pappyld04

Research indicates that 90% of all gay men are born that way. The other 10% are sucked into it!!!

WOW!!!! For the first time in my life I can honestly say that "I am jealous"! I have had few lovers that have taught me anything. You have a lover that has spent a lot of time to assure that she knew how to please her man. I've never met a lady who knew more than I (very little)! She should be a role model for women everywhere! Congrats to you on your treasure!!!!

I didn't read the article yet, but, I know that being a new parent is almost the same as being with a new partner. You have to go through a whole new process of forming a sexual relationship. But now you also have to worry about whether your child will call 911 cause mom or dad was making that noise, or will my kid walk in the room (for the judgemental ones I'm talking about the child opening the door and entering). It is an article that is of significant importance for new parents and I applaud your efforts to help others through this new life. Good looking out!!!!!

ROTFLMAO about the blow up sheep part. With my circle of friends it is a running joke that as long as the sheep is of age it is OK! We are still wondering if is considered molesting if the one you love is a bit young!! LOL!!! My partner and I have a bit of humor that most people are freaked out by. We have been known to tell some people that the only sex we have is "HALLWAY SEX"! This is when we pass one another in the hallway we say "F@#K YOU"! Some people roll on the floor and some pick their jaws up off the floor. When anyone asks when she and I are getting married our standard response is "I don't even like him/her"! Few couples I've met are secure enough in their relationships to even think of saying something like this. Our humor runs along the same lines so she knows and I know that nothing is meant by these little quips. However, I've seen other couples go insane because of their own attempts at humor. Of course these are the couples that are doomed from the start and they just haven't figured it out yet!

Just a couple of brainfarts from a new member. Why is there no Health area here. In this day and age there are sexual health related problems and STD's in all flavors. There are a million people in the world who won't seek medical attention for something until it is far too late. Some people will spend all their time asking a stranger what to do about this or that rather than seeking medical attention. If they had educators and sexually experienced people to point them in the right direction perhaps we could nip some of this in the bud. Also, I know I ran across an article about posting pictures in the pic forum, but, for the life of me can't find it today. How about posting this at the top of the topic list?

I think you should reconsider your answer here. Not only does she have EVERY right to choose what she does in her life, she also has every right to choose what she considers educational. Not one part of this question said anything about marriage trouble. His wife is probably one of those ladies that were brought up by a family that were very strict and closed minded in their views about sex. There are also women who have been abused who would never want to be here either. Counseling seems to be a general answer nowadays for every problem in the world. I personally disagree. There are too meny things that go far beyond a textbook. I have met many counselors who aren't smart enough to lead a child to a bathroom. Much less help someone with a real life problem. These educated idiots have no real life experience that would even be applicable. I have a college educated friend from your part of the world, who worked at NASA, who misspells at least half af anything he writes. The quality of education is seriously in need of reviewing at least. Another man I know graduated High School and he can neither read nor write.

This is one of those posts that would be better served by adding a lot more details. We don't know what questions he is asking. Is he testing your limits? Trying to get you to open up a bit? Trying to figure out which buttons to push? Or seeking the old yes master, sir, or whatever you call him? Another thing I see is that you always answer yes. Is it an honest yes? Or just your response to everything he says? I think with better details you would get much better responses. Please update or edit your post!! You won't regret it!!!!!

The FFA teacher decided to teach his newer students how to neuter a pig. A few of the older students were there to help. One of the older boys bent down behind the pig and just bit it off. One of the new guys asked the teacher"why did he do that?" The only thing the teacher could come up with for an answer was "Sometimes you feel like a nut"!

