PanickedVanity

So I'm looking for a really good g-spot vibe, unfortunately my g-spot isn't up and back a little, it's pretty much right there when you enter... I feel like I need a toy shaped like an allen wrench. I'm also looking for a little clit stimulator to get my husband to use on me, he's never been privy to my toy box (he knows they're there, but won't touch them) something not shaped like an animal, not huge, and not too loud, also is there any kind of vibe you'd recommend for teasing him? He's circumcised if it helps.

I skip the underwear (especially with jeans) I wear makeup and fix my hair I clean the house naked in nothing but 7 inch platform heels Masturbation Music Hot Baths I stand naked in the mirror and realize that I may be no porn star, but damn if I can't get my man's rocks off I take good care of my skin I moisturize EVERY WHERE with nice smelling lotion and right now due to an unfortunate health issue that's making me feel unpretty, I take my meds I walk and get exercise too

I know, but I've noticed that when he's feeling comfortable, and ok he loves sex, and really enjoys being with me, but when he feels ugly he doesn't enjoy it, and won't even undress in front of me if he can help in

He's genderqueer, not really comfortable being male, but not fully trans either

1. Nancy Boy - Placebo 2. The Velocity of Love - World/Inferno Friendship Society 3. Graveyard Girlfriend - The Groovy Ghoulies 4. The Chain Gang Of Love - The Raveonettes 5. Do You Wanna Touch Me? - Joan Jett 6. Get It On - T. Rex 7. Lady Stardust - David Bowie 8. Velvet Goldmine - David Bowie 9. Cumdumpster - Jack Off Jill (reminds me of my art school days, I was so bad) 10. Let's Make Love and Listen To Death From Above - Cansei De Ser Sexi 11. Boys On Film - Freezepop 12. You're so Damn Hot - OKGO 13. You Love It - Peaches 14. Two Boys - Peaches 15. Downtown - Peaches 16. Devil With The Black Dress On - Jack Off Jill 17. The Most Radical Thing To Do - The Ark 19. I Pathologize - The Ark 20. Oh You Pretty Things - David Bowie 21. Venus In Furs - The Velvet Underground (also the christian death cover) 22. Wild Thing 23. Into My Arms - Nick Cave 24. Dirty Business - The Dresden Dolls 25. The Crane Wife - The Decemberists (so romantic) 26. In Your Arms Tonight - Hedwig 27. Virginia Plane - Roxy Music 28. Raw Sugar - Metric 29. Torture Me - Metric 30. Post Blue - Placebo 31. As the World Falls Down - David Bowie 32. Heart Breaker - Pat Benatar 33. Tell Me What (you want) - The Pipettes 34. WILDCAT! - Be Your Own Pet 35. Damn Damn Leash - Be Your Own Pet 36. Ziggy Stardust - David Bowie (Also the Bauhaus cover) 37. You And I Misbehaving - Tilly And The Wall 38. I Do - Placebo (first dance song at my wedding *giggle*) 39. In The Bathroom (Is Where I Want You) - Nightmare of You 40. 1, 2, I Love You - The March Violets 41. Two Of Hearts - Stacey Q 42. Good Weekend - Art Brut 43. Dude Looks Like a Lady - Aerosmith 44. The Benefits of Lying With Your Friends - The Apples In Stereo 45. Origin Of Love - Hedwig 46. Venus As A Boy - Bjork 47. Big Time Sensuality - Bjork 48. Pictures - Timo Mass (feat: Brian Molko) 49. Disconnect The Dots - Of Montreal 50. Suffer For Fashion - Of Montreal 51. Light My Fire - The Doors 52. I Wanna Be Your Dog - Iggy Pop 53. Never Met A Girl Like You Before - Iggy Pop 54. Wishful Sinful - The Doors. 55. Lips Like Sugar - Echo & Bunnymen

My husband is a fantastic and attentive lover, however he's got some gender issues which make it tough for us to have sex as often as I like, not to mention low self esteem. Any suggestions on how I can make him feel as beautiful as he is?

I love that site! I think I'm going to have my hubby dress up when he gets home so I can take photos *ebil* since my mom is coming out to visit us this weekend *sigh*

I personally can't do this, I'm not quite an A cup... which is just fine with my hubby. He thinks it's a bit silly, and he adores my small breasts, although I can imagine the visuals would be very erotic

Hehe, yeah... I know that feeling!

I almost always wear stockings, I'm very leggy so tights/panty hose tend to leave me with my crotch at my knees. My hubby? He doesn't really care too much about what I'm wearing (as long as it's fashionable) Drives him NUTS when I wear jeans with no top, or a shirt that shows off my hipbones

I'm a makeup artist/writer (Makeup artist is sort of a day job, but not really) I do theater and film now and then, so I need to apply bald caps sometimes, also various other crazy prosthetic pieces. I have some awesome photos of this pig person I once did.

Hehe, yeah, I love pretty/androgynous boys. I intend to post pix when I get him into the costume He reminds me of the babe... the babe with the power of... bowie's package

I love Almodovar (although some of his plot lines get a bit twisted for getting off... Bad Education for one) and thank you this should prove immensely helpful. I'm so grateful to find something with no fake n' bake tans, silicone boobs, or crappy puns.

