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So one of my favorite things to do sexually is research, as odd as that sounds. I love finding new techniques or things to try. People here tend to know a lot about g spot orgasms to the point that i really wanted to give my girlfriend one. After doing research and finding different videos, i decided to try it out. After tying her down, and not letting her know what i was going to do, i fingered her, no clit stim, and her face was perfect. Got her off three times that way.

That was great and all, but i want to know how to do it better. I was wondering if anyone had tips, tricks, how often can a woman orgasm from g spot stim? Do women tend to find that after the first 1 or 2 the effect wears off? From what i could tell (especially from "you have to do this every time we have sex") she enjoyed herself, but i want to know that she has no choice but to get off if i put my mind to it.

The technique i learned/used was to insert two fingers, find the g spot, then a come hither motion that directly rubs her g spot. Then as she wants it faster i move my hand and fingers. Are there better methods than this?

Also, last thing, is it normal to feel like youre almost scraping something at times? She wasnt in pain so i knew i hadnt scratched her, but i felt like maybe i was scraping something soft and it was getting under my fingernails (though there was nothing under them afterwards).

Thank you, and i look forward to hearing your opinions/ideas!

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Good for you for doing "research". The come hither motion works for me..... You could experiment with other motions and see if works. As far as scraping something, the g-spot is a "rough" texture, that's what your describing. Otherwise I'm not sure.

Here's a big hint for your sex life.... DO NOT make foreplay a recipe! You should change it up, not "have to" do something every-time. If you do I guarantee it will get boring. Be creative, be different, and keep researching!

Your sexuality is a never ending journey. Never believe you know it all!

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These are some of what I do with the Mrs. after I've had my way with her. She'll pull out the vibrator and I'll go in with a finger. I try different things over time, each one seeming to work better than the last, and when I can't think of anything new, I'll try one of the old techniques and it's like a brand new one all over again.

Most of these are with her on her back. Make sure all is lubed well with slippery sloppy bodily fluids or other lube.

- the come hither finger you know about. The first time doing that on my wife was like hitting pay dirt.

- go in with the finger "face down," that is, with the pad/finger prints facing down toward the bed (or tail bone). then curve it into the "come hither" shape, rotate your wrist so the finger rubs along inside her until it is in the normal upward come hither position. then pull it out slowly, pressing on and fighting the G-spot, and at the last moment let you finger's first segment flop back like you're popping it out of your mouth to make a "pop" noise, while suddenly pulling your finger out all the way. Repeat.

Make sure to keep your finger nail short and be careful not to scratch her.

- finger in but keep it straight and extend it past the G-spot and thrust it into the vaginal wall beyond. Follow the moans to find the best location to press against, and the location may change with time. Again, watch the finger nails; don't wanna stab her.

- same thing but apply upward pressure at the vagina opening with the root of your finger.

- rub, or even simply press rythmically, the outside of her between the vagina opening and the clit, as its own thing, or do it with your other hand while the first hand is doing its internal fingering.

- Similarly with just one hand, use the thumb outside and the index finger inside, either just inside or on the G-spot, and sort of gently squeeze the thumb tip and finger tip together while gently rubbing in and out or even side-to-side.

- finger just in to the first knuckle and press upward (toward ceiling), either a strong, steady pressure or rythmically. Very little movement at all.

- finger in (try varying distances) and apply the strong upward pressure, but move the finger side to side with some gusto, instead of in and out. This one hurts my wrist after a while.

- same thing but with two fingers.

- middle finger instead of the index finger for most of the above.

- middle finger with thrusting motion while rubbing the G-spot with a "come hither" finger, or pressing further in with a straighter finger. Make a sort of fist with the thumb and other fingers, and let the backs of the index and ring fingers bang into the outside of her, to simulate a pounding pelvis during intercourse. If you can manage it, let the thumb knuckle also gently hit her in that area between the vagina opening and the clit.

- index finger "face down" toward tail bone/bed. Bend the finger at the second knuckle into an L shape. While sliding the finger in and out and pressing downward and rubbing the bottom (back??) of the vaginal wall, rub that knuckle firmly against the top of the vagina opening (sort adjacent to the G spot). Try to keep the finger bent to keep downward pressure with the tip (the finger-print-pad part) and upward pressure with the knuckle.

- this time with her belly down (kneeling doggie style or lying with belly down on the bed), use the thumb inside her and the side of your index finger on her clit. That drove my wife nuts to the point she wriggled away and out of my reach; it was too intense after a time.

That's all I got.

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These are some of what I do with the Mrs. after I've had my way with her. She'll pull out the vibrator and I'll go in with a finger. I try different things over time, each one seeming to work better than the last, and when I can't think of anything new, I'll try one of the old techniques and it's like a brand new one all over again.

Most of these are with her on her back. Make sure all is lubed well with slippery sloppy bodily fluids or other lube.

- the come hither finger you know about. The first time doing that on my wife was like hitting pay dirt.