There are a few things that I really FEEL should be added to this. Some men have hang-ups about cumming in their lovers mouth. I never figured out why. Some women also don't pay enough attention to what they are doing while giving a blow job. One scrape of the teeth can kill it for some guys. Some appear to enjoy it. Another thing I didn't see in your post is whether or not he knows that he is making you feel inadequate. If he has not been told this by you it is PAST time for you to inform him of this. If your lover does ANYTHING to displease you it is only proper that you inform him of this or it will continue to happen. If this man had such great lovers in the past and lost them there is a reason. Possibly the same problems that are showing up in your sex life. I hope he isn't one of those guys who continually tell you how much better his former lovers were in bed. If that is the case he should have some serious therapy. He is spending far too much time destroying his relationships. Now you stated that you already know you are inexperienced so the best thing you can do is to realize that you can get better. There is so much you haven't learned, yet. The key word here is Y-E-T! You are open-minded enough that you are at least willing to try. Trust me, he is lucky thatyou are a willing lover. Many men would give anything for a lover like you.

My gf & I have been together 12+ years. About 8 or so years ago we started a MMF 3way which was crudely interrupted by her daughter showing up a day earlier than expecte. We did have her naked and giving us both head when the girl knocked on the door. Maybe it is just my way of thinking but I think if a partner wants to try anything there should be a way to help them achieve this. Jealousy is an emotion that people could do without. The only pisser about the whole thing is the fact that we never got to finish what we started. But one day the opportunity may present itself again. Be it male or female doesn't matter as long as we all enjoy it. After all the whole reason for doing it is to experiment and let our partners try new things.

Not every couple can survive a threesome. Jealousy and insecurity are two of the largest reasons for this. There must be honest, open, communication for this to even start to look possible. My gf & I have been together for 12+ years and it took me a long time to get her to talk openly and honestly. We did try a MMF once but were interrupted before we even got a good start on it. She was naked and giving us both head and her daughter showed up a day earlier than expected. Since I had already planted the seeds of open sex between us it is something we must both agree upon. I've also seen where this kills relationships because one or the other starts going back for more with no consent. We've also hooked up with another couple for some swapping. It is more in how you communicate with each other before during and after the 3some that matters most. If you try this be sure that you spend as much time with your partner as you do with the other person. There are more ways for this to go wrong than right so know this ahead of time. And if you do try it ENJOY YOURSELVES!!!!!!

If you have a dildo that has somewhat of a base on it already on hand, try inserting it into the zipper part of a pair of old jeans or shorts then pull the zipper up snug against the dildo. This is only a makeshift harness that I have seen work in a pinch. Since the dildo will ride up above his penis he will get very little stimulation. The jeans may also help cut off his sensitivity. You should really teach him some control. BTW, there is a spray that I had many years ago that you sprayed on about 10 mins before sex that would de-sensitize the head. I noticed the difference but my reason was to last that much longer. There are other things that can do this too but they are not subjects for this area. They are illegal, and probably something you don't want to mess with anyway!!!

If you do use pliers to bend your jewelery please wrap tape around the area you will use the pliers. This is to prevent any burring that may occur. Trust me you do not want a metal burr rubbing anything near these sensitive areas. My gf loved her hood piercing. When she got it she thought that it was a clit piercing that she wanted until the man explained to her that piercing this can ruin the feeling if not do damage to it. He did educate her on the proper terms and meanings and was a godsend. This was also where we bought many of our books on BDSM and other like materials. We would never have seen these if his asst. hadn't taken me by the hand and took me to them. She wanted to show me the stocks that they had for sale. She turned us on to a lot of the information that we were having difficulty finding elsewhere. My gf was even getting wet talking to her, and that doesn't happen often.

One of the spur of the moment playthings was inspired when our pedestal fan gave up working. I trashed the top part and the large feet. I cut a piece of plumbing pipe insulation about 15" long. I folded the top over so it made a shape of a head and wrapped completely with electrical tape. Whenever she wants that stuffed feeling she slides on a condom and she's open for business. At the base there is still an attachment plate if I decide to mount to the bed and strap her down while stuffed with it. All the items you've already mentioned have been a staple of our world also. Beer bottles work also, just watch out for vacuum lock.

Howard it seems odd that you didn't point out the items from your garage because I'll bet that's where your mower is right? Just thought I'd point this out!!!

