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I use the Coochy Cream that is sold here and a triple blade disposable razor. I haven't had any issues with bumps or such. I have been shaving about 4 years now. I prefer him at least trimmed which he does. The only preference he has that at least the lips are shaved but doesn't particularly care either way how the rest is done. Coochy Cream

We have done it. Him and I with another woman and have enjoyed it. It will probably happen again but not sure when. It is something that interests both of us. Never say never. There were quite a few things I said wouldn't happen and did so you never know.

I can truly understand how she feels. I went through self esteem issues for MANY years. I am not completely past it. I have moments when it creeps back in. It is hard as people look at you and automatically stereotype that you must eat a lot and that isn't always the case. I have a thyroid issue that is very hard to regulate. I workout at the gym 3-5 times a week and don't eat as much as I should because I am just not hungry. When I got together with my current SO a little over 4 years ago I had a self esteem that in essence basically did not exist as it was so low. He would tell me how sexy I was and I would just hide as I didn't feel that way at all. It took a lot of reenforcing from him to help me see that yes I am. That beauty isn't just the outside it is a combination of everything. It took a while before I could thank him for any kind of compliment and at times I still struggle with that. If she wants to talk with someone that fights the same sort of thing I would be glad to give you my email address. I found support of him and some friends helped me a lot. I will tell you it will take a lot of patience on your part as you will need to remind her but not be too pushy about it.

My exhusband of 13 years would never initiate I always had to. Also with him it was 5 minutes and done from the beginning of foreplay to off to the shower. With my So it is much different. He has no problem with me initiating....in fact encourages it. I hate predictability so with either of us initiating that part is definitely gone.

Welcome to the forum and enjoy.

Posh Massager This is a pretty bright yellow silicone massager. It measures 5.5 inches in length and 1.25 inches at its widest point. The great thing about this toy is that it is waterproof, which opens up more options as to where and how you can use it. So I took it out of the packaging and unscrewed the bottom so that I could put in the 1 AA battery needed to bring it to life. Be sure to completely tighten the battery cap as you don't want premature death for your toy. Then I washed it up in warm water and anti-bacterial soap. Remember with this toy being silicone to not let it come in contact with silicone lube. So I was getting ready for playtime and thought this would be great for some foreplay. The button control is at the bottom and easy to change between its 2 settings. I would say the first setting is low and the next is medium. The site says the vibe is strong but I don't feel that it is at all. I decided to run it around my nipples, which felt very nice as they are easily stimulated. From there I moved down to my clit and thought it was time to tease myself some. I turned it to the medium setting as I knew the low setting would do nothing for me. I am a strong-vibe kind of gal. This felt good but was not enough for any type of build up. Just a nice feeling. For someone that doesn't prefer a strong vibe then this would be perfect for them. For those who prefer a stronger vibe, skip this toy.

Go Deep Mints So when I received these I thought they would be interesting to try. I have always wanted to be able to deep throat but have never been able to. Well, being curious I took one when it wasn't play time and sucked on it. To me my mouth felt no different so I thought maybe one just isn't enough or maybe it is that it doesn't quite work. Well the other night we were having some fun and I thought I would try it out on him. Instead of one I took two. I did feel my tongue numbing and a difference in the back of my mouth. I wouldn't quite say numbing but once they were dissolved it was on to the true test. So I slowly started taking him into my mouth increasing the depth each time. To me I did feel that I could take him further than I have in the past and wasn't gagging myself which was nice. So from my perspective it was nice to be able to go further. With it having benzocaine I was curious if he noticed any difference or numbing. He said he noticed no difference. As far as it saying that he will be able to go longer I really can't attest to that as he already has great ability to last a long time as he did that night just like always. I would recommend this but possibly I would use 2 instead of 1 just to be sure. The mint itself isn't bad tasting. To me it reminded me of a spearmint Lifesaver.

With us we both have a high sex drive. In fact we joke about wondering which one of us is higher. We both have had partners that were on the low side so it is nice to have an equal.