- go in with the finger "face down," that is, with the pad/finger prints facing down toward the bed (or tail bone). then curve it into the "come hither" shape, rotate your wrist so the finger rubs along inside her until it is in the normal upward come hither position. then pull it out slowly, pressing on and fighting the G-spot, and at the last moment let you finger's first segment flop back like you're popping it out of your mouth to make a "pop" noise, while suddenly pulling your finger out all the way. Repeat.

Make sure to keep your finger nail short and be careful not to scratch her.

- finger in but keep it straight and extend it past the G-spot and thrust it into the vaginal wall beyond. Follow the moans to find the best location to press against, and the location may change with time. Again, watch the finger nails; don't wanna stab her.

- same thing but apply upward pressure at the vagina opening with the root of your finger.

- rub, or even simply press rythmically, the outside of her between the vagina opening and the clit, as its own thing, or do it with your other hand while the first hand is doing its internal fingering.

- Similarly with just one hand, use the thumb outside and the index finger inside, either just inside or on the G-spot, and sort of gently squeeze the thumb tip and finger tip together while gently rubbing in and out or even side-to-side.

- finger just in to the first knuckle and press upward (toward ceiling), either a strong, steady pressure or rythmically. Very little movement at all.

- finger in (try varying distances) and apply the strong upward pressure, but move the finger side to side with some gusto, instead of in and out. This one hurts my wrist after a while.

- same thing but with two fingers.

- middle finger instead of the index finger for most of the above.

- middle finger with thrusting motion while rubbing the G-spot with a "come hither" finger, or pressing further in with a straighter finger. Make a sort of fist with the thumb and other fingers, and let the backs of the index and ring fingers bang into the outside of her, to simulate a pounding pelvis during intercourse. If you can manage it, let the thumb knuckle also gently hit her in that area between the vagina opening and the clit.

- index finger "face down" toward tail bone/bed. Bend the finger at the second knuckle into an L shape. While sliding the finger in and out and pressing downward and rubbing the bottom (back??) of the vaginal wall, rub that knuckle firmly against the top of the vagina opening (sort adjacent to the G spot). Try to keep the finger bent to keep downward pressure with the tip (the finger-print-pad part) and upward pressure with the knuckle.

- this time with her belly down (kneeling doggie style or lying with belly down on the bed), use the thumb inside her and the side of your index finger on her clit. That drove my wife nuts to the point she wriggled away and out of my reach; it was too intense after a time.

That's all I got.

O_O ... ... wow. That's... quite a list you've got there.

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Yes, quite a list indeed lol. Okay, so new question. Is there any way to make g-spot orgasms easier for her, or her g-spot more sensitive? Anything either i or she can do =). Just wondering.

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Yes, quite a list indeed lol. Okay, so new question. Is there any way to make g-spot orgasms easier for her, or her g-spot more sensitive? Anything either i or she can do =). Just wondering.

Not sure about making it more sensitive, but I can tell you the more turned on she is the better almost anything will feel. Why don't you go for and extra long foreplay, make sure she is extra wet and turned on, then try to massage her g-spot. She may just need some time to get use to the feeling before she'll be able to orgasm from a g-spot massage.

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So, something new I have been trying recently is to fold a finger in half (middle or index finger) and go in knuckle first. Turns out I hardly get any penetration this way, but nonetheless whatever that knuckle is doing is causing good pleasure.

I am finding that knuckling alone is not good enough, and I have to preceed it with regular fingering, or get her close to climax with knuckling and then switch to regular fingering, or both. My hand has been getting awfully drippy wet by the end of it, lately.

Plus "Knuckling" as a sex verb has a nice ring to it . . .

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I love that little video on the "pop" noise up there. I love all the advice already given, but I have some ideas / suggestions as well. First, not every woman can squirt. There are differing degrees of this as well. Sometimes it is just a small gush - others it can be bed soaking - and not always consistent. Some women squirt easily, each time with sex or fingering, some never will. Some may do it only when drunk (inhibitions gone) and some may be able to learn to let go. The most important thing to remember is: KEEP SEX FUN!

Never put pressure on yourself or your partner, or it will not happen. I learned this with my ex-boyfriend. I wanted to squirt for him so badly that I could NOT do it. Then, when I finally just let myself go - BAM - there it was. With new partners we are not always as comfortable. With established partners we sometimes are TOO comfortable with our routines to try something new.

All the techniques and suggestions given above are dead on. The key points have been hit. Stimulate, Stimulate, STIMULATE! Keep her ripe for the orgasms, get her G-spot swelling. Have fun and things will happen as they should!

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Tried a new thing, with wife in the on-her-back position. Just my thumb thrusting in and out, with the rest of my palm and fingers touching and bumping the areas on the outside. As an option, bend you index finger down so the back of it is bumping the area between the clit and the vagina opening.

The way my thumb is shaped I can't really hit her clit this way; plus it's kind of short. So I usually have to mix this up with another fingering style.

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