DirtiestMindedVirgin

This was definitely not the same as my natural lube, lol--that's ALWAYS really clear, like basic KY. This stuff wasn't see-through at all. YAY!!

Hehe...if my bf and I get married on the date we're planning on, it'll be...23 years, seven months, and 27 days! But of course that's ONLY if you don't count masturbation!

I saw that episode of SatC, and the issue was not that he was coming in for the kiss immediately after, it was that it was all over his face/chin and it was messy. She wanted him to wipe his face off, not NOT kiss her, lol.

So I had a "Me Time" session not too long ago. I had just gotten home from my boyfriend's house and was plenty horny, and really went for it. I ended up using four toys all at once (one inserted, one on my clit, one under the small of my back, and the other all over my body) so there was a LOT of stimulation going on, lol, some to my G-spot. I came really hard, not the hardest ever but harder than usual. It was a quick session, too--only about 15 minutes, which is about half my normal time. When I started cleanup, I found that there was some kind of ejaculate on the toy that had been inserted--white, milky, like natural lube only whiter and thicker. I'm wondering if I had a G-spot orgasm (the stimulation was there, and it was certainly better than usual), but since it was so quick, there just wasn't time to build up enough ejaculate to squirt? Thoughts?

Oh, I think it's very exciting--right now I LOVE hearing stories of people meeting online and it working out. =)

It's hard to wait, but I promise--Mr. Right is out there, and when you find him, you'll KNOW! I, too, went through a couple of "relationships" where I was left wondering what I did wrong. It isn't always you! I advocate really knowing yourself and analyzing what you might have done wrong, but sometimes you really do just end up getting stuck with a couple of douchenozzles, lol. I would suggest not advertising your virginity, though. Wait until he becomes serious and starts asking for sex--then tell him. That way you'll end up giving it freely instead of having it taken by someone who (as someone said earlier in the thread) wants to take your v-card and run.

My family had a party line up until about 10 years ago--though there were several different segments of the family living on one piece of property. (Me and my parents in one house, an aunt an uncle in another, my grandparents in another, and one of my cousins with her hubby and 4 kids in the last.)

Sun_flower, you just made me feel a bit better--that's the same age difference between me and my boyfriend. =) We met online, on a dating site, and even though he's only an hour-and-a-half away, we spent the first several weeks counting down to his birthday so he'd be legal--he'd fudged his age by about two months in order to get on the site. Relevant to the topic--yes, we were both looking, what with it being a dating site, but I don't think either of us expected to find what we did. I was hoping to find someone to date for a while (watch movies and snuggle with, lol) that MIGHT turn out to be The One, but the whole thing went far faster than I'd expected and now I can't imagine living without him. When it's right, it's right!

Awww...I'm finally in a committed relationship, and yeah, we're going to wait until marriage for sex (and most other sexual things--the rule right now is CLOTHES STAY ON, and there's no touching of naughty bits, including boobs), but I have lots and lots and lots of ideas--and we're definitely already discussing likes and dislikes. (We've both been pleasantly surprised by openness/compatibility in this area.) This thread has inspired me to start a check-off list to give him once we're married. =D Some random things that'll be on the full list--I have a year or so to work on it, lol, and I think it will be very very long: -get that first time done and overwith! (I'm sure it will be special, but I'm afraid of it hurting despite his promises of being slow and gentle, and honestly, if the first time was the best time ever, well, that would actually kind of suck, wouldn't it?) -sex in my parents' house, though not in their bed (we'll be in the middle of something and I'll think "if only my mother knew what I was doing right now," and it's MORE, not LESS, of a turnon) -sex with fishnets on (I've discovered he has a thing for stockings, which works well with my thing for shoes) -sex in my car, with and without the top down (we already discovered the backseat is surprisingly roomy if the front seats are pushed forward, but the weather was too warm to stay in there) -me sitting on a washing machine while it's going, with him standing and going at it -he suggested honey and a paintbrush...I'm for that, and for whipped cream and/or chocolate syrup, possibly even snowcone syrup, or anything else a bit drizzly or spreadable...heck, even peanut butter... -sex while trying to play a videogame, preferably Rockband or Guitar Hero (and obviously eventually giving it up/failing the level in favor of more fun) -there's a study room at his college and he says every time he goes in there he wishes he could throw me down on the table and go at it...I'd do it if we were guaranteed not getting caught -in a library with the smell of books, ZOMG -in front of a fireplace -I told him I wanted to invest in thigh-high leather boots someday, not sure how he'd react, and he typed back "ZOMG I'm stiff as a board" =D -on a waterbed (though we won't be able to have one ourselves, since I have a thing for stilettos) -painting on each other, probably with edible paint -I wouldn't want to be full-on naked, but with snow coming down all around would be really romantic (perhaps oral? or without taking off pants?)

