Newbie Vagitarian4Lyfe Posted May 12, 2021 Newbie Report Share Posted May 12, 2021 My partner loves breast play, but we have a problem. I have somewhat large areolae and thicker than "normal" nipples. She likes to lick and suckle on my breasts but it's far too sensitive. I wouldn't say it hurts, so much as the high sensitivity makes it a bit uncomfortable. She gets immense pleasure out of it when I do it to her but for me, I can only tolerate it so much before I have to ask her to stop. I feel bad because she really loves doing it, it's one of her biggest turn ons and I want to be able to let her do it to me. She's been understanding (we've been together for 2 years so its not a relationship killer) but I really want to make her happy in that regard, so I was wondering - is there anything I can do to decrease sensitivity and/or heighten the pleasure of it? Are there creams or oils we can use? I'm not sure if it matters but I'm Asian (chinese). I don't think that has anything to do with it (i.e. I don't think Chinese girls have more sensitive nipples than any other race). Thanks! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cirrus20 Posted May 12, 2021 Members Report Share Posted May 12, 2021 1 hour ago, Vagitarian4Lyfe said: My partner loves breast play, but we have a problem. I have somewhat large areolae and thicker than "normal" nipples. She likes to lick and suckle on my breasts but it's far too sensitive. I wouldn't say it hurts, so much as the high sensitivity makes it a bit uncomfortable. She gets immense pleasure out of it when I do it to her but for me, I can only tolerate it so much before I have to ask her to stop. I feel bad because she really loves doing it, it's one of her biggest turn ons and I want to be able to let her do it to me. She's been understanding (we've been together for 2 years so its not a relationship killer) but I really want to make her happy in that regard, so I was wondering - is there anything I can do to decrease sensitivity and/or heighten the pleasure of it? Are there creams or oils we can use? I'm not sure if it matters but I'm Asian (chinese). I don't think that has anything to do with it (i.e. I don't think Chinese girls have more sensitive nipples than any other race). Thanks! You might check out some of the desensitizing creams on the TT site or elsewhere. I don't think you want to use them just before your SO licks you nipples, but maybe using them over time will help de-sensitize your nipples. Of course, you can always speak with your doctor about it too. Good luck. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Vagitarian4Lyfe Posted May 12, 2021 Author Newbie Report Share Posted May 12, 2021 Thanks yeah - I spoke to my doctor and she said that sometimes larger areolae/nipples like mine can be super sensitive and there's nothing medically that could be done that isn't invasive or unnecessarily risky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members Sirdominus Posted May 12, 2021 Members Report Share Posted May 12, 2021 I assume you have discussed this with her. I will take it that you have and we can go from there. Does it help if she is less assertive with her suckling and licking? By that I mean if she is more gentle can you then tolerate it or are they simply that sensitive? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Vagitarian4Lyfe Posted May 13, 2021 Author Newbie Report Share Posted May 13, 2021 16 hours ago, Sirdominus said: I assume you have discussed this with her. I will take it that you have and we can go from there. Does it help if she is less assertive with her suckling and licking? By that I mean if she is more gentle can you then tolerate it or are they simply that sensitive? Doesn't matter the intensity. After a short time the sensation becomes too much to tolerate. I should clarify that it's mostly the nipple that's too sensitive, not the areolae. The stroking/massaging/cupping is fine but for some reason the sensation of licking and sucking can become bothersome. I tolerate it for as long as I can because she enjoys it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nimodoc Posted May 13, 2021 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2021 My girl had a similar issue. The work around we found might be a bit unconventional but it could be a middle of the road compromise for you. Try having her open her mouth wide, taking the whole nipple and areola into her mouth and let her... well suckle like a baby would. For my girl it put the most sensitive part toward the back of my throat where there wasn't much stimulation and I still got to enjoy her breasts. Probably not the ideal solution but like I said... it worked for us. Turned into a bit of a kink thing after a while though soo... well.... have fun? Nimodoc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sirdominus Posted May 13, 2021 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2021 6 hours ago, Vagitarian4Lyfe said: Doesn't matter the intensity. After a short time the sensation becomes too much to tolerate. I should clarify that it's mostly the nipple that's too sensitive, not the areolae. The stroking/massaging/cupping is fine but for some reason the sensation of licking and sucking can become bothersome. I tolerate it for as long as I can because she enjoys it. A tricky situation indeed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Vagitarian4Lyfe Posted June 1, 2021 Author Newbie Report Share Posted June 1, 2021 Thanks for the feedback so far everyone. We've tried a few of the suggestions here so far but i can still only do it for a few minutes before it becomes uncomfortable. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted August 23, 2021 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2021 On 6/1/2021 at 12:42 PM, Vagitarian4Lyfe said: Thanks for the feedback so far everyone. We've tried a few of the suggestions here so far but i can still only do it for a few minutes before it becomes uncomfortable. This might help, well it can’t hurt. 😄. When I was pregnant I knew I wanted to breastfeed. So I read somewhere that you needed to toughen up your nipples so when it’s time you have less problems. All I did was for the last half of my pregnancy was to rub my whole areola/ nipple area with a wet wash cloth once or twice a day several times. That’s it, by the time I gave birth I never had any issues at all. During sex mine are sensitive at the start, by the end I’m even pinching and pulling on them myself. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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