chloegirl

It's not something that you're just gonna start with and get into. She's got to really be aroused and in the zone to appreciate it and the bigger the guy, the slower you need to go. Sometimes you've just got to try something a few times before you can let go enough to let yourself enjoy it. Don't give up after the first couple of times, give it a chance, but remember, the hotter you've got her before you start the better your chances for success. Good Luck!

My hubby was in the doc's office within a few weeks after our second child was born(we knew that's all we wanted) and even though he was nervous about it, he was more nervous about ending up with a bunch more kids so snip, snip it was. He really didn't have any "major" discomfort or problems and it was a big relief for both of us not to have to worry about BC anymore. Really guys....it's nothing to be freaked out about....

Question....is anyone here on the boards a runner? It's been a long and dreary winter and I'm bored to bloody tears doing the same old things day after day after putting in my hours in hell (I mean work). I need a new goal to shoot for and want to start training to run a 5K. Figure I might actually stick to it if I put it out there with someone who's been there. Any input?

Gotta agree...they're all good and the leg/boot shot is beautiful!

Hold on a minute.....Didn't you start out by saying she is the best and gives the best BJ's? You're already way ahead of the game dude! This is just a little glitch in the road that you should be able to overcome whether she agrees to it or not. If she has been as responsive to you as you say, she will probably eventually agree to give it a go at least once, but I bet you find it was not that big of a deal after all. LOL!

As everyone has said, don't be overtly pushy about it, but definitely do talk to her about it. The more comfortable you get discussing any of these sexual issues with each other the better the chances for new exploration will be. Try to expose her to more even by getting her to read some of these posts or articles...the more she is exposed to different ideas from more people it might help her open up. And remember, time sometimes is on your side...what a person cannot fathom today may all of a sudden seem really intriguing down the road....(and then again, unfortunately, some people are just so closed off that they will just never advance to a point that will ever really be trully passionate, this I know ) just don't let any resentment build up here or you might stifle the whole process. Good Luck!

Just recently brought the video camera in for my last session....gotta say it's pretty hot! This opens up all kinds of possibilities...MUAHHHHa!

Scored a 7

Don't know that I want to see my hubby wearing it, but come on.....we all know that Tim Curry in Rocky Horror was smokin'!

A dual (or even triple/anal) action vibe that's nice and firm with some big girth and LOTS of power and movement on ALL 3 functions. Make it where the main shaft both thrusts and rotates and the head can be bent for hitting the g-spot while it also rotates. Make sure the clit stimulator is not too weak or floppy.....firm, hard power is the only way to go!

Yeah for him he has made some progress. I'm pretty sure I have been blowing his mind over the past half year or so bringing in the toys, porn, and picture sessions that we NEVER did in our younger years. He jokes that I'm having a mid-life crisis, but damn if it ain't fun! Believe it or not he's still so spoiled or repressed (or a little of both) that no matter how much I tell him he needs to, he doesn't go for "alone" time....says that's what he has me for. (This does not sound possible or true, but with him it is....how sad!) I haven't yet been able to convince him the more he works it the more he'll want it, but hey.....the lesson continues....

One year ago I included a set of handcuffs in hubby's Valentine's gift. Being the fuddy/duddy that he is he took one look, shook his and said "You're crazy, no way" so I put them away in the bottom of the toy box (which if about to overflow at this point). Fast forward one year to this Valentine's Day....amazing what a year of intensive training can do to cause an attitude adjustment. Now he looks up and is all for it....so I proceed to cuff him to the bed and work him from head to toe over and over again. It's quite the power trip to be able to suck/fuck even a spent dick back up time and time again! (I really am VERY good at this actually!) Left him totally spent, weak and shaking but with a big goofy smile on his face. Anyway the point is apparently you CAN teach an old dog new tricks (at least if it benefits him). Looking forward to my turn in the cuffs, but alas that will have to wait for another day. Hmmm, this might be just the occasion when a little girl on girl time might be fun. Never really considered that before coming to TT, but as stated before, there are some hot and interesting women here that make the idea sound more and more intriguing. Of course at some point I'm gonna have to have a nice hard dick in attendance (preferrably one with some staying power), but that's just me. AAHHH a girl can dream can't she?

MmmmHmmm. Another winner!

I think it's mostly the overtly nasty tone he's putting out here. It's way more in your face "I'm the nastiest dog in town" attitude than anything else anyone posts here.

I'm in on that!

Ugh!

Your comment about the other female not stalking your guy afterward is a very valid one. I know of 2 different sets of couples who tried the 3-some or just swap off sessions each setting the ground rules beforehand, but in each case afterward there was a member who wouldn't leave it at that and they went on to "indulge" with one of the participants on there own, and it turned frequent. In both cases these marriages broke up and it was not pretty! Be careful and think it over carefully. Best to ya!

Now I'm just the opposite. I could do without so much girl on girl stuff. Doesn't do a thing for me and there's one actress who pulls that "baby talk" voice that makes me want to puke!

As everyone has already said, encourage her to try alone with toys first. She might be able to let go of her inhibitions easier that way at first without the pressure of an audience. I guarantee it won't take her long to go from there to wanting DP and using 2 (those DP orgasms can be mindblowing!) at which point she will be more than ready for you. Good Luck and have fun!

Oh my god! You are GOOD! More Please.....

Very Nice!

Hmmmm. Definitely gonna have try one of these!

Good to hear from all of you. Yeah the trials are there, but we all agree it's worth it. Last week ended with a bang. She's 19, in college and she does work. She gets good grades and is very involved in a ton of campus activities plus the boyfriend so we don't see her alot. But last week we start seeing all these overdrawn bank notices coming in, then there's a message on the answering machine that the check she wrote for a speeding ticket we did not know about bounced. Talk about hitting the roof...She'd been so busy keeping up with all her running that she failed to keep track of her bank account and guess who ended up paying it all off....you got it...me! Very expensive week...I basically worked 2 weeks for nothing.....She is definitely gonna make up for this...Of course to top it all off that weekend her boyfriend broke up with her so we had to deal with even more tears. Everything's ok now...you know how it goes....one day up, another day not so much but it's all good. This week has been much better and she's been nominated to be in the running for homecoming queen....no moping over boyfriends at that young age....I told her she still has a lot of sampling off the menu to go thru. You guys are great! Thanks for all your support!

I can remember feeling that same way at your age. Your mind is probable focusing on how you look, is he judging your body, are you doing this or that right, etc.. It's hard to turn off that "spectatoring" voice in your head when you are still insecure with yourself. Time and experience will help you, but you need to just tell yourself that everything about you is perfectly fine. He wouldn't be there with you if he did not want to be and he'll be enjoying the heck out of your sessions as long as you relax and just be yourself and let yourself get into it. Your nervousness and insecurity will leak thru and put both of you under unneccessary stress that may make it hard for you guys to really enjoy yourselves. Don't judge yourself harshly.....revel in being a sexual female and just let go. Good Luck!

Aaarrggh! Teenagers! You never stop to think when you're young and get that "baby fever" that you are going to be stuck with at least 21 loooonnng years of no peace, no privacy, filthy bedrooms and being bled financially dry. Don't get me wrong, they are both good girls. We've never had any real trouble out of either one of them and I love them dearly, but God, I am so ready to have my time, my house, and my BANK ACCOUNT be mine again! Know what I mean?