Members Inquiry Posted February 24, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 24, 2020 My boyfriend is using a vibrating suction dildo and he wont own up to it. He videotaped hisself I think he is bisexual but I am cool with all that what should I do? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted February 24, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 24, 2020 Just because he used a suction cup dildo does not mean he is bisexual. Many heterosexual men like anal stimulation and enjoy various things in their anus. maybe you should talk to him and you can use a vibrating dildo on him or just finger or prostate stimulation. It'll be fun for the two of you 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Satin panties Posted February 24, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 24, 2020 What he said.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Inquiry Posted February 24, 2020 Author Members Report Share Posted February 24, 2020 40 minutes ago, Rio said: Just because he used a suction cup dildo does not mean he is bisexual. Many heterosexual men like anal stimulation and enjoy various things in their anus. maybe you should talk to him and you can use a vibrating dildo on him or just finger or prostate stimulation. It'll be fun for the two of you I would love to join him but he won't let me and denies liking it so what should I do? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members Rio Posted February 24, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 24, 2020 Next time you're giving him a blowjob start tickling his asshole and then slowly insert your finger. Make sure you're well lubricated. I know I love that when my wife does that to me 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Inquiry Posted February 25, 2020 Author Members Report Share Posted February 25, 2020 12 hours ago, Inquiry said: I would love to join him but he won't let me and denies liking it so what should I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Inquiry Posted February 25, 2020 Author Members Report Share Posted February 25, 2020 I will try I feel he is having anal sex there is something wrong I can feel it he had erectile dysfunction with me but in the video he made it showed him fully erect and that was with him fucking himself with the vibrating dildo and doesn't care if I sleep with other men as long as he gets to be involved I am very confused. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members twin spirits Posted February 26, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 26, 2020 On 2/25/2020 at 4:46 AM, Inquiry said: I will try I feel he is having anal sex there is something wrong I can feel it he had erectile dysfunction with me but in the video he made it showed him fully erect and that was with him fucking himself with the vibrating dildo and doesn't care if I sleep with other men as long as he gets to be involved I am very confused. Maybe it's time to move on. Honesty is the foundation of a good relationship and he is lying to you about something you already know is true. Where do the two of you go from here? Not any place good. Think about it and think about whatever is right for you. Good luck 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted March 7, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2020 On 2/24/2020 at 2:32 PM, Inquiry said: My boyfriend is using a vibrating suction dildo and he wont own up to it. He videotaped hisself I think he is bisexual but I am cool with all that what should I do? Aww girlfriend don't feel bad because he's experimenting with his desires behind closed doors he's probably just to scared or embarrassed to tell you about what he's going through 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted March 7, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2020 On 2/24/2020 at 2:32 PM, Inquiry said: My boyfriend is using a vibrating suction dildo and he wont own up to it. He videotaped hisself I think he is bisexual but I am cool with all that what should I do? Actually I have an idea, get yourself one to and pull it out the next time you two are in bed and just softly tell him that you have been fantasizing about playing with it 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted March 7, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2020 On 2/24/2020 at 3:53 PM, Inquiry said: I would love to join him but he won't let me and denies liking it so what should I do? Why would it matter if he was bisexual?? You say that like it's a DIRTY WORD? No offence but honestly guys are just more prideful of there sexuality it's up to you to make him feel totally normal with enjoying that 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Inquiry Posted March 10, 2020 Author Members Report Share Posted March 10, 2020 On 9/18/2018 at 8:20 AM, hardwood68 said: I have to upload pics. Need to clear memory. Have vids if you want message me On 10/25/2018 at 11:46 PM, hardwood68 said: What are you into. My.wifes b day. Just bought new toys, strap on and outfit for her. On 10/30/2018 at 2:00 AM, Pussy man said: Double penetration on her any pics of that? On 3/7/2020 at 4:42 PM, Bigirlhaggen said: Actually I have an idea, get yourself one to and pull it out the next time you two are in bed and just softly tell him that you have been fantasizing about playing with it I have ordered one and had 3 way mmf and he does still funny about it but I took over and basically directed the whole afternoon and it was amazing! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted March 10, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 10, 2020 There's nothing wrong with guys loving vibrators seriously it's absolutely natural to want to feel that throbbing vibrator in your ass like that 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted April 7, 2020 Report Share Posted April 7, 2020 Glad you had some fun, and he had some fun experiences with the 3-some. Many men, especially from our Boomer to Gen Xers, are very sensitive about not discussing sex, or admitting that they like anal sex. Boys use to be teased about "OMG, you like it up the ass!!" So, that learned behavior of defending themselves, and proving their manhood, is a very hard thing to stop. I've mentioned many times that my ex husband actually started enjoying anal sex. He knew I had joined here, and loved that I was a reviewer......after a time. At first, he was of the thinking that sex toys were replacements for him. I had to convince him that they're enhancements, not replacements. Then, I got a very small glass butt plug. He loved seeing it inside of me, and how it felt when he was inside of me with the plug in too. The, it took about 2 years of playing with the toys on me, that he was getting interested in anal play.....for him. It was stages. I personally don't like having anal sex done to me. But, he learned that he did. And, he worked his way up to being able to have me peg him with a strap on. In the beginning stages, he kept saying that he didn't want me to think he was gay, or that his sexuality should be called into question. I had to reassure him several times that I didn't think he was gay, or that he didn't find me attractive anymore. So, ever so often, he'd take one of my dildos, and have some shower fun by himself. I honestly didn't mind because I knew he was doing it. Even when he thought I didn't (he wasn't very sneaky), I knew. Honestly, I'd do the finger in his ass suggestion, slowly. Maybe be a bit more energetic when giving him a blowjob, plug in some porn with anal play, and go at it!!! Let him watch the porn when you're down on him. He may just go with it. And, yes, make sure you have plenty of lube!!! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mr.quick Posted June 30, 2020 Members Report Share Posted June 30, 2020 Shoot I wish my wife would stick ,her finger in ,I have told her numerous times and she just laughs and doesn’t do it . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members beyourgurl Posted July 29, 2021 Members Report Share Posted July 29, 2021 On 2/25/2020 at 6:32 AM, Inquiry said: My boyfriend is using a vibrating suction dildo and he wont own up to it. He videotaped hisself I think he is bisexual but I am cool with all that what should I do? Just because he likes anal play doesn't necessarily mean he's bi, but you should definitely let him know that you are ok with him whether he is or not. Maybe try playing with his ass next tie you have sex, see what he does or says, then take it from there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members aroused5 Posted July 29, 2021 Members Report Share Posted July 29, 2021 On 2/24/2020 at 2:53 PM, Inquiry said: Such a cute picture Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members khorse Posted May 30, 2023 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2023 watch some pegging porn together and how it would turn you on if he would let you do it.. act like your shy about it and see how he reacts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie usemeladies Posted June 7, 2023 Newbie Report Share Posted June 7, 2023 tie him down and fuck him with a strapon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiptaste Posted November 12, 2023 Members Report Share Posted November 12, 2023 A guy taking something in his ass is completely normal. If you want to do it with him, start with yourself. Do you take anything in your ass? With him? If not, get a nice butt toy and introduce it. Let him watch you put it in your own bum. Let him put it in too. Put your finger in his. Ask him to fuck himself in front of you. Let him fuck your ass. Go for the pegging. Nothing better than having a nice strap on penis hanging in front of your own body ready to find his asshole. Powerful stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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