Newbie Slavegirl Posted July 9, 2012 Newbie Report Share Posted July 9, 2012 So hubbys 30th is coming up in a week. I decided I was going to give him the birthday sex of his life friday when he gets home from work. I bought (for the first time) some lingerie and I feel kinda sluttly with it its crotch-less and has slits in the cups for nipple clamps, but I know he will love it, hes been begging me since we got married. We already have a leash and collar and cuffs and restraints...we dabble in the whole bondage thing, I do enjoy being tied up. It sends a rush through me. But hubby isn't to good at the whole thing. I kinda plays around a little and then just goes for it. I don't know how to bring it up to him especially since I want this to be a surprise...when he walks in from work I want him to see me tied up already in the lingerie, leash and collar, cuffs and nipple clamps. I want him to go immediately hard when he sees me. I was even going to use some tightening cream to make it extra special and I am getting an IUD so no more condoms. But hes just so...well like I said he shoves his finger in a little plays around...licks me then goes in and goes off...after that its a dildo to finish me off. Not much fun and I just don't know how to get him to embrace the bondage part...Honestly being tied up is about the only difference from our regular sex nights and I want him to dominate me and just love it all and take his time...but I don't even know what to tell him he should do. we have only been married 4 years and other then cuffs on my wrists and ankles we haven't done much with bondage...any advice before friday would be great...I really just want him to go hard at the sight of me and take his time and really do bondage the way its meant to be done...I don't even really have time to talk to him about all this as he works two jobs and on a good day I see him for only about 5 minutes and I don't want that one conversation for the day to be about how bad his bondage play is... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members WendyNY Posted July 9, 2012 Members Report Share Posted July 9, 2012 The birthday surprise does sound exciting.....however....you have stated that he does not really know what to do. I guess half the fun of it is learning about it together. I suppose you need to approach it slowly little by little. I am not into BDSM at all but I do know there are lots of people on this site who are very much into it and there are some who even live that lifestyle 24/7.I think you really need to have a heart to heart talk with him about what YOU want. Tell him what will excite you before you even enter the bedroom. Have the talk in a separate place and not on the day you are planning to have it happen. What you want it to be like and what the outcome will be are probably 2 different things. It takes a couple a long time to know what the other wants and to feel comfortable with each other. He may not feel comfortable with all of it and may be afraid he will hurt you.I understand what it's like to not see your husband very much .You want to make the most of your short time together. My husband and I worked opposite shifts for years.I think communication is the key to having it all work out in your favor. And you can have lots of fun just practicing !! Just enjoy the moment and let it happen. Please let us know the outcome. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Slavegirl Posted July 9, 2012 Author Newbie Report Share Posted July 9, 2012 Thanks ladies. While I was looking for some help online someone suggested I write little notes as to what I want him to do. Well I got a little carried away with it and wrote up this...Happy Birthday Big Boy!I got you a toy!These are her instructions!Just follow the actions!Tease her before you please her!Make her beg, whine and whimper!She’s been bad, she’s been dirty!She’s been really flirty!She’s loose and she’s wet!She lost the whole bet!Her wrists and ankles restrained!Her tits entertained!Go ahead and just leave her!Let her moan, whine and whimper!You don’t need to be here!You can just disappear!Come back and she’ll suck you!It’s all kinda new!Strawberry tastes great!So don’t hesitate!Rub it all over, give her a taste!It feels really great!He won’t ever be chaffed!Now tease her before you please her!Make her beg, whine and whimper!There are no clothes to remove!Just get in a groove!She’s open and ready!There’s a hole there already!Let him go barely in!Now look at her grin!Your head plays peak-a-boo!But don’t let him fall through!Take him out and do it all over again!We know it’s hard to abstain!Now tickle her pussy!No need to be pushy!She has nowhere to go!She’s you’re little ho!Now make her plead!Since you have the lead!Let him go barely in!Now look at her grin!Take him out and do it all over again!Look there is more!She’s really a whore!She’s getting even wetter!But it’s not time to get her!Just flip her over!Or bend her right over!Just look at that ass!Oh it’s got class!Since it is tight!Just lube it up right!Let him go barely in!Take him out and do it all over again!Oh look at the toys!I bet they can make her make noise!Is she wetter than wet?Are you getting her yet?Go ahead and just leave her!Make her beg, whine and whimper!Leave her ass in the air!Oh how she’ll swear!Go take a shower!She’ll still be there in an hour!When you come back she’ll beg you some more!What are you to do with this whore?Spank her she’s bad!It won’t make her mad!She’ll even thank you a bit later!There is nothing greater!Is she begging for cock?Well don’t let her talk!Gag her up really good!Or shove in your