Conversely, when I see relationships like this, I always wonder why the MEN put up with it and stick around! It takes two to tango! But I agree. If you're not in it to make the other person happy, you should stay single. Don't harangue your man and then wonder why he's not happy.

I agree with everyone saying HE'S the selfish one here! I personally believe that the majority of children are born for the wrong reasons entirely--not that they're not loved and it doesn't work out in the end, but "our family is just not complete" or "we want something of us to live on" is not enough! (And wanting a son--utter nonsense! My brother was wise enough to quit after three girls, even though his wife offered to try once more.) What about things like "being around children (any children, not just ones you happen to like) makes me happy" or "I think we can provide a stable environment which would produce well-adjusted children, and want to do so"? If you feel you're at your limit, then stick to that! You might try explaining it to him this way: having another baby would just build up resentment between you two, to the point where you would no longer want to be with him. His pressure to have another is eventually going to do the same--either way, his insistence is ONLY going to cause him to lose you. Ask him what he'd rather have: you, the awesome wife that he already knows and loves, or a baby that he doesn't know at all? There's an episode of Sex and the City where Carrie happens to find out that the man she's dating has already had a daughter in a previous relationship, and his attitude is "been there, done that, don't want to do it again." She's torn at first, but when she starts talking about it with the girls and Charlotte says that it simply won't work, Carrie asks her, "Why should I give up a man I barely know for a baby I barely know I want?"--ie, if this man turns out to be what I think he might, I could very well be perfectly happy with never having a baby. I bring this up because it sounds like you have a lot more to lose--and I admire you for being brave enough to be willing to let it go, if it comes to that. I hope it doesn't!

Yay, not just me, if not universal. Like I said, it makes me happy since I'm so small to begin with.

Do your boobs get bigger during your period? Just me? I gain roughly half a cupsize for the last 2/3 or so. (Which is nice, being a FULL B instead of trying to fill it!)

This isn't quite a joke, but I'm not sure where else to put it: New Playstation Ad (NOT safe for work--but then if you're on this board you're probably not at work, lol) Yes, it is a real ad campaign. Look closely. It's not a cock. It's a THUMB. I'm not quite sure what to make of it (what are they trying to imply?) but it strikes me as funny anyway.

My first toy was an egg-shaped bullet. The one in the picture was covered in purple leopard print, but the one I got was pink. I hate pink, but I wanted my O so I tried it anyway. After that I was definitely okay with having one pink object in the house! (It's since been replaced with a silver bullet.) Personally, nothing beats an egg-shaped bullet. The narrower ones (shaped like this) just don't do the job as well for me. I can put in an egg and lay back and let it goooo, but the skinny ones require me to work hard at it.

Mine came in the mail yesterday...I came about five minutes ago. It is a little loud, but it is soooooo worth it.

OMG. I normally pass on the "free" offers, since I have to spend the $$ for shipping, but I saw that you were giving away the USB vibe and I was ALL OVER THAT. I frequently find a sexy story to read on the internet (sometimes here, more often in fanfiction), get all hot, and then move along to bed--but now I can skip a step somewhere. Plus I LOVE LOVE LOVE the idea of a vibe that never needs batteries! Now all I have to figure out is whether to invest in a wireless router so I can take the laptop to bed, or whether to train my body to get its kicks in a chair...

I tried masturbating while driving a few times (hour commute from a job where I often didn't get to leave until 1 or 2 AM...) but never could get off, or even CLOSE. I'd freak every time someone passed me or my driving would start to get bad and I was afraid to keep going. (The roads are curvy around here.)