I've often wondered where my daughter would be had I even considered doing something like this. Maybe the parents are thinking that a toy may distract from the old boy chasing. If she's at home satisfying herself then maybe she won't be on the streets. My nephew at 9yo had a 12yo gf who told him that if you have sex standing up you can't get pregnant unless you kiss. The idea that most parents choose to ignore these things is absurd. Hey guys, any of your friends or kinfolk have blowup dolls? I remember a lot of movies that would show this for boys but not girls. They are going to do it regardless of what you say. I personally think it might be something unconventional but is still better than nothing. We could argue semantics all day long but it is not our decision in the end. I hope it does work for them. Beats a pregnant 15yo dropout EVERYDAY!!!!!

I ran across some pics the other day of a girl who inserted a Nerf football all the way in her. There were also lava lamps and soda bottles and other large items but I seriously doubt that many women would even attempt this. My gf has the 15" double headed and one that is about 8-9" by 2" and she loves them.

The guy that did my partners clitoral hood piercing had to educate her on the differences in locations as he said one directly in the clit would not be enjoyable. She did enjoy the hood piercing though. I was only disappointed that she got a barbell rather than a ring like the girl in the pic. I could find all kinds of fun stuff to do with that. She did have to remove it for surgery about a year ago so I may get my way after all!!!!

Have him hold it against your cheek while you give him a blowjob. If you & your lover are into rope play there are variations where the rope runs along his ass crack and by the balls or for females between the lips then you just touch the vibe to the rope to stimulate the areas where the rope makes contact!!!

Personally I am a toy whore. But if it were for my partner I think a Sybian or the fuck machine. As much as she enjoys a dildo in my hand when I stick it all the way in and spin it round and round I bet she'd love the machine!! For me I would have to say the real sex female doll. Whoever posted saying they are expensive was correct. I do recall a 4 digit price tag involved!!!

If Rx cost is the major problem here then you should look at some of the online pharmacies. I think I've seen Viagra at about $2 each in quantity. However before you order check the legalities of these online sellers and see also if there have been any complaints filed as to quality of product or failure to deliver.

Innocent that is a great looking stash box. We found a wooden toy box at ALCO and instead of paint or stain I used my propane torch on it to blacken the grains in the wood. I will tell you that I had to stop because the heat was warping the wood and it almost went too far. The pillow might be OK but I would think that lube containers have a tendency to leak. A wet spot might be a giveaway. We have also kept them in the middle of our cedar blanket chest under a few blankets. Our bed that we bought for play is a modified Cali. King with 6 drawers built in and the mirrored canopy. We have kept some toys on top of the canopy and a few faves in the headboard then we just lock the door to the room.

Pesonally, I have tried many but was unhappy with the result of such high dollar toys. The best I've found to date is a masturbation sleeve that came with lube for $5. I've had it for 2 years so far and still is my favorite. It is basically a condom with the end cut off to leave the sleeve part. It is thicker than condoms so that's not a problem. You still have to do the work but I've found that most mens toys are this way anyhow.

I am also a great lover of porn and like to masturbate to it either by myself or with my partner. Although I can understand watching it during sex I would never stop to chase a remote or something. I also watch what is happening with us. Every now and then if I see something that I would like to try, I will call it to her attention to it so that she can see what is happening. Since she like to fantasize also she has even done this to me. I do have a suggestion for you though. How about shutting off the video, set up a videa camera, and make your own porno. Not only can you watch on TV, but you have the real thing right in front of you also. All he has to do is look. Even if he still looks up from time to time he is still seeing you. This may help to focus him on paying attention to the sex rather than the films!

I can't help on the surgery, but just thought it would be worth mentioning to you that your doctor is one person in your world at present who you should not be embarrassed to talk to. I've always been told that the dumbest questions are the ones we were to embarrassed to ask. Whatever caused the removal had to be a lot worse than asking him about this issue. He is quite used to people coming to him for much more embarrassing things. This question should be asked of him just in case you are trying too soon, or you may further damage yourself. Hope this helps!!!