ohshelly

BRAVO! Well thought out, and VERY well said.

Lucky for us, we are women, and we can change our minds! If you decide later today you need a 'refresher' oh, well....................

Yep, you are 100% correct.

Do you have a picture of her? Who doesn't like a cute baby picture?

*sigh*

Got anything for us, DADT?

Here comes the snow..............seven to nine inches tonight. The day before yesterday it was 45 degrees. Welcome to spring in Wisconsin!

They are the best, I have to agree. Congrats, I am so happy that you found one another.

DADT is sooo satisfying, an hour is all I can take, ladies.........

Tickle

Welcome, Pierre. Glad you are here.

Whoa, Suzy!! Looking good, girl!!

Uuummmmm.............been waiting....................been patient.................. Quit pestering...................I've even been quiet...................... I'm gonna crack the whip If we don't get a story soon! (uncontrollably giggling)

How romantic! MsLayD, I am so happy for both of you. What a sweet, sweet, man. Congrats, You found your prince!

Hey DADT!! I finally made it back here after a few days away. Honey, if your hearing is being muffled by a pair of soft fragrant thighs around your head, you don't need to be distracted. Let us know when you come up for air, and we can talk then. no, don't stop, don't stop,oh yeah,right there,there baby,that's it,ooohhhhhhhh..............

Why do some parents feel that as long as their child is 18, they are finished parenting? How about a 'good job' 'I am so proud of you' or 'good for you'. They never outgrow their need for acceptance or approval. AAARRRGGG!

Yep, thats bad.

Trying not to pee my pants!!

Honey, I went thru EXACTLY this same thing about 3 1/2 years ago with my spouse of 29 years. Our marriage was much the same as what you have posted about yours. Basically dead, but in it for the kids. He was very cool twards me, there was no affection, much less sex. We where more like roomates with children. I found out by accident that he was cheating. I felt so used and stupid. How did I not know? It is a very common to feel this way. Don't beat yourself up, please. I ended our marriage, some things just can't be rebuilt. I was crushed beyond belief. It was hard, I was hurt, sad and angry, but it got better in time. The kids took it very well, much better then I expected. Kids are a lot smarter about the atmosphere in a home then we give them credit. I can look back and say it was the best thing that happened to me. I have a new life, and am happy for the first time in years. My children are happy. also. I am not suggesting this is the answer. Every situation is different. but not to long ago, I was in your position. I know the pain and the fear you are feeling right now. If you want to PM me, please do. I wish I could give you a hug, sweetie.I want the best for you.

[quote name=SuzyP' date='Feb 22 2009, 11:14 AM' post='9652 And don't forget, guys never really grow up and they always love playing with toys, it's just a new kind of action figure! Suzy, sometimes your sense of humor sends me over the edge! You are killing me!!

Welcome! We are happy you joined us! See the discussion and info you generated? That is what TT is all about! Good people, good info, interesting insights.

Hi, we are glad to make new friends, and we always apprieciate a sense of humor, too! Welcome!

MsLayD, I don't see your response as a rant. I see it as eye opening reality that we all should be aware (and beware) of. I for one, thank you.

Welcome to TT. We are happy you decided to join us! p.s. I love the library!!

Welcome, we are always happy to have new friends join us.