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Thanks guys. All of your responses made me feel better. I don't know why I threw in the bi fact...just did it. An extra-marital affair is defnately NOT what I'm looking for, intriguing maybe, but won't happen. Now bringing 3rd MAY be a possibility but my wife is very, VERY insecure with herself and her sexuality so I doubt it would ever happen. Opening up the relationship would probably be out of the question, no matter now nice it could be, as I don't think the wife would go for it. There are no problems in our marrage (as far as I know anyway!) It is probably just a lust thing, just makes me feel a little guilty, yanno?

I love my wife more than even I know. It's not that I don't want her at all but lately she hasn't been doing it for me sexually which has nothing to do with whether or not I want to be with her. I am usually perfectly content with not having sex as I normally don't have much of a sex drive, but as I said, I've been in the mood a lot lately.

Lately I have been horny as all hell. Ya, not such a bad thing. The only problem is I don't want my wife (I'm sure I'm not the first guy ever). I am bisexual but haven't been in one of my 'moods', as my wife and I put it, in a while. On Saturday my wife and I went to a coming home party for one of our friends who spent the last year in Michigan which was held at another one of our friend's apartments. As usual at a party I spent my time drinking and mingling with new and old friends, meeting new people and generally having a great time. The only problem is I cannot stop thinking about a girl we met there. She's a very cool person, laid back, good sense of humor, and secure with herself and her sexuality. I feel guilty because she is constantly on my mind, even fantasizing about sex with her. We have become facebook friends and talk regularly now. I just don't know what to do. Do I not say anything to my wife and stop talking to the girl? Keep talking to her? I know I should (have to?) tell my wife. I'm just confused and frustrated.

The Newbury Street store is where my and the wife heard of TT. We were on our honeymoon and walking around the Back Bay and stumbled across it. It is by far the cleanest, well maintained adult toy shop I've been in. The wife and I live an hour north and may be able to make it down, any excuse to go down to Boston (a.k.a. HEAVEN!)

For me, a BJ is a rare treat. Sometimes my wife will go down on me for 1-2 minutes as a warm up to sex. I can't remember the last time I got a BJ just to get a BJ. I miss them....

I can't speak for the wife, but I know I never had cold feet. Even when I was standing in the back of the church with the priest and my brother (my best man) the only thing I was nervous about was standing in front of 100+ people, but that concern vanished the INSTANT I saw my wife and how insanely beautiful she was....spent all morning getting ready just for me....and all I did was shave and put a tux on. Have been happily married for a month and 21 days now!

I can't stand my wife's driving. She drives a stick and has been for years but when starting in 1st gear she doesn't give it enough gas when letting the clutch out and nearly stalls it EVERY TIME! She also texts and drives which drives me insane. She has no issue with my driving depending on which if my cars I'm driving (I'm a car guy). If I'm driving my Blazer I'm sane, do maybe 5 over the limit wherever I go. When I drive my 1996 Chevy Impala SS it is another story, speed limits are meerely a suggestion (the SS tops out at 145mph...I know from experience), I race ricers from every stop light I can and regularly do doughnuts and burnouts. I don't do this stuff with her in the car, but she still hates it.

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The "story" of how I proposed to my wife is that we were camping at Old Orchard Beach in Maine (LOVE IT UP THERE) and that we woke up early to watch the sunrise over the ocean, which we did do. I planned on proposing right then, had the ring and everything but chickened out. How I really proposed was in my old bedroom at my parent's house. I was 19, she was 18. I had the ring and was dying to give it to her even though I was incredibly nervous. I kept telling her for days I had a surprise for her for a further date.....I don't know what date I told her I was waiting for. So I asked her a couple times if she wanted to see her surprise and, much unlike her curious disposition, she said no. This happend several times until I got sick of it and told her she wanted to see it and took the ring from under my bed, opened it up and she was speechless. She took it after some convincing and put it on as I already had it sized to her. And the rest is history. Notice, I never actually ASKED her to marry me. The giving of the ring was over 6 years ago and we were married on Sept 26th of this year, all of this without a REAL proposal. She always tells me I owe her a proposal....just like she says I owe her a first date.

Ya, Ladylove. A lot of it is a generational thing. I notice most people on here that are older than me (not "old" but older) hate FB and myspace.

My wife and I both have a FB and Myspace and, I don't know about her, there is no distrust for us. I do talk to one of my old exes on FB all the time, so does my wife and she doesn't care, mainly because my ex is married with a child. My other ex who I broke up with because she was literally obsessed with me (I'm not kidding, it was on the verge of stalking) that tried to friend me on both of these sites I ignored. I absolutely adore Facebook tho. I have been talking with family and friends, which I used to see once or twice a year, on a nearly daily basis.

Thanks everyone.

It feels great, but not quite as good as it used to. It feels a little looser than she did a while ago but plenty good to get me off. A couple times the other night I got close and then I couldn't finish. I can orgasm just fine by myself, it just takes longer and more effort than it used to. I don't have any problems getting an erection and keeping it isn't a problem. Of course it softens if I'm not getting any stimulaton but that's normal. They happen quickly too. I am currently unemployed as I got laid off a little less than a month ago so I have been masturbating more than I used to, once or twice a day, mostly out of boredom. This could be an issue but if we are planning on having sex I don't do it. Another thing I can think of is stress. As I mentioned I was just laid off. The day after I got laid off we found out my wife is pregnant.

Lately I've been taking longer and longer to finish. Even by myself. The other night with my wife I couldn't at all. Tried multiple positions, even doggy (in this position I used to last a matter of seconds to 2 minutes). We were doing it in doggy for 15 minutes and nothing. It really sucks. I got frustrated and walked out of the bedroom and got a drink and when I came back my wife was on the verge of tears saying that she can't please me, which is as far from the truth as you can get. We have no problem with her orgasms. I got lucky and found a woman who can get off through vaginal intercourse alone...over and over again for that matter. Any ideas from you guys?

How's it going? This forum seems awesome! Anyway, I'm a 25 year old guy. I have been with my (now) wife for over 8 years now and we just got married this past Saturday (the 26th). On our mini-honeymoon earlier this week we stumbled into the Too Timid store on Newbury Street in Boston and, I don't know about my wife, but I fell in love! We picked up the Discover Your Lover board game and played it for the first time last night.....it's now my fave board game next to Monopoly!!!