jennycherie

great review! this looks interesting! My husband and I are both working on losing weight--though he has been far more successful than I have. Every extra bit of exercise helps!

HOTMAMA, NO, I do not think you are overreacting and you are not out of whack. It sounds like you go out of your way to give pleasure and this is not reciprocated. You need to find a time OUTSIDE Of the bedroom and when there is no expectation of "performance" to talk about this. He needs to understand clearly that he *must* talk to you so you guys can figure this out. There must be a reason (which could be as simple as insecurity) for his behavior and it is *reasonable* for you to feel hurt. It is important to talk calmy and just try to understand each other. Sex is supposed to be fun for BOTH people--even if one has a harding time climaxing than the other. If he is really uncomfortable with oral sex, there are many other ways for him to pleasure you but your pleasure is not optional any more than his is, in my opinion. good luck

If you go to this website, there is a pogo stick machine as well as a rider/rocker ball that are both relatively inexpensive (compared to the sybian). http://www.extremerestraints.com/fucking-machines_48/

Valntyn, I am so with you on the reading all day long! Beyond that, solitude is my guilty pleasure. I have a wonderful family and I do enjoy them but I also enjoy solitude from time to time. It's how I recharge. I just started a new job with a 70 mile (one way) commute. I thought the commute would be hard but I don't mind it and sometimes enjoy the long ride alone with no one to entertain, no children to referee, etc.

I don't think I can give a better answer than Mikayla already gave, but I wanted to as, why don't you care for doggy or being on top? Are these positions difficult? hard to get to a climax? Is it possible that these could be great positions but just need some more practice? One thing that you will read over and over on this board is that the intimate time between you and your hubby is adult playtime. Sometimes, to find a new position that works, you need to spend some time playing where the orgasm is not the ultimate end. You know. . . play to learn! My husband and I have found that it sometimes take a bit of practice to get a particular position to work. Doggy style is one of those for us. We tried it on our honeymoon and I immediately thought "NO, this is too animalistic. I don't like it. We are not dogs." But then we tried it again from time to time. I realized that there are things I liked (I love the feel of him behind me and laying on me) and things I didn't like (being on all fours which never worked too well for us as well as a lack of clitoral stimulation). We made some alterations and found a way for it to work for us--me with my head down resting on the bed and my tush in the air--that provides the right angle of entry and allows for some easy clitoral stimulation with a toy. Now it is totally on our top ten. Same thing for me on top. The first time we tried it, I felt ridiculous! I didn't know what to do! Once I figured out what to do, I LOVE IT! Really, it is the best. I wouldn't want it every night (because variety is good!) and I'm not always in the mood to go for a ride but when we do, it is awesome. So, I just wanted to ask what was your specific dislike of these positions--not that they have to work for you too, but that they could. These are two fairly simple (as in, you don't have to be a contortionist to make it work) positions that work for most people. We have been married for (almost) 12 years. It is only in the last year that we have ironed out the kinks of doggy style and probably only in the last 2-3 years that we figured out how to have me on top successfully. Good luck and congrats on your pregnancy!

fun list. . . but can I just say, regarding #11: YIKES! hopping into bed with someone I can't trust with my house keys or heart? #12 - definitely my favorite!

Well, I did just order some of too timid's lube so I'll have to report on that later. Normally, we use coconut oil. Just the cheap kind you find at Wal-mart for about $3.

I just placed my order! great time for the review to be posted! ;)

Thanks for the info Tyger! I think I'll have to put it on my wish list!

is this the same one that is now being offered for free if you just pay shipping??

okay, I thought I was adventurous, but that looks a little scary to me!

okay, I need to do something about this asap! My son noticed our box (which is a cardboard box that our karaoke machine came in) yesterday and started to open it before I screamed, "HEY! NOT YOURS!" (total brilliance on my part, right? no playing it cool for me!). SO, project for my day off today: CONCEAL the toy box!

Less Than Innocent, Where did you find that cute box?

The company I rep for has a really nice looking toy box that I've been considering purchasing, though I may need two - the dimensions are 9 3/4" length, 5" width, 4 1/4" depth. >> Violet, I know this is an old post, but can you say what company this box comes from or provide a link to a picture?

If money were no object, I'd love to get one of the restraint systems--under the bed or over the door.

Tyger, how long is this? It looks huge to me for some reason. Do you also have the smart balls pelvic exerciser? Any idea how the two compare? I have the smart balls but I am looking for something new. The smart balls fit me snugly and after using them for a while, they are super easy to keep in, even without doing kegels or having to clench and my husband still can't feel me grab hold of him.

that was a great article - in case anyone wants a direct link, here is the whole article: http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/sex_...x_positions.htm

I also like www.lingerieatlarge.com. . . and if I don't want to pay for shipping or am in the mood to browse, it's always fun to look around at priscilla's.

okay, my parents have chickens and that is too funny. I'll have to send it on!

I am sad to say that I don't remember it very well. I was 21 and thought I was so mature and adult. I picked this guy, not because I had feelings but because I thought he could teach me a lot. Once I told him I was a virgin though, he nearly didn't go through with it. He couldn't believe I had chosen to do such a thing. I don't remember it hurting to much and the stupidity of what I'd done (having sex with someone I barely knew) did not really hit me until I was older and wiser. Married sex is MUCH better!

yes, actually, we'd love to read more. my husband knows more than I do. . .

can anyone help me figure out how to tie knots? we have the japanese bondage ropes and my husband has used them to tie me up before. tonight I am planning (with his permission) to tie him up but I am afraid it will be difficult to get the knots secure. I think it would kind of ruin the mood to ask him how to tie himself up!

I haven't noticed anyone else mention laying on the side - I lay on my side with my husband behind me - I guess we are kind of making a T. He can enter from behind and easily reach in front to stimulate other areas. My to leg is usually on or near his shoulder.