marriageman

Here's an article on low sex marriages...though it's from a Christian perspective: http://www.marriagehelper.com/sexless_marriage.php

Ladies, have any of you found that a vibrator made penetration not feel as great? In other words, for those of you who could orgasm by penetration prior to using a vibrator, did using a vibrator cause you to lose that? I hope I worded that so that it made sense. Thanks.

My wife always liked to receive and gave but more because she was returning the favor. In the last 2 or 3 years something has changed big time (for the good). One time we were planning to have sex and she just stopped and said that she wasn't turned on or wet. That frustrated both of us because we actually had some free time and had been looking forward to it. I was figuring out what I was going to do to get her there and all of a sudden she said, "I'll suck your dick." I thought that she was sort of offering that so that at least I'd get something and so I said, "But I want you to cum too." She said, "I do to, that's why I want to go down on you." I gave her a look that said she needed to explain and she said, "It turns me on like mad to suck your dick." Sure enough, she was wet after a minute or so and ever since then it's a sure fire way. It really turns her on. I have no problem with her needing that to be turned on.

Hi there, I'm a newbie here. I actually work for a marriage and sex enhancement organization. I look forward to reading posts (more posts that is) and interacting with folks. Take care.

We're in that area to a degree. The kids, who we love with everything we have, take a lot of our energy. And we have very little privacy. Even when we close and lock our door we can hear them or are worried about them and that's a major distraction. After they go to bed at night we're usually so tired. When I was 18 I never thought I'd be too tired for sex, but here I am, telling my wife I'm too tired! She gets really ticked. I can't blame her, I'm awesome. LOL!

Rook! Charades!

For anal you might want to try Vaseline. But only for anal.

Sex outside is one...it might be fun. Like on the beach!

That makes mine sound a little more planned.

I'd say 3 times a week. A good weekend will skew that though because we might have sex 2 or 3 times on Saturday. She used to wake me up in the middle of the night...I miss that.

I've found that being tired is a robber of sex drive to both of us. So we've started trying to have sex during the day instead of at the end of the day with whatever energy we have left. Vacations are good for the ole sex drive as well. Sleep late, do what you like, wear skimpy clothes, and have sex early and often.

I didn't see the anal starter kit before ordering the Enchanted Pleasure Wand. Does anyone have opinions on it? My wife has recently started enjoying anal play and when I mentioned something like this she liked the idea. I hope it can be a good starter for us even though it's not technically a starter kit.