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On another board I am a member of, we made a challenge. To make moves on our men and see what kind of rewards it reaped for us. For quite a few of us, it was a way to get the spark back. There is one member who's sex life has made a complete turnabout. They have gone from having no sex (pretty much), to everyday for the last, what, two, three months! The kinds of moves we were talking about is, sexual massages, giving head, initiating sex just for his fulfillment, stuff like that. Try it. See if it works. Do like I told a girl today on that forum. When he is sitting there watching tv, you go take a bath, shave and get all soft and smellin good. Heck, diddle yourself a little in the tub to help get yourself turned on! Then, put on some sexy nightie he hasn't seen you in in a long time. Crawl up on top of him, straddle him and just start makin out with him. Be assertive! But, be a tease, too. That is fun. Kiss him real deep, then pull away so that your lips are just a millimeter from his, and only let them brush occasionally. Softly run your tongue over his lips, then pull away. When you feel his dick getting hard, rub your crotch on it over his jeans. Reach down and feel it with your hand, and show your anticipation by moaning and kissing him when you feel it.

I've never had that happen, and never heard of it happening. Once, when hubby was down on me and fingering me at the same time, a fart slipped out, though. What was his reaction to it?

WOW! Lucky you! I hope you have a quick, easy, and problem free labor and delivery. Meanwhile, have lots of orgasms! Doesn't that help, too? We never really tried sex to induce labor... Our youngest was a scheduled c-sec. Our first, was an induced labor that turned into an emergency c-sec.

And Tweezers!

Thanks, MM! I was looking around the shopping pages for a vibrating cock ring for my hubby and decided to see if anyone had done any reviews here. I also really liked your comparisons. He uses a cock ring, but it is just a plain and simple one, and he gets a little tense if I go near him with one of my vibrators. So, I thought one of these would be great to introduce into our play time. I have asked him if he would like one, and he said he thinks that the vibrations would defeat the purpose of the ring and that he would come too fast. But, hey, it's worth a shot, right? I like the sound of the Total Packege. But, we've never used a ring that goes over the balls, too. So, I don't know what he would think of that. But, from the sounds of the rest of the review, I KNOW I would like it...especially doggy-style. I just don't know about him..... Off to read more reviews.

Oh, yes, Howard. I completely agree about variety. And I definetely have no problem changing things up. Having kids around all the time makes it hard though, lol. We were once on the living room floor going at it, when he *thought* he heard my step-daughter's door open. He RAN out the back door Completely naked, haha. He works shift work, so for one week out of every month, he works nights and sleeps alot of the day. I like to go in and wake him up with sex or a BJ.....usually sex because thinking about it all morning, well.... I WANT it! but, I don't do it alot, so it's a treat when it happens. And sometimes when the little ones are at MDO, I will just strip down and walk around naked.....that gets things going!

Dr. D. Light. I believe she meant she was twenty with her first partner and that was ten years ago.

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Oh, I didn't even think about this til you said that about the hotel, Howard! One day last year when my aunt was visiting, I asked her to watch the kids overnight. I went and rented a room and decorated it with rose petals, had cheapo handcuffs hanging from the lamp and one of my sexy nighties on the bed. I didn't tell him about it, of course. I told him Lisa was going to watch the kids so we could go bowling. We went bowling, and the hotel is right between our hosue and the bowling alley. When we left the bowling alley, I told him I wanted to drive us home. So, I pull into the parking lot, and he was like "what are you doing?" I just said "get out". He put it all together, I unlocked the door...... he was a VERY happy man!

It is really hard to shave when your belly gets big with baby! I've been shaving for ten years. Sometimes I do all of it, sometimes I just leave a strip. Once you get the hang of doing it, it is easier and no more nicks. Just be sure to use a good razor and let your coochy soak for a bit first. At least, that's what I do. Pregnancy coochy care story for ya, lol. Eight months along with my youngest, I knew the hair down there needed some attention. I couldn't see to shave and didn't want hubby to do it for me. So, I thought "Well, I'll just give it a trim with scissors". So, I'm trimmin away, and go a little too low with the scissors. I pinched my clit in them! OUCH! Word to the wise...Be VERY careful when using scissors where you can't see!!!!!

One thing I like to do is give Ben cards just for no reason. Just the other day, I gave him one that simply said "Hi!" on the front. and on the inside it read "I'm not wearing any underwear". He laughed and said "What's new?" LOL. And we aren't the most snuggly couple. But, once in a while, it is nice to feel that caress that is just because we love each other. Last night while we were watching tv, he played with my hair, which I LOVE!

That is SO great! My husband is pretty open about talking about stuff....but it's a rare deal. and I totally know where you are coming from with the dogs! I visit this and one other forum, and he visits about six dog and hunting forums, lol. Last night, he wanted to have sex, but I was so tired, I turned him down. And I shouldn't have done that. Usually he does not want it at night, says he is too tired. He likes it better in the mornings But, we are suppose to be getting a new couch today, and all the kids are gone......so we can break it in!

Thanks for the tips! I tried some of them last night on DH. He REALLY enjoyed it. And he told me that I can be rougher with the "corn on the cob" technique. He said he could really feel it when I hummed. . I had the same problem of not being able to hum when he was in my throat. I'll have to practice some more. hehe.

Hi, I'm Kandace. A couple of you already know me. Can't wait to see what I learn here!