When I first started coming on here about 3.5 years ago. I had very little clue on many subjects. I started reading a lot and asking questions to gain knowledge. What is it that you are thinking about. If you are asking how to bring it up to your partner the best is having conversations during non sexual times. I am always around if you want to send me a message. Also many members on here are very willing to help so if you have any particular questions please put them up and I am sure someone if not multiple people would be glad to help you. We were all at that level at some time in our lives. Welcome to the board.