charge their batteries to face the world. It does not read like this is their relationship. Your friend had best be careful! Should a woman find your friend's husband and begin to inflate his ego, your friend could loose her husband. They need to get help. They both need to want to get help. Njoy

Shoop, Sorry for the late response, but I have only in the past couple of days rediscovered the site. As far as the not climaxing is concerned my reasons have been: ~"Beer Dick" where the alcohol has allowed me to get erect, but not climax ~ My desire to "give to my wife" for that encounter, where I want to reinforce to her that I love to please her and that I will come some other time, because this moment is about her ~ There are times where I have worn her out, and she is not able to continue, nor wants to ~ Sometimes she gets "disconnected" and says "I'm done, get it over with" and I lose interest But never is my lack of coming due to my wife initiating sex. I find it a turn-on when she initiated sex! Everyone want to feel desired. And just because one is in a committed relationship, one should not have to lose that feeling. I would go further to say that it is even more important to have that desire reinforced when one is in a committed relationship. Finally, I too must weigh-in on your ExH, and voice my opinion that he appears to have been a very shallow SOB! The most exciting thing about an SO is all of the things, physical, scent, personality that attracted us to them. And while we should evolve through the years, we should always remember that the relationship and not exclusivly the body parts are what made us come together in the first place! Njoy

Wow! The colors and "the flavors"! Three beautiful women. Thank you for sharing with us. I would sure like to hear a story or two about the evening??? Or maybe I could write one??? Njoy

You are right. My problem is that I want both my wife and I to again be happy together. Thank you for taking the time to respond. Njoy

Adriana, Thanks for the advice...sounds like a good idea. I also think letting other friends know about TT and asking them if they think it is a site worth visiting is a way to introduce it to our network of friends. The intent is to then bring up the site during a gathering may help peak my wife's curiosity. If it comes directly from me, then it is more likely to be dismissed. I want an adult relationship with my wife. Njoy

WF... At the risk of being redundant, you have a beautiful body! Additionally, the compositionn of the photo is fabulous! Thanks for sharing. My day is much brighter as a result of your photo. The only problem is that I will have flash-backs all day long. Njoy

I realized after a number of years that she had serious emotional issues. And I have on numerous occasions - more than five time - insisted that we go get couples therapy. I have also asked her to see a therapist on her own. She will not do it, but will recommend to others that they seek counsiling. Truth be told, I have been waiting for so many years, I think I am at that point in my life where I am just too exhausted to continue. And the truth of the matter is that the sex really is just the symptom. The problem is that she is an emotional abuser because she knows how I feel about sex an intimacy, and has decided to continue with this distructive behavior. As I stated, this year I will make a difference in my life. I hope it is with my wife in it. If not, LIFE IS TOO SHORT! Thanks for your input. I'll keep reading and posting because this is very helpful.

I have know about and visited this site for more than a year. I just told a good friend about the site in the past month. I am confident that he will visit...he will lurk rather than participate. But the truth be told, there is so much information here TT and "posted" content, that many more must lurk than contribute. As far as anyone's opinion about me, they all know that I am a "sexually charged" person. What would be more surprizing to anyone who knows me is that I my marriage is sexless. Frankly, it really surprises me! Njoy

Ladylove, I am certain that my wife has issues that she needs to deal with 1:1 with a therapist. The problem is that she believes that she "lives life looking forward", and that therapy only drudges-up "crap from the past". This is so distressing, because my wife is a very intelligent, educated, beautiful, sexually desireable woman. To your specific question as to why she will not have sex with me, she has said that she does not find me attractive in that way. The therapist, female, told my wife that she should take another look, because she found me to be attractive and did not doubt that other women did so. Clearly it is not a phsyical appearance challenge, but an emotional one. I do know that my wife's mother had always told my wife that sex was a thing that "naughty girls did". I have worked to continually tell my wife how beautiful her body is; how wonderful all of her 'scents' are; and what a turn-on it is to simply run my hands across her body. My wife and I are in really great shape for anyone in their late forties, heck we are in better shape that most of our friends that are 15 years younger than us. I love my wife, but I am not confident in my ability to remain faithful. Sex is adult play. I want that play and intimacy with my wife. I have waited for more than five years. HELP!!!!! Njoy

Find out now if this woman is willing to listen to and explore your mutual and individual sexual desires now; once you have gotten married you don't want to be in a bad situation like I am with a wife who has "shut-down" sexually. Communication, communication, communication is the sexiest thing about any relationship! Njoy