vanilla_bean

Oh Iha, your situation breaks my heart. I feel like I've posted so much about my own "awakening" that I even make myself throw up a little bit. What you have done far surpasses anything my SO needed to do to get me to reevaluate things. Have you tried counseling? It's obvious that you love her, but also that you're unhappy. Tough spot. If I could talk to her I would tell her about all the things she's missing out on: more fun than she's ever know, greater intimacy than she's ever know, more self confidence, maybe less sleep but oh well. Send her up here and we'll chat. I guess I'm not offering any answer, but you are a kind, loving person and you deserve happiness. It's not how you feel about her, but how she feels about herself that holds her back and there's only so much you can do about that. I would love for her to open up and embrace the loving man who's waiting for her. Sigh.

Don't stop. The more sex you have, the more sex you want IMO. Like others mentioned, get some lube. It takes the pressure off you and feels great.

Of course you can call me Van. Reminds me of Van Morrison (Van, Van he's my man. Holla Brown Eyed Girl). I think starting at the age your kids are at will be the best way. Now that my kids are teenagers they talk to me about stuff that I never would have mentioned in my childhood home. Laundry Goddess- good for you and I LOVE that bumper sticker!

You are SO right. My husband and I have talked about this too. The next step is to try to be a sex positive parent so that my girls can have happy healthy sex lives. It doesn't always come naturally, but I'm determined to do my best. How's it going for you?

Welcome. You've come to the right place.

Welcome and yes, please do ask questions.

Naw, just like to fantasize about it TPBM is a flirt

Went from my nips to his lips to all over my face

You're so right. He can just kiss your ass. Glad you got him out of your life.

Finally got around to using this the other night, I only noticed a slight tingle. Husband liked the taste of it tho (wild raspberry). It got smooshed around and I ended up with some near my eye. THAT I noticed. I guess it was OK for something a little different, just watch your eyes.

Hold me closer Tony Danza Beautiful pic

I defer to the others for recommendations. I just wanted to say that your English is nearly flawless.

what brave and good looking people we have here!!

OO OO I want in the club. Who wants to be prez. We need a better title than prez ( wife in the fast lane, LIPS-leader in pursuit of sex) I nominate Pinky for secretary 'cause she's rockin' that sexy secretary look.

I don't know how to copy the link, but you can product search them here. They're meant to strengthen your muscles inside. Both for sex and to keep you out of Depends i think. They kinda feel groovy too.

Power balls??? I meant to say Smart balls. Excuse me while I go take my meds.

I hear you. I hope it's normal. If not, I'm enjoying being abnormal much more than being normal! There seems to be so many of us going through the same thing. Maybe we should form a club. What would you call such a club? I have no experience with the ben wa balls, but i do have the power balls. I got them here at TT. Husband says they make a difference, but I was a bit of a kegel fiend before anyway. I wear them when I'm walking with my friend. Kinda like having a little secret. I find they feel sort of like butterflies in your stomach. But not in your stomach.

I'm sure it's tough right now, but you did what you knew was best. Things will get better.

Hey Cybele You've been through a lot * hugs* Thanks for sharing your experiences. It takes a lot of courage.

So glad you had fun. This is a great site.

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What is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?

Yeah, I've had this happen too. Usually right after sex. I can also say that sex has gotten rid of a headache or two as well. I'm a bit prone to migraines and I have found that taking something before sex helps.

I just gave my husband his own toy. I wrapped it up in an animal print gift bag and hid it in his luggage when he went away on a business trip. I included some lube and a couple other goodies also. He loved it and phoned me from his hotel. We had a great time when he got home. Now his new toy has the place of honour in the top drawer of his dresser! I've used it on him once so far and it adds a new twist. Good for you for getting him his own toy. Let us know how he likes it.