Thing is yes some repeat but they also change up the scenario depending on your sexuality. The sections ask the questions with you being with a man and then with a woman. Mine is 58.4

While in chat a topic came up that was from the past and thought would be fun to bring up again. So what is your purity score? http://www.puritytest.org/

always and sometimes not enough answers TPBM is rethinking something they were going to do

I think it is the busiest after about 8 or 9 pm eastern time but from time to time you can catch others in there.

Glad to see you back.

False was yesterday but then those thoughts were answered TPBM had fun last night and step a little out of their box recently

It is great seeing it used again and full of activity. Thanks again Rob for bringing it back and also thanks to those who are helping to revive it.

Welcome as well. With this group I am sure they will be giving ideas. Just watch a few may offer to help you with the video...lol

no worries. Thing is obviously he knew it was wrong because it took him 3 weeks to admit it was him who did it. He accidentally downloaded it to my computer and I realized it was from my digital memory card. So when I said that to him he kept swearing i was wrong...what a joke. His loss as he lost a great thing and I am enjoying life now.

With my marriage we were separated and would have moved apart sooner but just due to financial circumstances were unable to. He had been laid off and I was a stay at home mom that was now looking for work. I didn't do anything until we had separated. To me that isn't an open marriage. I just was thinking a lot more about the way things are today versus' many years ago as back say 10-15 years ago it was more of if you cheated it was over right then and there but with the economy now it makes it more difficult. There were stories on the news and such that the rate of divorce isn't as much because people can't afford to so they just deal with it.

With the thread that was started earlier with regards to the show about couples being unfaithful it got me thinking. With the way lives are today in my own opinion I feel that things are much more gray than black and white. A lot of couples stay together due to finances or possibly the rest of the marriage is great but there is an aspect that is missing. It can be a variety of things not just sex. Now what are your thoughts about cheating. In certain circumstances is it acceptable or not. For example with me yes my husband was unfaithful in November 2007 and we did separate but we lived in the same house until the divorce was finalized. His version of unfaithful was not sleeping with another woman but he was in her bedroom and involved in bondage acts with her clothed and barely clothed. It took him 3 weks to actually admit it once I confronted him. To me that is still a form of cheating. He lived his own life and I lived mine. I have friends of mine that the sex is no longer there and they are craving that intimacy. It isn't just the act of sex but the closeness that comes with it as well. They have tried everything to change it in their marriages but it hasn't worked and their partner wasn't that way when they got married. I can see if you got married and things were already that way then you can make a basis for you knew this already and possibly argue it with them. These are marriages that it took quite a bit of years and then this happened. Other than this aspect they enjoy their home life, children and relationship. They still love their spouse very much. Should they have to just live with the decision of their partner and not be able to enjoy something because the other person said so. Is that fair for someone else to make that decision for them? Granted I can see if someone is going out and sleeping with a lot of people, but what about if they had just one partner that fulfilled that need outside of their marriage. To me I feel this is fine. Yes I am sure many would disagree with me but I feel both parties deserve to be happy in their lives. What are your thoughts on this?

Oh exactly I would not want him to go down on me, but agree about a towel. We actually have a blanket that is useful for things like that as then you don't have to worry about making sure that you stay on top of the towel. Mind you it has only been a couple of times in the 4+ years together that this has presented itself when we wanted to be together.

I was but mine arrived this morning TPBM is thinking about seducing their SO

Wendy thanks for sharing your background with us. I know that people have affairs for various reasons. There are so many situations that can cause a person to stray but not leave there marriage. I mean realistically think of a marriage that all of it is great except for sex. If one partners drive has dropped considerably yet the other one has not that is very difficult. Yes there is masturbation but there is nothing like the intimacy of being with another person. Granted some take it to different variations of levels. Some will find just one person to please that aspect that they are missing whereas others will find a lot of different partners. I was in a marriage for over 10 years where the drives were very different. I finally got separated and realized a while new world out there but from going through that I can see where a married person would need that aspect as well but not leave there marriage. Yes I know to some that is completely wrong but the world isn't as black and white as it used to be.

I have never had anything in particular with food that helped turn me on in any way. I have read and heard people say that there are things that have done it for them.

NO but need to be...lol TPBM has some fun ahead of them...what to play with first

That is great to hear.