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My husband I had to learn this after my daughter was born...we had lost sight of it so to speak (that's another story). But we found out before it was too late and we are the better for it...a lot better You have to know the way to approach things with people. Each person is different...as I said I am a very blunt person and sometimes it does hurt when I say things but I have learned to be a little softer when it comes to sensitive discussions.

DAMN!!! Mikayla that was amazing!!! I enjoyed it more than I can put into words!!

First of all I need to say the hymen replacement surgery whereas it is more commonly known to be done in the middle east it is very common to be done this country as well. A lot of times a girl's parents will force the issue or even some girls will have it done because they have been made to believe that this the only way to be before being married. When society actually can come to a point and understand that it really doesn't matter one way or another, we might all be better off. Now as for the fake thing, I think that is one of the most ridiculous, stupid things I ever heard of. Any man who would ask for that is better off with out a woman

I agree 100% with you. There has to be a combination of both.

Hey I think that's what we're here for Best of luck to you, hope it turns out good for the both of you!!

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Very nicely done!!

I think you need all of it...mental, physical and emotional gratification. I think sex is a big thing but I do not believe that should be the main thing. I think you should be fulfilled on all levels not just sex. I think if it is just about sex that will fizzle out eventually and then you will have nothing else except maybe just being friends. Some people can live that way but I could not and am glad that I have a man that has stuck with me and loves me for more than just the physical need. Now with that being said I think sex is a part of your relationship that you do need to relieve tension, to make you feel good, and to bring you closer together but you do need everything else too.

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WTF was he thinking?! I mean really....I assume he never change from the time you met him right?! GRRR!!!! I hate men and women like that!!!! Things like really make me mad because I have seen what it does to people. I am so sorry you had to go through that and I am glad you got rid of that SOB!!! He did not deserve you and most definetly did not deserve the gift you gave him (your children). I am glad you have found a guy that really enjoys you for you and not your phsycal appearance. You deserve it so much!! Girl, I wish I looked as good as you do!!!! I have stretch marks too....kids do that and there is not much you can do about it. I never had a problem with my weight before I had kids but after I had my to babies i had issues. I am now down to a good size and am glad for it, but I have those marks. I would not worry about them too much. They are your battle scars....LOL!!! I look at mine now and they do not bother me as much as they did when they first appeared. I would not give much more thought to them.

OMG!!!! Now that is something.........

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I'm the scratch you silly cat

YES!!! Great quote!!

When I was married 25 years, I took a look at my wife one day and said, "Honey, 25 years ago we had a cheap apartment, a cheap car, slept on a sofa bed and watched a 10-inch black and white TV, but I got to sleep every night with a hot 25 year-old blonde." "Now we have a $500,000 home, a $45,000 car, nice big bed and a plasma screen TV, but I'm sleeping with a 50 year-old woman. It seems to me that you are not holding up your side of things." My wife is a very reasonable woman. She told me to go out and find a hot 25 year-old blonde, and she would make sure that I would once again be living in a cheap apartment, driving a cheap car, sleeping on a sofa bed and watching a 10-inch black and white TV. Aren't older women great? They really know how to solve your mid-life crisis.

A woman awoke during the night to find that her husband was not in their bed. She put on her dressing gown and went downstairs to look for him. She found him sitting at the kitchen table with a hot cup of coffee in front of him. He appeared to be in deep thought, just staring at the wall. She watched as he wiped a tear from his eye and took a sip of his coffee. 'What's the matter, dear?' she whispered as she steps into the room, 'Why are you down here at this time of night?' The husband looked up from his coffee, 'I am just remembering when we first met 20 years ago and started dating. You were only 16. Do you remember back then?' he asked solemnly. The wife was touched to tears thinking that her husband is so caring, so sensitive. 'Yes, I do' she replied. The husband paused. The words were not coming easily. 'Do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car?' 'Yes, I remember!' said the wife, lowering herself into a chair beside him. The husband continued. 'Do you remember when he shoved the shotgun in my face and said, 'Either you marry my daughter, or I will send you to jail for 20 years?' 'I remember that too' she replied softly. He wiped another tear from his cheek and said... 'I would have been released today.'

A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during a particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the same hotel where they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic schedules, it was difficult to coordinate their travel schedules. So, the husband left Minnesota and flew to Florida on Thursday, with his wife flying down the following day. The husband checked into the hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an email to his wife. However, he accidentally left out one letter in her email address, and without realizing his error, sent the email. Meanwhile, somewhere in Houston, a widow had just returned home from her husband's funeral. He was a minister who was called home to glory following a heart attack. The widow decided to check her email expecting messages from relatives and Friends offering her condolences. After reading the first message, she screamed and fainted. The widow's son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor, and saw the computer screen which read: To: My Loving Wife Subject: I've arrived Date: October 16, 2007 I know you're surprised to hear from me. They have computers here now and you are allowed to send emails to your loved ones. I've just arrived and have been checked in. I've seen that everything has been prepared for your arrival tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing you then!!!! Hope your journey is as uneventful as mine was. P.S. Sure is freaking hot down here!

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My problem is that I am too blunt and honest and on more than one occasion it has caused problems. In the end though I think it made us both feel better that I was honest then trying to 'beat around the bush' so to speak. Njoy, I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to. but I think in the end if she is not willing to help herself there is not much you can do. I hope she comes to her senses and realize how much you want her physically and emotionally.

Well I guess I can honestly say except for a period of time after my daughter was born (and during my cycle) we have been having sex every day . We always find ways to get around having kids and work. It might mean waiting till kids go to bed but hay we do it....lol!!!