That feeling that you get when talking to someone is great. The feelings that you get when you've been married aren't always the "butterflies in you tummy". Marriage is hard work, however, the rewards are well worth it! I don't know your situation but I have been married for over 9 years, and we have gone from being best friends, to not standing each other, and back to best friends. I have gotten to the point that I wanted a divorce, but we decided to try and get counseling. It worked, so my advice is, get counseling, if she won't go with you, then go yourself, at least you can say you tried everything. hope this helps somewhat, TNT