On another board I am a member of, we made a challenge. To make moves on our men and see what kind of rewards it reaped for us. For quite a few of us, it was a way to get the spark back. There is one member who's sex life has made a complete turnabout. They have gone from having no sex (pretty much), to everyday for the last, what, two, three months! The kinds of moves we were talking about is, sexual massages, giving head, initiating sex just for his fulfillment, stuff like that. Try it. See if it works. Do like I told a girl today on that forum. When he is sitting there watching tv, you go take a bath, shave and get all soft and smellin good. Heck, diddle yourself a little in the tub to help get yourself turned on! Then, put on some sexy nightie he hasn't seen you in in a long time. Crawl up on top of him, straddle him and just start makin out with him. Be assertive! But, be a tease, too. That is fun. Kiss him real deep, then pull away so that your lips are just a millimeter from his, and only let them brush occasionally. Softly run your tongue over his lips, then pull away. When you feel his dick getting hard, rub your crotch on it over his jeans. Reach down and feel it with your hand, and show your anticipation by moaning and kissing him when you feel it.