wood!This is for you, it should be really good!What else do you want?You could be nonchalant!This is your gift! After a long work shift!Oh she is slutty!But you can turn her to putty!Do whatever you want!Just make sure that you taunt!Tease her before you please her!Make her beg, whine and whimper!Vibrations are good!Oh if only you could!!There’s a fake one right there on the table!She’s willing and able!Look at her flaunt!Just be nonchalant!The longer this lasts the better it will be!She’s up on her knees!Just do as you please!She’s not going anywhere!So just pull on her hair!Let him go barely in!Now look at her grin!Take him out and do it all over again!Pull on her chains!Pound out her brains!Just wait till you cum!Oh how she’ll succumb!She’ll scream out your name!What a wonderful game!You have beautiful aim!Wasn’t that good?She just loved all your wood!You both should be joyful!Oh it was blissful!Happy birthday big boy!I hope you enjoy your toy!I am going to clamp it on my nipple with a nipple clamp... what do you think? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted August 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 30, 2012 All of that would work on me. Tho that List looks like a three day affair to accomplish everything. And being one to measure twice or three times before I make that first saw cut, I just might take my sweet time completing every task on that List.Way back when I got too curious and was seeking answers in all the wrong places I purchased a DIY type book written by Jay Wiseman. The title is SM 101. It's a book for Beginners in the Realm of BDSM. Slavegirl should pick up a copy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 2, 2012 Members Report Share Posted September 2, 2012 Well how did it go?...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted March 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted March 2, 2016 On 7/9/2012 at 6:04 PM, Slavegirl said: Thanks ladies. While I was looking for some help online someone suggested I write little notes as to what I want him to do. Well I got a little carried away with it and wrote up this... Happy Birthday Big Boy! I got you a toy! These are her instructions! Just follow the actions! Tease her before you please her! Make her beg, whine and whimper! She’s been bad, she’s been dirty! She’s been really flirty! She’s loose and she’s wet! She lost the whole bet! Her wrists and ankles restrained! Her tits entertained! Go ahead and just leave her! Let her moan, whine and whimper! You don’t need to be here! You can just disappear! Come back and she’ll suck you! It’s all kinda new! Strawberry tastes great! So don’t hesitate! Rub it all over, give her a taste! It feels really great! He won’t ever be chaffed! Now tease her before you please her! Make her beg, whine and whimper! There are no clothes to remove! Just get in a groove! She’s open and ready! There’s a hole there already! Let him go barely in! Now look at her grin! Your head plays peak-a-boo! But don’t let him fall through! Take him out and do it all over again! We know it’s hard to abstain! Now tickle her pussy! No need to be pushy! She has nowhere to go! She’s you’re little ho! Now make her plead! Since you have the lead! Let him go barely in! Now look at her grin! Take him out and do it all over again! Look there is more! She’s really a whore! She’s getting even wetter! But it’s not time to get her! Just flip her over! Or bend her right over! Just look at that ass! Oh it’s got class! Since it is tight! Just lube it up right! Let him go barely in! Take him out and do it all over again! Oh look at the toys! I bet they can make her make noise! Is she wetter than wet? Are you getting her yet? Go ahead and just leave her! Make her beg, whine and whimper! Leave her ass in the air! Oh how she’ll swear! Go take a shower! She’ll still be there in an hour! When you come back she’ll beg you some more! What are you to do with this whore? Spank her she’s bad! It won’t make her mad! She’ll even thank you a bit later! There is nothing greater! Is she begging for cock? Well don’t let her talk! Gag her up really good! Or shove in your wood! This is for you, it should be really good! What else do you want? You could be nonchalant! This is your gift! After a long work shift! Oh she is slutty! But you can turn her to putty! Do whatever you want! Just make sure that you taunt! Tease her before you please her! Make her beg, whine and whimper! Vibrations are good! Oh if only you could!! There’s a fake one right there on the table! She’s willing and able! Look at her flaunt! Just be nonchalant! The longer this lasts the better it will be! She’s up on her knees! Just do as you please! She’s not going anywhere! So just pull on her hair! Let him go barely in! Now look at her grin! Take him out and do it all over again! Pull on her chains! Pound out her brains! Just wait till you cum! Oh how she’ll succumb! She’ll scream out your name! What a wonderful game! You have beautiful aim! Wasn’t that good? She just loved all your wood! You both should be joyful! Oh it was blissful! Happy birthday big boy! I hope you enjoy your toy! I am going to clamp it on my nipple with a nipple clamp... what do you think? Please message me and tell me if I am entering my thoughts in the right manner to comment on your post. Anyway what a wonderful gift for a man. Wow! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted March 2, 2016 Members Report Share Posted March 2, 2016 Should I have put my comments here instead. Newbie here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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