Kace

I'm curious, what keeps the sleeve from sliding off? If you squeeze it while putting it on, does suction hold it in place?

This might end up being one of those ER visits that ends up on the front page...

Looks like it would work if the guy is leaning and tilting his hips forward. I would imagine it would hit the gspot pretty hard though the penetration won't be as deep. Why don't you give it a go?

You mean this one? http://www.sexinfo101.com/piledriver.shtml Interesting, but I don't know if a penis can bend like that.

It sounds like he may feel ashamed of his sexuality, it's not uncommon. As with everything, porn in moderation isn't a bad thing. But if he's using it as a substitute for intimacy then it can be destructive. However, you can use his taste in porn as an advantage. Rather than flat out confronting him about it, work it into a conversation and find out what kind of porn he prefers. That may open him up a little and you can find out about what his fantasies are. You could also offer to do "Top 10's" - each of you writes down your top 10 fantasies/wishes and trade notes. You each pick something off each other's list and make an effort to fulfill it. The nice thing about top 10 is that there's no rejection associated with it - you get to pick from a range of options rather than saying no to one. You don't have to turn yourself into the supermodel of the week he's salivating over - most guys view women in porn with a detached lust. Take heart, It's all just eyecandy to fuel masturbation fantasies - I'd wager he doesn't think less of you for not "measuring up" to the airbrushed bodies on the screen. It's an unattainable ideal - you're the real thing! If the top 10 doesn't get a reaction, sit him down and lay it out. As for your comment - "I could buy the biggest, fattest, dildo around and never leave the house, but I don't because I'm in a relationship.", why NOT buy the biggest, fattest dildo around? There's no shame in it, doesn't matter if you're in a relationship or not! You might be able to incorporate it into your love life and draw him in. Get him to try a toy or two on you, maybe work a new position in. It's worth a shot.

Although I like natural female "flavor", System Jo flavored lubes are pretty good. I have the Tangerine Dream flavor and like it. Flavored lubricants are often hit or miss - I've found many of them to taste rather repulsive. I hear good things about ID Juicy Lube too though I've never tasted it. As with all of the System Jo products, they don't get sticky as they dry. http://www.tootimid.com/JO-H2O-Flavored_p_2733.html

Flutter is the only erotic poetry I've written so far and that's been years ago. I wrote a poem about a painful breakup with a different girl in college who I'd been with for only 2 weeks. I've long since lost it but I recall it was a description of a rose and how soft and beautiful it is on the surface but reaching for it will make you bleed. Yes, it was depressing and dripping with self-pity. I've got words for another poem bouncing around my head but it's not particularly erotic either. I can send it to you if you like once it's done. I want to experiment with iambic pentameter as a nod to old Shakespeare. I think the poem is going to be an allegory about the implicit disposability of the male gender using Atlas as the primary figure. Not sexy, but cathartic.

That sounds intriguing! I'll definitely check that one out. That would be really odd, giving birth to your own mother. That's wrong on so many levels.

Right on Thurisas. Tongue and fingers have infinitely more flexibility and potential - plus you can focus directly on your lover without having to worry about climaxing too soon.

Thanks! I totally agree about how sexy the slightest thatch above the pantyline can be! I know it can be off-putting for some folk but for me it draws the eye, a visual invitation, and makes me imagine the wonders hidden just below that thin strip of lace. About the small V shaping bit, there is a nude model that frequently poses for Metart that goes by Ulya who has done the same thing. It's unbelievably sexy - this perfect little V that points the way. Pardon the stupid censor dot over a nipple, here's an example I found on the net: http://www.femininebeauty.info/images/ulya.5.jpg

Found an explanation online, thanks urban dictionary! Definitely a grower here.

There are 6 books in the series so far, they just keep coming.

I'm not sure if you're into reading novels or not, but if you like time travel, romance, and exotic locations - pick up a copy of "Outlander" by Diana Gabaldon. It's a great read by an up and coming author.

Absolutely a good start! Hmmm, never been to a gay bar. Maybe I should see what they're all about, though a drink or two would be as far as I go.

Ooh, good call Wendy. Maybe I should start watching the news in the morning.

I keep myself well trimmed with a short electric groomer. I tried shaving down there once and it was a miserable experience 2 days later. Felt like I had a combination of poison ivy and a brush fire going on. As to what I prefer with my partner - it depends on the gal. I've never been with anyone who shaved but it sounds fun - I'd love to do something like this for her. Trimmed is perfect. My previous girlfriend left it all natural and I thought it looked fine, wasn't like she was smuggling sasquatch in her panties or anything. Her hair was jet black and soft like mink fur, just divine. She had the softest hint of rose in her natural scent. Not sure how since she refuses to use perfume but it was intoxicating. My wife is a bit of an enigma in that her pubic hair grows in in just the right spot and just the right length that it looks like it's always well groomed. It's really weird but a time saver. It's a little patch right above her hood and nowhere else. She won't admit it but she likes when I tug gently on it when she's close to orgasm. I suppose I'd be a bit sad if she shaved it all off since I wouldn't be able to do that for her. As for her preference, it's anything but shaved. She wouldn't shave and doesn't want me shaved either. She says it creeps her out to look pre-pubescent. I suppose it's a good thing that I don't have a strong shaving preference. So what I mean by "depends on the gal" - I consider the amount of trust required for her to allow me between her legs to be a gift. It's a sacred space and I'm going to treat it as such, so I'm not going to judge her based on where she's got hair. Sure I'd appreciate if she trims enough to keep me from coughing up hair later but I'd never dictate how she should groom herself.

