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I'm in a cooler area of a hot state. We know or know of four folk (friends of friends or family of friends, that sort of thing) who have died and another two or three in critical, over the course of a few weeks. I am fortunate I am able to work from home. Have been keeping distance from others, inside the house as well as out if we go out, washing hands more, etc. Mostly I have been staying home.

That could easily be me. I am on the socially-awkward side, and have never found it easy to go out and meet someone when I was unattached. Have had some pretty long dry spells. And I know several people in their 50's and 60's who are unattached and have been as long as I've known them (decades).

I don't know why she had it, one can make some guesses. To me, and maybe I've just become overly cynical in middle age, the whole of your story raises red flags. Secrets build walls and erode trust. If you want a girlfriend you can trust, this doesn't sound like it.

My urologist prescribed generic Revatio, which is for the treatment of pulmonary arterial hypertension. Has the same active ingredient as Viagara (Sildenafil Citrate), but in 20mg dosage. Not sure what the going rate for Viagara is these days, but this generic Revatio is $30 for 50 pills. Probably varies from place to place. I get by with one pill, sometimes two.

Why not just get divorced if you are going to cheat? Because divorce can be financially ruinous.

Hmm, my wife is 46 and has lost her sex drive the past couple of years. Whenever we infrequently fuck, I wonder if it will be the last.

"If your eyes aren't glued shut by the end, your not doing it right ... " I enjoy it too. Wife used to enjoy it more than she seems to now. Used to say "yippie" when I'd go down. Now, I don't know if I've lost my touch or if she has changed in some way, but she does not seem to dig it so much. Have to figure a way to make it more pleasurable.

Have used Sildenafil due to anxiety causing loss of erection. Sildenifil makes it easier to keep and erection or get it back, but it also seems to (or can) result in difficulty reaching orgasm and ejaculation. I may try cutting the pills in half. I wouldn't say no side effects; it does make me feel a little strange in a way I cannot put into words. No info in Cialis or other meds.

My wife generally does not orgasm with me during intercourse either. We follow that up with vibrator plus my fingers. But it sounds like there are deeper issues than size going on which need to be explored and resolved. The part about snuggling struck me. Did she ever like to snuggle?

I used to be flexible enough to get my lips just to the head of my penis. My back usually hurt afterwards. No can do any more.

I didn't. We didn't. We have drifted apart, and I wasn't so sure we would not end up in divorce, with seemingly little in common. Had a talk about it, and I think we will be able to work it out, but there is work to be done.

Yes

Wife's not too keen on the woods; I'm not too into the city. I'm gonna go for what's behind Door Number 3: A house near the beach, say an old Victorian, warmish (but not too warm) summer evening, nice breeze, a barefoot stroll along the beach by the water, and finally up to the second floor balcony where it's dark enough and far enough from neighbors so no one can see anything, and the breeze and distant surf drown out any noises. (And no kids this time that we'd have to worry about barging in on us!)

Bad breath Cattle nose rings Too much perfume Too much makeup. I'm fine with no makeup. Personalities: Too bossy; whiny and complainy; clingy; or humorless Self-destructive behavior smartphone &/or social media addiction

No. Just lost in the present moment.

If my kids' schools are typical, not they do not teach that stuff anymore. Well, spelling yeah, the rest of it no. They figure the kids will pick it up from reading and writing, sort of an osmosis thing, I guess. I doesn't work that well.

If one is an over-tired parent never getting enough sleep, that could be a reason for wanting to speed things along.

I think people are different in regard to what they are accepting of. My wife had a fling with another girl, and would like to do so again, and I am OK with that and think it is hot. On the other hand, she would not be OK with me fooling around with another guy. And other hubbies and boyfriends on here in the past have said they would not be OK with their girls being with another girl.

The Mrs. likes hers. Smooth. Easy to clean. They can be cold at first, which could be good or bad, I suppose. When I use it on her, I am afraid of hurting her, though, since glass is so rigid, but I don't know if it is a real concern.

Guess I'm late to the party, but ... Absolutely. (Plus you can always hold back once in a while to see if anything happens during intercourse.) From my point of view, to get a girl off during oral is pretty hot. My wife also cannot O from vaginal. I am glad I know, so we can do other things to make sure she gets one. Or two, or three . . .

I guess it's one of those "it depends" things. My wife gets hit on often enough when she's out. I'm not worried about her letting it go anywhere, so it doesn't bother me. I'll sometimes flirt with girls at work, but it is very lighthearted stuff and would never go anywhere. My wife isn't bothered by it, and if anything is a bit amused by it. Crushing sounds a little beyond flirting, though. Does he know you're married? Do you get the impression he thinks this might lead to more? Could it be something you think you can control, but turn into you falling for temptation? Or might he be a psycho nut job who could turn murderous if things don't pan out they way he wants?

Was trying to remember the name of K-Y jelly on my way home from work today. Just a random thing. Had a senior moment, though. "K-9 jelly? No, I don't think that's it. K-9 is a police dog. K-1 jelly? Maybe, wait, no, that's a kind of kerosene. . . . Oh, wait, K-Y, that's it."

Beer, dark, strong flavored, and higher alcohol than your average bear. A good manly beer. And drinking it out of glass decorated with cute bunny rabbits, pretty wildflowers, and colorful psychedelic-looking mushrooms . . .

I think it shoulda been "being a male nymph ... " (something he wrote in another post also)

My wife also digs a glass dildo. Everyone is a little different in what they like. Might have to just try a few different things.