Lately I have been horny as all hell. Ya, not such a bad thing. The only problem is I don't want my wife (I'm sure I'm not the first guy ever). I am bisexual but haven't been in one of my 'moods', as my wife and I put it, in a while. On Saturday my wife and I went to a coming home party for one of our friends who spent the last year in Michigan which was held at another one of our friend's apartments. As usual at a party I spent my time drinking and mingling with new and old friends, meeting new people and generally having a great time. The only problem is I cannot stop thinking about a girl we met there. She's a very cool person, laid back, good sense of humor, and secure with herself and her sexuality. I feel guilty because she is constantly on my mind, even fantasizing about sex with her. We have become facebook friends and talk regularly now. I just don't know what to do. Do I not say anything to my wife and stop talking to the girl? Keep talking to her? I know I should (have to?) tell my wife. I'm just confused and frustrated.