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In general, yes. TPBM is going to act on said sexual situations being contemplated?

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The click clack of high heels or hard soled boots on the floor. Always gets me to turn my head with interest and a little fantasy. Randy.

I'm in my late 30's and the men in their 30's that I know are trying to find relationships. I can't help but wonder if the people you describe are due to geographical location and the stimulae there. Perhaps it is just the local social structure. Do you generally run in circles with people who are heavily invested in their work so family has to come second? Just a thought. So far as you becoming that which you have dated in the past, well, the only person who knows that is you. I would, however, take a look at your motivations for your desires when you were younger and try to determine if you have really changed, or just become more honest with yourself. I know that is often my own conclusion for myself. Randy.

Hmm...having the wife come on strong after a day out in the woods behind the house. There's always this wonderful smell about her when we've been out in the woods just walking, talking, and whatnot for a while. Randy.

Welcome aboard. Randy.

I could go for one or two times a week. I have noticed a distinct decrease in my sex drive over the last 2 years which is good for my wife as hers has never been as high as mine. Seems like we may be able to meet in the middle sometime in the near future. Randy.

Please note that I also mentioned in the post that there is a theory that you must be at least somewhat close in physical attractiveness. That attractiveness changes with age. I have no problem with older women who are sexy. None whatsoever and if that is what I led you to believe, my apologies. Like square said, though, if you don't have anything in common, how can you even picture yourself there? Unfortunately there is an ick factor and I am sure that it is somehow at least partially wired in to us insomuch as natural selection goes. Young, healthy males seek out young healthy females and vise versa. When I was in my 20's I wouldn't have even looked at a 60 year old woman with the belief I can do better. Now, being 37, I am fine looking at young, old, and in between but that's life experience for you. Randy,

I think that being comfortable in your own skin lends a lot to attractiveness, but from the other end, in order to find an older woman attractive one has to be at least a little comfortable in their own skin too. I find that as I mature I can look at a woman in her 40's and 50's and appreciate her much more than I would have when I was in my 20's. Some of that is due to the theory that you will be most attracted to what you are closest to physically but ultimately it has to do with being able to picture yourself with that person. Many guys couldn't do that without the ick factor coming up but there are some who see past the age thing and are able to just enjoy the woman for who she is and what she can offer. Just thoughts. Randy.

wait for it....wait for it...for Valentine's day...we're going to the vet. *nodnod* eat your heart out. Not everyone is as romantic as me. I personally have a hard time celebrating a holiday that is based around a guy pining away for his love because he's in jail for tax evasion. Just me. Randy.

Sometimes when we're in the heat of things I find my back has been scratched all to heck and back again but for the most part I never remember it. For myself, I could never risk hurting my wife...sometimes in the thick of things I fear I might go too far and end the fun...though I will say that there are times when I've clamped down on her neck with my teeth in such a way that brought a harder orgasm for her. Randy.

I totally get off on the sounds. I love to hear her little moans, breathing, and breathless gasps. During my own orgasm I try to focus on those as things seem to be even more intense when we're able to go together. Randy.

Knowledge is power. While it is hard to describe there is no harm in trying to be sure. After nearly 20 years of intimate pleasures with my wife I still expiriment and try new things all the time. One thing we've done fairly recently that I can't use often is making sure that I have a finger or two completely inside with a come hither motion while facing her and then making sure that my thumb can get her clit. Absolutely drives her batty with orgasmic pleasure and she is multi-orgasmic as it is so it is quick to tire her out. Randy.

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Keep in mind you always have the option to run for president too so you can fix the problems. As far as $4.00 a gallon gas it is past due. Just keep in mind that in European countries they have been paying double digit gas prices for years now. I agree that it is hard to swallow payments for many people but in the long run more demand equals more research equals more efficiency equals lower costs. I know this view will be supremely unpopular but hey, it is what it is. Randy.

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I found out the other day that I had a fantasy I didn't even know I was interested in. The middle of my day I was at work heading out to lunch and the closest thing to sex in my mind was an orgasm from a yummy lunch and full tummy. On my way out I passed a red-headed, very cute woman in a police uniform and it was almost an instant hard-on. I know I have a thing for redheads but I certainly I didn't know I had a thing for women in uniform... but man did this one get my motor running with little to no hope of release. Randy.

wouldn't know. Still can't grow facial hair in any significant way to this day. Sorry. Randy.

Absolutely. Would you ever go all out with costumes and backgrounds and everything for a role play?

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If he has so much porn he needs an additional drive space I would have to say that he's either trying to get the world's largest porn collection or he's got an addiction. Porn addiction is very real and is very much an intimacy killer. His fantasies become all consuming and the realities of real-life sex never measure up. Your intimacy suffers, your relationship suffers, and eventually this will likely affect his life outside of your home as well. If I were a betting man, I'd bet dollars to dingos that your boyfriend needs help to kick this and it may take more than just you. Randy.