PanickedVanity

Is there a term for a poly relationship between three people where everyone is in love with everyone, so a triangle, rather than a V? Is anyone in this sort of relationship? I'm working on a screen play and I'm curious about dichotomies. If you live together does everyone share a bed? What are the best parts, the worst parts, the unexpected complications?

So my measurements are 33-23-35, and I wear a 32AA bra, I have a somewhat generous behind but other than that not much in the way of curves, I was wondering what lingerie will suit me, but not attempt to create the illusion of big boobs. I know my husband adores my body just as it is and I wondered if anyone had any recommendations for me? Me http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1312/121694...d83b22b.jpg?v=0

Thanks

Lillie's new hair: Random photo of me:

I respect that a lot, but I think the ideal to strive for is a relationship in which the desires (both emotional and sexual) of both partners are met, which is something my husband and I are working on, and it does indeed work. I have never once been tempted to cheat on him, and I know that he never so much as looks at another woman, I suspect this is because we are both by nature monogamous creatures, the thought of being with another man or woman turns my stomach and I can't bear the thought.

Humans are somewhat sexually differentiated, but much, much less than a lot of species (peacocks, walruses, chickens) in fact I'm sure to any other species our sexes look virtually the same. As I said, I don't think all humans are monogamous, nor do I think all humans are non-monogamous, I think that humans are rather... split in that respect.

I can't say I agree, there are a myriad of ways to release sexual energy, and no one's proven one way or the other whether we're meant to be monogamous or not, to be honest I think that there are naturally monogamous people and naturally non-monogamous people. As for sexual energy, jesus, hasn't he heard of the miracle of masturbation, and if my husband ever were to cheat I would want him to tell me first, I think that honesty is incredibly important in a marriage, and although people can be "driven" to cheat, i think there's almost always a better solution if their partner is a reasonable understanding human. Evolutionarily humans have shown a mixture of behavior when it comes to monogamous behavior, leading me to believe that our DNA varies person to person on monogamy, right now evolutionarily monogamy seems to be the best strategy providing stable support for offspring, and increasing the likelyhood that said offspring will breed, but that's unimportant. I think that it's probably best for monogamous people to involve themselves exclusively with monogamous people, and non-monogamous people to involve themselves with non-monogamous people, that way no one gets hurt.

He is, very cool, and terribly sweet.

Normally I have a clear to whitish ejaculate when I have a G-spot orgasm, however I just had my first G-spot orgasm while on my period and it looked... orange? But I still had to have my usual post 'gasm wiz after... So my question: Is this A: Normal, and B: Is it what I hope it's not (urine)

The thing is he identifies as a very feminine male, but he often regrets that he wasn't simply female, because his life would be easier that way

Thanks, I hope it comes out well

Ok, so I have this idea for a script for an adult film (I've decided to try my hand at screen writing, and before i jump head first into some massive opus that'll never sell, I want to write something salable but interesting) And I want you ladies input on what you want more/less of in the adult film industry. So my plot: A sophisticated city woman (A successful artist) discovers that the very pretty boy who works at the bakery she goes to has fallen in love with her. She is currently unattached (either divorced, or recently broke up with lover) and she takes a shine to the beautiful but innocent young man. He's a fairly normal, rather unpolished fellow, a bit arrogant when it comes to women, even though he hasn't gotten very much attention in the past because he's too feminine looking for many women's tastes. The sophisticated woman seduces him, makes him her "kept man", and sort of sexually awakens him in a French art film sort of way. She plays pygmalion, making this pretty boy into a sensual androgynous sex object. From the beginning she takes the lead in their sex life, which over the course of the film becomes increasingly kinky, while at the same time educating him in the social graces of her set, giving him books, lessons in art, etc, until he is finally almost totally estranged from his former self, a well known artist in his own respect, and her equal. At this point he feels the urge to escape her, because now he feels his own identity lost in the one she's helped create. He runs off to another city, where he has an affair with a man who reminds him of himself before the woman got ahold of him. The guy finds himself doing the same thing that was done to him to his new partner, and he realizes in the process that although he has some influence, his partner is more blossoming freed from certain repressions, rather than being forced to take on an identity, and so he runs off back to the woman to apologize, and thank her. She's obviously surprised to see him after a number of months, and they reconcile, after which he confesses to her about the lover he's acquired and she tells him to fetch him immediately. The lover arrives, and the woman approves of him, the three end up sharing an apartment and a life (with some hot sex scenes thrown in) What do you think?

This doesn't sound erotic to me, but it does sound fascinating to watch... the sort of campy, weird, pop-culture oddity one simply has to have.

