SensualWoman

I had heard my mom when she and my then step-dad were doing the nasty, (this was when I was 7-8). So the next morning I asked my mom what they were doing and she just simply said, "making love". Of course I was a little confused because I thought, "you guys are already both IN love!". But she just kept saying that. So then because I wasn't getting my answer I asked my friend and SHE gave me "the talk". Then one day my little bro asked me what sex was and I told him it was when a woman goes, "Ahh, Ahh, Ahhh!" HAHAHA!!! So my mom stepped in and thought it was time to give us "the talk". She explained that the man's penis goes into in the woman's vagina. Right after she finished her "speech" my bro had the most terrified look on his face and asked earnestly, "Do you grow another 'one'"? We almost died laughing!! Poor kid was only 6!

One thing that helped me in the begining was doing it under the covers in the dark with no lights, then I didn't see "it" so it was easier to do it. You don't even really have to put it in your mouth all the way, just lick the sensitive part on the underside of the head, and you can get him off that way with a little hand action. Best of luck!!! You will get it in time!

I have numerous conversations with my SO about porn, and I feel that it is cheating, that it makes me feel uncomfortable, so like sunflower we make our own! It's fun and erotic plus it's us, which makes it better. He has agreed to watching porn with me if I want to, but only then because he understands how I feel about it. I told him that if he is going to fantasize about another woman, then do so when it involves me in some way, and that's what I do with my fantasies, if there is another man or woman it's always made-up, never someone we or I know, or a celebrity. We are both very content with this, but that's just US, not every couple is like this, and a lot of guys are willing to put porn away if his girl is unhappy with it. So I guess that I am his porn collection.

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I find it so interesting when the people who ridicule you for having sex outside of marriage end up pregnant outside of marriage... And don't apologize to you when it happens... To me it just doesn't seem very fair now does it? I know, life isn't fair, but I mean come on! *rant over*

I couldn't agree more, considering that she didn't CONSIDER would be enough for me. I highly suggest finding a new doc who knows what they are doing...

margiritas

Tell me what you want, and I will tell you what I want, plain and simple. Respect is a major thing on both sides. If you want to toss me around, then fucking toss me around, don't just talk about it! One thing my SO dislikes is when feet are on his pillow, so that's a rule I have to follow but that's pretty much it. Just ask before doing anything out of the ordinary.

Haha! I would have to say the same thing about myself in that regard, I am way too hard to please, and I can often be too stubborn. I would KILL myself!!! I would drive myself crazy into doing it too!

My bf and I are discussing getting a desensitizing lube for him to use on himself. However we've come to an interesting question that has stopped us from getting one, and that is what does the lube do to the woman? Considering how absorbent the vagina is, wouldn't it seem most likely that the woman would be affected the same way? Or is it something that the woman has no worries about?? SW

Near the earlier parts of bf's and my relationship, I wanted to try the rape fantasy(even though I was raped before, I still had that fantasy, most likely due to not being able to control what had happened ) so I talked to him, and at first he was like, "hell no". I asked him why and he was like, "Because of your past, I wouldn't want to hurt you". That's when I said let's have a stop word, and if I am not having fun I will stop it. It was fun, and we were both very rough with each-other for a few nights. However there was a point where I didn't like it. But every once in a while I have a little fantasy during my solo times about it. I say it was very fun, and the next time we shall have bondage, last time(first time) was just holding down. Mmmm. As for pain, I really only like minor biting on various parts of my body, especially my ankles for some reason. Nothing hard-core for me.

Why is it that I am in the mood all freaking day, and when I get the chance to finally have my oh so awaited satisfaction that HE is NOT in the mood?? I couldn't even get him that interested, and he is ALWAYS interested! As he said, he must be really tired...

Couldn't have put either better myself.

I don't believe that she has ever said this to anyone, but my step-sister has always been the kind of girl to do that. And she knows that, since she wouldn't even WATCH let alone actually be close with a guy kissing. And that was on movies until she was 16-17! It was very unhealthy IMHO. She is now in a sexual relationship, and there doesn't seem (in the conversations we've had) to be more than just SEX in their sex life. Just good fucking. But that's just an opinion of mine, but I do believe that's what she's doing to herself. Her father wasn't a father if you know what I mean?

I think most men don't mind, the only thing I've heard them say is: "as long as I can watch, have fun!" Didn't think a man would get jealous...

It's something that I enjoy letting him do since my man is a boob man, but only on my periods, since there isn't else much going on, and I don't feel used. I just don't like the lube on me, and I have to schedule it around showering...

Baby give me whatever your in the mood for! I love dressing up, whether as a certain persona or just being sexy! I love a good time! I just need a whip... I don't have one of those... Also you can't have one without the other, in order to be into bdsm you have to role-play as a dominant, not so merciful person, or a person who likes that done to them. So it's all role-playing really, IMHO.

LOL Yeah, it's so good that my SO uses it on ME! I haven't even used it on him yet, but the taste is quite good. And you have convinced me not to get GoodHead. I don't understand how people can love that taste...

AAAHHH!! There is no way I can choose, I just want SEX ALL THE TIME! But there has to be more to it than that. Both, as pretty much everyone has said, is the way it should be. Sorry, but there is no way I can choose. Unless it was because of unfortunate events that turned the sex part off completely, then I would stay because I love them and just take care of myself. That would be very hard...

My SO finds my feet "cute" but doesn't kiss them or do more than massage them when I need it. But he will hold them on occasion saying "I just want to hold your foot... It's so tiny." But that's hardly a foot fetish. I couldn't have a guy that had one because feet are kinda unsanitary.

I don't know why I didn't understand Dom wear... That's just a little obvious... haha!

oh, and what is Dom wear?

I guess I forgot the naughty school girl! lol! That was one long bj......anyway! I would have never thought of vampire that's just awesome! And I guess that I put this in the wrong section... Woops! sorry!

What is the most craziest/odd/fun outfit or costume have you ever worn for your partner?? What kind of reaction did you get out of it? Was it as fun as you were hoping it to be? So far just a nurse outfit, I was smexy. But that's all I have had the money for so far.

I have never masturbating in front of my SO... Never done it outside (too afraid), never done it on the washer/dryer, never had full-on anal(don't think I ever will), never done a guy with a strap-on(considering I don't even have one) my SO wants me to, never had more peeps than me and my SO, never finished road-head, haven't made out in the theater:( , Haven't had make up sex! Even though we both want to... I have had make up make-out sessions... They were awesome!!