I would LOVE to take future hubby to my parents' house and then get the parents out and do it out in the open, like in the living room or on the kitchen floor. Clean up so that the parents are never any wiser, of course.

previous post: ??? I try not to feel guilty about ANY of my pleasures, it makes them less enjoyable. Though I have to admit, buying clothes/shoes I don't need seems to do it...

I know this is old, but I haven't been here in several weeks and I just have to add my two cents: I LOVE having my nails painted and have pretty much every color there is to have, most of them in at least three different shades (except light pink, lol, I think I have ONE regular pink and then a couple different hot pinks, but I don't really care for cotton candy sorts of pink). Valyntyn, I'd be willing to put my collection up against yours! For a long time I worked a job where the uniform required me to take the polish off before coming to work, with the result that for most of the time I worked there I didn't bother. I WANTED painted nails but didn't see the point if I would have to take it off in less than 24 hours, so I'd only break out my vast collection for special occasions. Within the last two months, though, I've started a new job (a much, MUCH better one) and there is no uniform, so I can do whatever I want--plus my old job broke me of biting them, so I have double reason to keep them pretty! I've been matching my outfit more often than not. In the last few weeks they've been tangerine, purple, deep teal, black, black with glitter over the top, lime green, and today they're deep red, just to name a few! I let them grow until they start feeling "bendy" at the end, like they might break. Trimming them back makes them feel stronger again, lol. I always round them off, they look funny to me square. I just bought my first set of French manicure tip guides (you know, the little stickers that keep you on the end of the nail only--didn't buy the whole kit because I already have white polish) and I'm looking forward to playing with those as well. As far as long fingernails and touching yourself--no, no, no! It HURTS! There's a reason I won't ever go acrylic! And that's got me wondering--before I had any toys, and it was fingers or nothing, I noticed that the cuticle on "THAT" finger (I have a preference, lol, there's one finger that's, well, faster than the others) was often dry, like it needed lotion. Anyone else?

I have to second those who have said wear what makes you feel good! Have you ever watched What Not to Wear or a similar makeover show? If you watch the interviews afterwards, the people who undergo the makeover almost always say that they feel more confident! There's a little something to that old saying about how "clothes make the (wo)man." You may not be able to afford a complete, brand-new wardrobe (I know I can't!), but weed out and get rid of clothes that make you feel unattractive (if they have other sentimental value, then for pity's sake make a pillow or a quilt or something out of them, or at least take them out of your clothes closet and stick them in storage somewhere, so they don't tempt you to keep wearing them), and buy new pieces as you can afford them. What I do when I have a hard time getting rid of a piece I really used to like is remind myself that yes, it was fun while it lasted, but will I really ever wear it again when I have this, that, or the other in the closet that fits me better and makes me feel sexy? Not likely! Believe me, making an effort to dress well (not necessarily even sexy but neatly) every day will make you feel much sexier! Also, you said you've lost weight. So have I, and I don't know if you've reached your goal yet or not--but I haven't. But rather than let that get to me, I just remind myself of what I've already accomplished. "I may not be size xx yet, but hey, I look so much better and am in so much better shape now than I did when I was a size zz!" Now...as for confidence in the bedroom, well, I'll leave that to the people with experience. ^_-

My brother served in the military in Japan in the 80's, and he told me that if they show a woman with her arms raised over her head and you can see her pits, they'll censor it out because they consider it pubic hair. I thought the "pubic" in pubic hair was a reference to the start of puberty.

I hope everyone else has fun!! I agreed to work the holiday so that I could have Saturday off. Ah well, I already got to see fireworks this week.

And here I thought that everyone would be posting about ridiculous sex toys, lol. Hmm...not sure, I still have a teenager's bedroom, lol. A few stuffed animals, lots of posters on the walls... oh yes, that's probably it. One of my friends found a picture of Elijah Wood on the internet and wrote on it for me (on her computer), it says "My name is Elijah Wood, I officially belong to --my name--, my only function in life is to please her... etc." I printed it out and it's hanging right beside my bed, where I'm looking right at it if I lie on my right side. When I do find the right man and marry him, I certainly don't want to live in my apartment any more, lol. I think my current decor would probably make him have performance issues!