This is exactly the sort of thing I'm looking for! It's weird, arty, and sexy... just like me *laughs*

Hehe, I'm not so much saying that he "likes" to be feminine so much as he simply "is" feminine, and no worries, i have the exact opposite of a problem with it I do love me them girlie boys

That's a sweet story

Thanks guys. As for moxy, eh, maybe a bit, I've yelled far more vulgar things at the stage in my time *wink*

Hehe, NO FUCKING WAY, I have clothes, I have great clothes that I love to death. Now, all I want is for my hubby to take said clothes off me.

...Shit... I'm a husband *laughs*

Well partially the crossdressing (which is more gender expression than fetish for him), partially because he's incredibly stylish even wearing boys clothes, partially because of the long hair, the makeup, the lack of interest in girls with big boobs, his tendency to gesture when he talks, his walk (yes he has a tendency to be "swishy")

Thank you

Well, my DH and I dated for a year before I popped the question (Yes I popped the question). Lillie's the vocalist/bass player of a band that frequently plays shows in the new york city area. We arranged for his band to be booked at a little place in Williamsburg Brooklyn for our anniversary party. I had bought the ring before planning to give it to him on our anniversary that year. Now as with most underground bands, there's a fair amount of banter between the band and the crowd. After going into one of his little pre-song spiels "This next song is called Blissfully Dead, it's about death, any questions?" I shouted "Lillie, will you marry me?" and pulled out the ring, which in most clubs wouldn't have worked, but as they were playing a small venue with no stage and little stage lighting he saw. For a moment he looked dumbstruck, and unsure whether he ought to go one playing, or come over to me, or just answer me from the mic. Eventually he said "We'll be back after a short break due to nuptial complications" put his bass on the stand, and came and dragged me into the coat area. Obviously he said yes, and after a few moments of rather fantastic kissing, and some excited squealing on both our parts, he returned to finish his set. He explained things to the crowd like this. "Before Glass Doll resumes it's set, I have an announcement to make. I just found out that I'm getting married, how about that folks? Marriage is a great institution... and I've always said I ought to be in an institution."

Funny story actually, I met my husband because of my ex-girlfriend. My hubby was in a band that my ex was friends with the vocalist of. My ex actually had a bit of a crush on him, and showed me photos, I thought he was the prettiest boy I'd ever seen, and as makeup artist I wanted to have him model for me, so we got to talking, and this was about the time I was realizing my then girlfriend was an abusive emotionally manipulative nightmare, and he and I really, really hit it off, and then on may 21st of 2005 we met up in New York (I was living elsewhere at the time) and the rest is history. I still have the key card from our hotel room in my wallet.

I was wondering what everyone's favorite mutual stimulation cock ring is? I haven't tried cock rings yet myself, but I'm very eager to try, so I'd love you guys's input.

1. DH as Jareth 2. Have sex with DH with toys 3. DH as a nurse 4. DH as a victorian Saloon Gal 5. Dh in a corset, stockings, etc 6. Doggy style (which the hubby despises but I really want to try) 7. A blow job with him sitting and me kneeling, or him standing, and me kneeling. 9. Handcuffs on DH (I never bought a new pair after my last girlfriend took mine when we broke up about four years ago) 10. Having the hubby give my strap on a "blow job" 11. Video taping us together 12. Photographing each other naked. 13. The Mile high club 14. Roleplaying with DH (have done it with past partners, never gotten him to) 15. Play losing DH's virginity 16. Roleplaying cop/hooker (me cop, him hooker) 17. Having him cut my hair (I have a hair kink) 18. Roleplaying wealthy woman/ladies maid (Me maid, him wealthy lady) 19. School girl/teacher (him school girl) 20. Having him as my "dolly" for a day where I get to groom him, and pretty him up as I see fit 21. Being his dolly for the day. 22. Shaving one another's bodies (Trust is such a turn on) 23. DH as geisha 24. Piercing play (need to get some training for this) 25. this roleplay idea is weird, but makeover show host/contestant (Me contestant, him host) 26. Phone sex with DH 27. Collaring my DH 28. Forced feminization play. 29. Strap on play in general 30. Blindfolds with DH 31. Cock rings 32. Both of us getting really dolled up, and going out to dinner some place nice where I can show him off. 33. Crop/flogger play (again something I've done, but not with DH) 34. Husband as soviet military officer (by which I mean, a soviet officer in thigh high stiletto boots, and a corset) 35. Record Executive/Rock musician (Me as the record exec) 36. Him as a naughty secretary, me as boss. 37. sex in a store dressing room. 38. Surprising him with a weekend get away. 39. Whatever happens on our three year anniversary this may (since we started dating, not since we married)