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Welcome to the site. I will look forward to your topics. Look around and enjoy.

Welcome Hollie, We all had to start somewhere. All of us are on a journey to somewhere. Enjoy the discovery.

There are several games on the retail side of the site. Some of the card games are mild with suggestions. Some of them can be fun to play with. The only thing to be aware of is that if you are using a game many are focused on things you may already know or engage in. Some that may be interesting are Bedroom Comands, Let’s Fool Around and Intimate Dares. I find these to not be “super naughty “.

The best way to shake out jealousy is to take to your partner about it. Have an honest discussion about your jealous feeling, what whey are about, what fears you may harbor, and what meaning the feeling have for you. If you are open to a poly relationship of a triad then talk about what is both attractive and not attractive about the possibilities. If you decide to move forward be aware of your feelings and thoughts. Do only what you are comfortable with. There are benefits and risks to every action. Be open to both possibilities.

Never believe you are cursed. It may be that you are hanging out in the wrong place. Maybe you haven't found the right group. Be friendly, smile and talk with people. Let them see the best if you. When you do, they will come to you. And if they don't come to you, go to them. Be assertive.

Loneliness in a relationship is one of the most difficult things many people experience. It can be magnified when your sexual appetite is not matched with your partner’s appetite. Stress, demands, health and family can all have huge impacts on sexuality in a relationship. Being too tired is a common excuse. I don’t think it is a very good excuse, especially when there are times when no other demands may be present. I like the idea of setting up date nights, sex nights and play days. Escape at least once a week to connect. Spend some time with the sensual and the erotic. Remind one another why you chose him/her/them. Encourage your partner to be loving and sensual. Remember to give in order to receive. To often when we don’t get what we desire we will pull away. That can be detrimental to the relationship. I encourage open discussion and open expression of your sexual desire.

Welcome. Take time to discover yourself, enjoy your body and become aware of what is pleasing to you.

I agree he may grow into it. In the mean time, be specific with him. Tell him what you want and how it turns you on. Be descriptive, he will catch on quick. Shy may be more like timid because he wants to respect you and honor you. Let him know that being taken is all of that and more. Tell him how is makes you feel (desires, wanted, needed, sexy, etc.). Maybe read some erotica that turns you on with the themes you want to play with. Then suggest acting out a scene.

Sometimes it is not about forgetting the past, but it is moving forward from it. The past is what made you who you are today. I suggest embracing the good, promoting what you have learned and transforming into what you wish to become. We all can become the butterfly if we allow transformation in our lives. The past gives us prospective and knowledge. The now gives us opportunity and discovery. The future gives us freedom to be who we wish to be.

It sounds like you have found a match. Congratulations! There is nothing like a partner who is into it as much as you are. Keep us posted on how it goes, and enjoy every minute of your relationship.

Welcome to the forum. Hope you enjoy.

There are too many controlling men and some women out there that believe abuse of all forms is just. Abuse is never just or right. I’d encourage anyone who wants to know what to look for and watch out for to read Gift of Fear. There is very good infomation on how to spot abusive people before getting in deep.

Very nice, indeed!

Personally I’ve found that having a conversation about what is pleasurable is a good thing. What may feel loose may be just right for her. After all most women find pleasure with external stimulation along with or instead of penetrative sex. Besides the walls of the vagina are very elastic. So play, stimulate, be erotic, attend to your partner and all usually is wonderful.

No spouse to cheat on. When she said no more sex it was the final straw in the relationship. Now several years later I don’t have to worry about cheating.

Welcome to the site. There are so many possibilities, toys, conversations, discoveries, etc.

Welcome to the forum. Being raised in a strict religious family that teaches sex as taboo is difficult when you reach adult life. It is unfortunate that so many in strict religious thinking forget that sex in committed relationships by religious standards is a beautiful thing filled with connection, enjoyment and desire. There are so many passages in the Bible that talk of the joy of love, sex and passion. I would encourage you to embrace your sexuality, learn your sexual self with pleasure, desire and enjoyment. As much as being a mom is wonderful, it is not your only role in life. You are a sexual person with desire. By being healthy sexually you become a better parent that can teach her child healthy intimacy. I would suggest learning about sexuality, educate yourself. Bring what you learn to your relationship. Sexual passion between husband and wife is a beautiful thing.

First let me congratulate you and your hasband for keeping an active and healthy sex life. You are an inspiration to all who are younger and worry about sex diminishing as one ages. Being healthy is important. I understand how prostate cancer and treatment can take away one area of sexual expression. The key is to focus on pleasure, connection and what you find erotic. Keeping sex alive and keeping pleasure alive is important to continued satisfaction. I suggest you continue to explore with one another the limits of pleasure. If you help involve toy use in your love making. Seek ways to intice and arouse one another. I understand for many it is not easy to shift focus from erection, but there is so much more to sex and continued enjoyment. All the best to you.

Exercise is a good thing for life in general, and for sex it is great. Strength training for better ability to hold your self and your partner. Cardio training for endurance and blood flow. And more sex leads to better sex. Enjoy.

I like shaved. Smooth skin is wonderful. The feeling is supreme.

While it is a great feeling to have attention, in your relationship do you have an open relationship or a close one? Your partner may not like the idea of you getting attention. Or your partner may be excited that you are. It would depend on your relationship whether or not you want to play with the attention. My suggestion is let your partner know, have a discussion and see where the boundaries of your relationship lay.

How long a nipple clamp should be on is dependent on the wearer and the clamp. Numbness may be a sign to remove the clap along with change in color of the nipple - then remove quickly. Last thing anyone wants is damage to their nipples. On the otherhad if it feels good and there are no problems, then wear as long as is comfortable and not damaging. Just remember you are doing some blood restriction so do with care, excitement and pleasure.

Do what feels right in your own home. There is nothing wrong with the human body, clothed or unclothed. It sounds like you have a near perfect place to be as naked as you wish.

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For many women orgasm is all in the brain. That means getting yourself in the right place, frame of mind and arousal. That is not always easy. I know our past can play tricks on us and our sexuality. Some times it is about focusing on pleasure and not on orgasm, attempting to stay in the moment, and allowing our bodies time to enjoy the sensations. Too often I see people (women and men) focus only on orgasm and forget there is a world of pleasure, sensual and sexual, out there for us to discover and play with. There is an older book out there that may be if some help : Becoming Orgasmic. If you are on medication that can have negative effects sexually. Thyroid issues can play havoc with orgasm for some. Of course being with the wrong of right person can have an effect. Last stress can be a big problem.