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Maybe the guys you have experience with, but definitely not in my world! If you demand better, you will receive better. All the men I've been with have been kind and respectful, with one exception, and I kicked his ass to the curb. I think that, by definition, any man that pressures you is not a "nice guy," and is certainly lacking in manners if nothing else!

That may be true of guys who are into dating around and seeing a lot of girls, but if he's really interested in you, IMO, it's not going to matter that much in the longrun. I've never had sex on the first date more out of coincidence than anything else, but the BF and I had sex on the second date. I've only ever been on one first "date" really, and that was with my BF. It was the first time I ever went out with someone I didn't already know well, and I was super nervous! I was the one who asked him out... a band I like was playing at a lounge downtown on my birthday and I didn't have anyone to go with, so I figured it was a good excuse to ask out the cute guy from work who'd just quit the job for the summer. Found him on Facebook like the stalker I am, and that's how I contacted him... I was honestly pretty surprised he took me up on the offer, he seemed like such a goody-goody and I come across as a bit strange, so I didn't know if he'd even be interested in me. I didn't know what to expect, but we completely hit it off and even went to get a bite to eat afterwards and ended up staying out until 2AM or so. I knew he was interested when he wanted to meet me for lunch the next day

All of the best times for me have been with my current BF. Even when we had just begun fooling around he was the most skilled lover I've ever had, and now that we know one-another well and are more comfortable together it has only gotten better and better. I've had good sex before with FWBs, but nothing compares to the sex I'm having now. My BF always puts me first, knows what I like, and is more than willing to try new things... how could we possibly go wrong? As far as awful sex goes, I've had that too. Trust me, when clumsy foreplay is followed by your partner thrusting around willy-nilly without any real method or rhythm, sometimes you'd just rather masturbate by yourself. To make matters worse, he was pretty well endowed and kept stabbing at my cervix.

Sounds less like birth control issues and more like the reactions you are having to recent issues in your life, but that's just my opinion.

Bikini briefs are hot as hell.

Candle, vibrating head massager, carrot, smooth-handled silverware, and a couple of times I rigged my stereo up for electrostimulation.

Ditto that! I've never been in a sexless relationship, but I've certainly been in one where sex was almost all there was, and it's not fulfilling in the longrun for sure.

Neither. I've been in both situations and neither can end well... you might see where it goes with #2, but don't lead him on.

I know a triad that have been together for years and just got married, so yes, I suppose it's possible. Personally I think I could love more than one person, but as picky as I am, finding two people I'd want to share my life with would be quite another thing.

It doesn't take much for me to start dating someone... just an initial interest and continued chemistry. For me to start seriously dating them, however, we have to have been together for several months without me beginning to think "haha, there's absolutely no way this is going to work longterm." So far it has only happened once, and I'm still with him. I can usually tell within a couple of weeks if it's doomed from the get-go

Awww, too bad, it's cute.

Yep, it's pretty darn awesome

Hahaha, adorable self-defense items. You need the seal!!! X3

I had luck on OkCupid.com

I used to keep my nails really long, they're beautifully curved and really strong so they're perfect for that, and I always used to buff them to a shine. Now I work in a fish store and my hands are in water all day long.

You know him better than we do hun, what do you think?

I guess I'm the odd one out, I have small inner lips and a petite vulva overall. The ones you see in porn? Looks pretty much like that. I don't really have much of a preference when it comes to vulvas. Don't get me wrong, I've seen some unsightly ones and some exceptionally nice ones, but there's not much of a pattern when it comes to what features I like about them. As long as everything looks pretty proportionate compared to everything else, we're good. Penises, on the other hand, I'm very particular about. My favorites have a slight upward curve, a very prominent coronal ridge, and a nicely shaped smooth head. I also tend to prefer circumcised just because I like the look of the head so much and I prefer that it be exposed... I especially like the frenum region

It depends. I've never had a romanticized idea of marriage myself, my parents never had a ceremony and just went down to the courthouse and got their certificate, and as far as I'm concerned that's how I'd prefer to do it too... save all that wedding money for a nice honeymoon!! So, ya know, being that I've never really dreamed of the whole romantic proposal, under the right conditions, sure I'd accept a proposal over the phone. Hell, I don't even want an expensive engagement ring... I hate diamonds, so I'd prefer something a lot cheaper that's more to my tastes.

The possibility of moving in together was mentioned in passing between myself and my guy the other day, and I've been thinking about it ever since. My ex lived with me for a couple of months a long time ago, but that was more of a "you can stay here until you sort out somewhere else to live" kind of thing, not a "let's move in together" kind of thing... and apart from that I've never even had a roomie and have been living by myself the past 3 years. I don't really know what it's like to live with someone. We aren't *seriously* considering moving in together yet, it would be several months before our respective leases end anyway even if we were ready for that, but I figure it's never too early to start thinking ahead. He's over here almost all the time as it is, so part of me wonders if it would even be that different, but I know from my limited experience that trying to cohabitate and share the same space all the time can be difficult and put a lot of strain on a relationship. Any advice or stories you have to share would be appreciated

That... is the most awesome idea ever.

I actually had kinda forgotten about it Suzy, thanks for reminding me

Quick, everyone tickle Em!!

He does, and he respectfully thought better of it... probably more out of respect for the rest of the members than you, actually, and I think we'd all appreciate it if you could keep that going by not fueling the fire. If you want to have a go at him do it over PM, I know I'm not the only one who doesn't want to see it. As for the topic.... I DO know several guys who like to stare at their own cum. Some dudes have an odd fascination with it... as do I. I like to watch ejaculation. That said, lord, does it have to be on my face? I can't very well watch if it's headed straight for me! I by far prefer it if they unload on my chest or something instead, or even better, on themselves.... mmmmm, now that's sexy.

Holy shit, I owe you one!! My BF isn't small or anything, he's average size and perfect for me, but this position sounded interesting so we tried it last night. Then we tried a variation where the leg positions were changed... one of his legs between mine, and the other draped over me. We had some of the best sex we've ever had, and that's saying something considering how good our sex life already is!!!

Technically you can. You're legally an adult at 18. You can move out, pay taxes, get married, fight and die for your country, and so on. Nobody can stop you. You just can't drink until 21 or rent a car until 21-25, depending on the rental group. Welcome to adulthood. That said, our generation is a lot less self-sufficient at 19 than previous generations were (for reasons which are a mystery to me. I suspect we're just spoiled and less is expected of us overall.) At this point though, you're only a kid because you think you are and aren't willing to take on adult responsibilies yet. If you're going to have that mindset though, it might be prudent to remember that serious relationships are something adults have.