Members sassnclass Posted January 8, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 8, 2022 I am a woman and I have never been able to masturbate using my fingers. Yes, I understand that this may not be "normal". I can come with toys only during masturbation. I can come with clit stimulation and/or penetration with toys. I have tried many times at different points in my life with the same results. My sex drive has increased tremendously lately...and I have tried again to use my fingers. I can't seem to get past how it feels on my fingers to touch myself instead of what the touch feels like on my body. If that makes sense. I have tried fantasizing, reading stories, watching porn...nothing works to get me out of head. I like toys, but just kind of want to know what it is like to get myself off with my fingers. I am curious if anyone else has this issue or if I am truly the oddball I feel like. Thanks for taking the time to read this. 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 8, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 8, 2022 57 minutes ago, Lady lover said: Hi sassnclass, can you cum if someone else uses there finger on you? Husband/boyfriend, girlfriend I can. I think it is about me being distracted by how it feels on my fingers. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 8, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 8, 2022 58 minutes ago, NeverSuspect said: You’re not alone lol Even in my early days ( 😜) I got creative with finding things to use lol.. My fingers are too short to hit where I want them to without effort, and the type of feeling of my fingers on my clit aren’t enough. If am very patient I can get off by using two fingers in me *sometimes.* This is by rubbing my cervix, so it depends where yours is and if you can reach it 😉 My fingers on my clit can help me along during sex or with another toy, but as it’s only tool it’s not enough 💗 Thanks, yes I used to get creative in my early days too. If stuffed animals could talk...Ha! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 9, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Rick the Dom said: Have you tried Ice Cubes? No...does that help with use of fingers? Wouldn't I be distracted by how cold they made my fingers??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted January 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 5 hours ago, sassnclass said: I am a woman and I have never been able to masturbate using my fingers. Yes, I understand that this may not be "normal". I can come with toys only during masturbation. I can come with clit stimulation and/or penetration with toys. I have tried many times at different points in my life with the same results. My sex drive has increased tremendously lately...and I have tried again to use my fingers. I can't seem to get past how it feels on my fingers to touch myself instead of what the touch feels like on my body. If that makes sense. I have tried fantasizing, reading stories, watching porn...nothing works to get me out of head. I like toys, but just kind of want to know what it is like to get myself off with my fingers. I am curious if anyone else has this issue or if I am truly the oddball I feel like. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I think everyone is different, you have to do what works for you. I’ve never really understood the jumping a pillow thing myself. 🥱 While I like toys at times, especially for leg shaking g spot orgasms, toys aren’t my go to for masturbation. My hands know what I like. 😉 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie WarmAndWet17 Posted January 9, 2022 Newbie Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 I've had the opposite issue. toys only irritate and I get ahead of myself and rush it. then I'm left unsatisfied. I've tried alternating between toys for a while then my fingers , to no avail. I get right there and it just doesn't happen. i am still working on it tho. and I have found gentler and more ways to arouse myself. dont give up, you will get there. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 WarmAndWet. I like that name. I like pussies that way too. Is that describing yours? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 There's a very informative article on TT that deals with this subject. I think it is very informative for anyone with a vagina. It's entitled the top tips to help you orgasm 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 9, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 14 hours ago, Rick the Dom said: It's a totally different sensation!! How does it work? Or is there a different forum or topic I should refer too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 9, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 2 hours ago, Rio said: There's a very informative article on TT that deals with this subject. I think it is very informative for anyone with a vagina. It's entitled the top tips to help you orgasm I tried to search for the article, but could not find where the articles are at. Any assistance would be appreciated. Sorry for my newbie-ness.😳 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 This is the article I was talking about. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 9, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 9, 2022 Thank you! I will check it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 10, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 2 hours ago, Lady lover said: Did it help you sassnclass? Or have any good information in the article. I read through it, but have not tried some of the recommendations yet. From the comments, it does seem like I am not alone though. So that is helpful. I will be reading more of the articles in that section as well. 😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 10, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 @sassnclassI'm glad you found the article helpful. Hopefully it'll lead to better things for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 10, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 10 minutes ago, Rio said: @sassnclassI'm glad you found the article helpful. Hopefully it'll lead to better things for you Thanks for your help. Toys do a good job though. They are fun too. So I can't complain. Just curious to figure out the finger side of self...um...care. 😊 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 10, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 BTW, I love the looks of your lips in your picture. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted January 10, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2022 2 hours ago, Rio said: BTW, I love the looks of your lips in your picture. Thanks, hubby said that is one of the first things that attracted him to me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lonely and divorced Posted January 28, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2022 Hi, I want to achieve a mind blowing orgasm which I’ve had a few with my toys.I want one every time. I have no partner now but hope that changes in the near future. 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 6981 Posted January 28, 2022 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2022 1 hour ago, Lonely and divorced said: Hi, I want to achieve a mind blowing orgasm which I’ve had a few with my toys.I want one every time. I have no partner now but hope that changes in the near future. I hope it does too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiger48 Posted March 9, 2022 Members Report Share Posted March 9, 2022 Guess this is just a scam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted March 10, 2022 Members Report Share Posted March 10, 2022 i would like to teach you and we can learn together my wife taught me and i can show you 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 12, 2022 Report Share Posted March 12, 2022 On 1/8/2022 at 3:16 PM, sassnclass said: I am a woman and I have never been able to masturbate using my fingers. Yes, I understand that this may not be "normal". I can come with toys only during masturbation. I can come with clit stimulation and/or penetration with toys. I have tried many times at different points in my life with the same results. My sex drive has increased tremendously lately...and I have tried again to use my fingers. I can't seem to get past how it feels on my fingers to touch myself instead of what the touch feels like on my body. If that makes sense. I have tried fantasizing, reading stories, watching porn...nothing works to get me out of head. I like toys, but just kind of want to know what it is like to get myself off with my fingers. I am curious if anyone else has this issue or if I am truly the oddball I feel like. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Guuuuuuuurl!!! No, you are NOT the only one!!! I could never cum using just my fingers!!! Now, I can tease myself with them, but I definitely have to use a vibe on my clit to be able to cum solo. My favorite toy for that, is, well, there's actually a few.....and they're from the Satisfyer Pro series. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sassnclass Posted March 12, 2022 Author Members Report Share Posted March 12, 2022 4 hours ago, Tyger said: Guuuuuuuurl!!! No, you are NOT the only one!!! I could never cum using just my fingers!!! Now, I can tease myself with them, but I definitely have to use a vibe on my clit to be able to cum solo. My favorite toy for that, is, well, there's actually a few.....and they're from the Satisfyer Pro series. Thank you! Good to know! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lonely and divorced Posted March 12, 2022 Members Report Share Posted March 12, 2022 I have to use toys. I used to with my hands but no longer can.☀️ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted March 12, 2022 Members Report Share Posted March 12, 2022 would this same problem be equal to some form of ed? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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