I've had clitoral O's while he's in me, and as I said, it doesn't feel bad on any level, just kinda "Huh, yep there definitely something in there", and it's not his fault either... I've explored that terrain a myriad of times. I just discovered the location of my G-spot today, so I'll see if he feels comfortable enough to have a poke when he gets home see if that changes things. Additional question: We don't like doggy style intercourse, or missionary (mostly because I'm a top, and he's a bottom, and we're both skinny so in missionary his hip bones end up stabbing me) we like cowgirl, and on our sides, and other ideas?

Ok, so I'm an ex art school student, I'm a writer. So, I care about how things looks, and plot and dialogue. Not to mention my type is less Jenna Jameson ( http://artfiles.art.com/images/-/Jenna-Jam...-C12006356.jpeg ) and more Kathleen Hanna ( http://www.ils.unc.edu/~ophelia2/grrrlzine...hleen_hanna.jpg ) or Amanda Palmer (http://g8.undercoverhd.com/imgsresized/article/071114Amanda-Palmer.JPG) Less Peter North ( http://skinindex.com/archives/peternorth08-thumb.jpg ) more Brian Molko ( http://data1.blog.de/blog/m/miss-angelblog...Molko_small.jpg ) or Sean Brennan ( http://www.musicremedy.com/webfiles/artist...ight-02-big.jpg ) or even the delightful Rozz Williams ( http://www.diymusic.com/modules/jamroom/ba...e1196520257.jpg ) So far the only films that have actually gotten my rocks off: The Dreamers (French Film) But I'm a Cheerleader (Non explicit, but delightful sex scene none the less) The Labyrinth (David Bowie is sex) The Placebo Videos DVD (Sad I know) The Dresden Dolls Live DVD (I know yet sadder) So, my question is, is there porn for people like me? Is there porn with good lighting, interesting sets, non-stupid dialogue, a sound track that doesn't make me giggle, and people I'll actually find attractive?

The question is, what would happen if you could get your husband to vibrate?

Oh... My... God... as I write this I am still having the most intense orgasm of my life. My local toy shop was having a buy two get one half off sale, and so I bought a new basic vibe (I still don't have a rabbit *sigh* need to buy one) and a little tiny g-spot vibe (My only g-spot toy as until recently I thought I didn't have one... turns out hell yeah I do... I just need a toy shaped like an allen wrench to get at it) but as I was saying OH MY FUCKING GOD! The combination of these two (well three counting the little ring vibe with the bunny sleeve I started off with) I was writing, I was moaning, I was having the sort of orgasms I write about (I write erotica... I always thought I was exaggerating) That was amazing, fantastic, and most awesome of all COMPLEtELY SOLO! Now, I love my husband, and my husband loves me, but he's genderqueer and often isn't comfortable enough in his body to have sex... now I don't have to beg for two hours when he's feeling bad about his genitalia. The g-spot vibe probably would be a little little on it's own, and it's not the most powerful thing in the world, but combine with the velvet touch vibe (very nice power on that BTW) and the light tease of the bunny sleeve ring vibe it was perfect, so perfect the sheets need to be changed. I could feel it rocking my whole body, normally I just feel my orgasms in my hips, legs, and you know, but not now I could feel it in my finger tips I should probably write this when I'm more coherent, let me just say it was good. The velvet touch is heavenly, and not very expensive either, though I sense I may wear that baby out in the near future. Love and Kisses, Madeira Darling

Oh there shall be photos... after all what better dirty pictures than ones of the one you love anyway

Hehe, I know the feeling, I already have my harem candidates selected for when I rule the world... Brian Molko will be mine... also Bowie, and Sean Brennan... god the things I would do to that man

Very true... although if this isn't my peak desire, I'm terrified of how I'll be when it hits. I'd probably have sex six times a day if I had time right now...

The problem isn't climax, I mean I know a lot of women can't have orgasms from penetration alone. But, penetration is supposed to feel good isn't it? Because when I have a man, or a toy, or my fingers inside me I don't get anything out of it, it feels about as good as having fingers in my mouth, just sort of like rubbing along wet skin. It doesn't feel bad for me either, having anything inside me just feels neutral.

He is very accepting of my desires (although he'd wear that outfit anyway, he likes to preform dressed as a girl, he goes by the stage name Lillie

I've never been able to feel physical pleasure from being penetrated, either by parters or by myself. I have no history of psychological/physical trauma, but it just doesn't do anything for me. I get plenty of pleasure from my clit being played with and can have mind blowing orgasms, and my husband is very well endowed. I can also obtain immense emotional pleasure from penetrative sex, the intimacy aspect is wonderful, but I feel nothing more pleasurable than any other contact. Is this normal? Even if it is, is there anything I can do about it, since I love having sex, and sexual pleasure, and more pleasure spots seems inevitably like a good thing.

Well he is in a rock band... so he does get his share of screaming fangirls (it's fun being the wifey...) Bowie is king of sexy though (well in my book next to my hubby)

I wasn't around for it, but I remember, mmm pretty men.