Amylynn920

Love it, love it, love it. Nuff said

We have sex both on and off, nothing stops us when we want to make love. And why wait a week? If you want to you want to. Some of my best sex was when I was having my period. He doesn't think it's gross at all. Showers are there after for a reason.

Insert it in a condom and use it. Orgasms during my period are so much stronger and help with cramps. We make love during my period, neither one of us is grossed out by it. We just throw a towel down.

Well with mine it's normal for him, it's not rare, it's arousal, akin to me getting wet. I get flattered by it and he stays hard for round two or three if he's up for it. I think it may be age related he's late 20's so I don't know what the "standard" is for an older age group. And he can come a few times in an hour or so and not lose his erection, other times, it's once and he's satisfied, so I really think it differs at times.

I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost a child, my firstborn, and it took a very long time to come out of the darkest time of myy life. I agree with the counseling, and to continue the intimacy between the two of you. I don't see where a third person will fix anything. Fantasy is a wonderful thing, when kept as fantasy. Your relationship has undergone alot in the past two years. I have "wet dreams" too, and I think it's normal. Multiples don't come easy for me, and it has nothing to do with my partner. It's me. Just be close with him and work through these past two years.

This thread was a little further down: Perfect Songs To Have Sex To

I don't know what his technique is, he did it a couple of times for a few minutes, I don't want to ask him for it if it's going to take me longer than manually and then end up frustrating us both.

I am in my second relationship, first husband was a horrible lover, and hated oral both giving and receiving. So I don't have a lot of experience here. I was reading a response regarding bj's from Mike and he was saying that orally it usually takes him about 25-30 minutes. I know for mine he takes about that long too, not that I mind at all, because I love doing this for him and I know he loves it, but where men are usually quicker to orgasm than women, do most women take longer orally? Because sometimes for me manually it's about 20 minutes. Sometimes I hate being a woman for that reason, it takes us so much longer than men in alot of things. I'm afraid to think about how long he would have to be doing that for me to come.

Thanks for the responses, good answers!

I was curious as how each of you brings the use of toys into lovemaking. Do you just reach over during foreplay and take them out, and start using them? Does your partner take them out for you? I guess I still feel a bit awkward reaching over during foreplay or during sex to take out a toy and start using it. They're still pretty new to both of us. Sometimes I feel self conscious doing that. I also feel sometimes that I may be hurting his feelings as if implying he's not enough, when he is, it's just that it's really hard for me to come with just sex. I was wondering how all of you work toys into foreplay and sex.

I think it's great for them too. I hate labels. They are in a happy, loving relationship. And that's all that matters. I don't think love knows labels.

We used to love Astroglide, and I still like it, but after trying The Too Timid Pleasure Gel, we're converted. Hands down closest to my natural lubrication and the price is much less expensive. That and it doesn't run anywhere. It really is a gel vs a liquid. I do want to try a silicone based one sooner or later, because we've never tried one.

They cannot get lost, the vagina is a closed canal. I have never had an orgasm from them, tho they feel nice and all. They make you wet because they do move around, and stimulate you. I think there was a thread on these not too long ago.

I would start with the educational dvd's, I'm not sure since we don't own any adult dvd's but we're going to start Kudo's to you for being such a good hubby and wanting to keep it spiced up! And welcome by the way!

Omg Tyger Ty ty!!! Yes it is Gauge. I typo way too much Ty very much!

Welcome!

Does anyone know off hand if TooTimid carries any adult dvd's with Guage? My husband really likes her and I want to surprise him with a dvd. I'd rather give my business to TooTimid if they carry any with her. I tried searching through them but didn't see her listed anywhere.

I definately prefer vibrating.

Well that's a great intro. I have a wonderful son and man in my life, a mixed breed lab/hound that I rescued and two cats. I have fish, and love to knit and spin wool. I read when I can, and tend to be optimistic. I was a customer service and sales manager at my last job for 15 years, and now I'm able to work from home. It's nice to meet you!

Ok first off, pain is NOT good. Whatever play you're involved in should not hurt. If it does, stop. Clitoral stimulation should not cause pain. You may have stimulated a nerve somewhere. Try to find a position that doesn't hurt. Try doggie, or try laying on the vibe. I'd really get a bullet for clitoral stimulation. They work great, are inexpensive and are a wonderful way to learn about orgasms.

Well put, you'd think for just once a year people would open their hearts and be happy. Some people were born miserable I think and I feel very sad for them.

Well that was very sweet of you to say that. This is a great site, no judging, lots of great info too. Please don't be scared you're anonymous here as much as you choose to be. It's very nice to meet you.

the perineum is located between the vagina and rectum. I would say external massage. Maybe a toy or your fingers.

Yes it sure did, I think it would personally make me insane as I have no will

I have never heard of this before. Sorry I can't help, but now I'm curious. Is it just the tip of a penis? Ok I just googled it and it is what I thought it was. Never played it, and honestly I think I'd break rules and not be able to do just that