jennycherie

too funny!!

welcome!

how sweet!

okay, thanks for the input. I'll keep an eye on my water, because I have not been doing so well with that and I'll talk to my doctor about the possibility of other medicines. She gave me Ultram (also known as tramadol) and it is clearly not working. I took it again this morning and no relief in sight.

Mikayla - did you find anything other than medicine that helped? Are there certain positions that are less likely to cause the headache? I got the results from my MRI and my headaches are benign. The prescription I got does not seem to be working. I had a monster headache last night afterwards. The medicine helped me get to sleep afterwards but here we are, the morning after, and I feel foggy and nauseous and my head is still killing me. I have to find a way to function with this and I don't really consider giving up sex to be an option!

wanted to update you all since you were all very helpful. I've been to the doctor (I've now gotten these headaches after sex an after exercise) and with my history of headaches and this sudden change in headache patterns, I am headed for an MRI tomorrow. In the meantime, until they are certain everything is benign, no fun more me--nothing that will raise my heart rate! <_< So, I definitely will not be posting here for the time being. Time to think pure, virtuous thoughts!

she is darling!

Sounds like it's time to get busy! When I am really down and lonely, nothing helps but getting really busy gets my mind off of it and then in the process, I sometimes get my head on straight too. Can you take on an extra project at work or volunteer with an organization in your community? Join a club? that would have the bonus of meeting new people too!

welcome!

I might however have a good cry over the wasted effort>> I think you deserve a good cry and a nice big slice of cheesecake! I always enjoy the actual painting part. . . it's the mess and cleanup and the first stain/marker/scuff that gets on my perfect walls that really gets me. And when the whole project goes to pot it's enough to make you pull your hair out!

Even when I've been on pain killers for various issues.. how much more relaxed can you be with muscle relaxers?>> Just one thought, I've actually been completely UNable to orgasm while on painkillers. I know that it is important to be relaxed but for me, I think the painkillers take away too much sensation or something.

good luck with the move. Moving is so exhausting!

you can also just gently move his hand in that direction and exclaim how much you like the feel of him there. . .

­¡Bienvenidos Sandman! I don't have any recommendations but I wanted to say welcome. Your English is great!

welcome! this is a great forum to be at!

welcome!

thanks for all your input. It happened again tonight so I'll call my doc on Tuesday and make sure it is nothing to be worried about!

that, to me, sounds like an issue of self-confidence. It sounds like you are being encouraging so keep it up and make sure you tell her (over and over) how hot she is and how much she turns you on and how much you can't wait to be with her again. When my husband tells me these types of things it makes me feel bold and sexy.

Question for all of you experts: The last two nights, my hubby and I have been having a particularly nice time and when things became really intense, I got a monster headache. The first time, I was able to ignore and we finished our fun (after which I took two aleve which lessened it to the point that I could eventually sleep). Last night, we were having a great time, and I was just at the point of orgasm when the headache hit me and it was so awful, we had to stop immediately. It wasn't like a gradual thing--one second I'm fine and having a great time, the next my head hurts so bad I know an orgasm is not happening and I'm in tears because it hurts so bad. Has this happened to anyone else? Our kids are with grandma and grandpa this weekend so I really want to have some (very loud) fun while they are gone!

oh this just reminds me again why I love to shop at wal-mart in the middle of the night while my kids are safely sleeping at home with my husband!

I think the whole idea of a blissful wedding night is a myth. We did have sex that night (first time for us) but it was a little weird and awkward and that whole honeymoon was more of a "getting to know you" than it was a blissful experience. Sex is so much better after many years of marriage than it was at the beginning. There is nothing magic about having sex right after your wedding, in my opinion.

very nice -when can we expect chapter 4?

same here - we are just getting into this (really, just playing) but I definitely prefer being the sub, and giving up control.

welcome - it sounds to be me like you are perfectly normal. Isn't it great that you know what works?

we love the japanese ropes - nice and soft, very comfortable and very strong.