I'm not even sure what those terms really mean, so not sure how to answer the poll.

If you're limiting this to news and sports personalities, the list is pretty short. But a hell yes to Leanne Tweeden. A close runner up would be Lisa Guerrero.

Heh, you *should* give it a try. Lots of fun. As for your question - Tough one. I'd say no for two reasons - 1. I'd feel sick and obsess over it afterwards. I need a strong bond with someone first. If that's not there I get really depressed. 2. Sex generates powerful emotions. I couldn't forgive myself for leading someone on just to use them. It wouldn't be right. Would you use a "one night free sex with anyone" pass if your significant other gave you one? If so, describe who you'd cash it in with.

Y'know Wendy, that sounds like the perfect opportunity for another story.

Looking forward to hearing all about it.

Thanks. I give her the credit for this one, I merely channeled it all into words.

Here is the poem I alluded to in the "Workout" thread. It's freeform prose with a bit of alliteration thrown in for sparkle. All apologies to ee cummings. I can close my eyes and still relive that day and the 5 hours we were in each others arms. C'est la vie. ----------------------------------- Flutter Quiet early morning, a weekend - for sleeping in! Alarm clock conspicuously absent numb groggy fog dispelled. Yet how squirmy my thoughts and how languid my drive Awake! Yawn. Streeeeeetch... Remember, smile. A someone awaits - Promise of undiscovered bliss near in the dawn air. Effervescent elated flips, capricious smile. Greets to you bewitching goddess desired Soused not of spirits but by spirited being. Amidst the fuzzy warmth of chilled mimosas how (ful)filled are we Boundless still this old friendship swelling smolderingly underneath We dance sans moving, wield words in eversocrafty ways Catching up to the time displaced - many memories bubbling new ones made. Trek short anticipation long Words fail to say as they're wont to do Passions rekindle flames never wholly snuffed out And how wonderfully new this all is! So familiar yet new territory, new sights, new smells, gentle sighs Longing for you never ended but now is more beginning How long has it been? Too long, m'dear. Hands sliding, lips gliding, breathless gazes bartered, senses free! Alight with you follow fly on with me no wings needed Not sure where we are but exactly where we should be Oh flutter! Fierce howl inside this animal need, wanting, bursting at the seams! Wait. Settle down boy! Calmly, no rush to enjoy. Savor this moment we are ours for a day. Fingertips gently caressing past rosy cheek Down delicate valley between twin magnificent peaks Never known coquetry now childlike wonder explores Silky the skin, gleeful the grin, overflow sensation, WILD again Lick pop circle suck squeeeeeeze - a gasp! Lengthy look that says "Yes, please." Quickened beating though metered pace further south A whiff, sweat salty glistening, a whisper, come hither... Cute button! Ha ha! Mercurial nips across the surface. Beckoning beyond satin womanfur so curlycue black beautiful <tickle> <giggle> Up to green pools so deeply alive to gaze into you me Heat. Steamy moistness secret place, sacred space Morning dew for honey smooth petals of light dark Enfolded at the point of origin inviting within. Mmm loitering loins nicely Raising the sail to catch the wind Not quite yet Tease in electric arc licks flicker fickle flaming tongue wisps Whirling dervishes, graceful motion and arching spine, curving hips Crimson complexion purple hues aching breath. Begging muscle pleading twitch and soon but No, not yet. Careful brushing of velvet aside lovingly delighted at the passage Gentle pressure guiding where I cannot follow Tender shudders serene quakes through my consuming Fevered tempo beats lashing nerves tingly and taut tightly wound Fiddle strings and bow plucked playfully nimble in rhythm to the body topic Ragged gasping silent cries Oh yes m'dear, now. Tension snaps - slack crisp new scorching blush Cresting tide crashing into shores unstoppable Released exhortation to a god that isn't there but laughs in joy nonetheless How sweet the shudder and clench to crush the agent of attentions lavished Lovingly ripple tense break beyond to float to fluffy earth A firecracker spent - price paid hundredfold at such a precious view At ease you are Into me so as I into you. Flutter.

Hmm, I'll have to pick one out. Truthfully, we've been vanilla for a looooong time. But I do have a poem I wrote immediately after a brief dalliance with a former girlfriend before I got hitched. Let me dig it out and I'll post it. It was the most incredible, DEEP lovemaking I've ever had. I mean, how often would a man be inspired to write poetry afterwards? Damn, I miss her. But I don't regret how things ended up, for many reasons. I'm in a good place now.

Losing a bunch of weight will certainly change your body image - sometimes in a positive way and sometimes negative. My wife lost a significant abount of weight through diet and lots of exercise. I though she looked fine before but now she looks fantastic. She still doesn't believe it yet but she's coming around. She's pregnant and you'd NEVER know it. I'm sure that'll change in a few weeks but it won't change how attractive she is. I think with enough reinforcement from people other than me she'll get it. This week's episode should get recorded tonight, can't wait.