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M.mikey

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I've been with my girlfriend for 20 years man I just want to spice up the relationship and I want to see how can I last longer in bed with it

 

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Depends on what bot you and she are willing to do to spice things up.  

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3 hours ago, marka09 said:

Depends on what bot you and she are willing to do to spice things up.  

What exactly do you mean if you don't mind explaining it a little more please thank you

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Last longer? 

Speaking personally, my wife calls it quits on round 2 cause I make her cum a lot. She has to finish me off orally. 

You might want to make sure she is cumming enough to get her satisfaction fulfilled. 

Are you preheating? Lots of guys don't. 

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37 minutes ago, M.mikey said:

What exactly do you mean if you don't mind explaining it a little more please thank you

As far as spicing things up, do you guys talk about fantasies?  Do you have any thoughts of fulfilling them?   How far are you both willing to go to spice things up - a third person, just playing with toys, watching porn together and talking about it, etc?    As far as lasting longer, there are products that will help you delay your orgasm.  You can PM me if you want to talk in-depth.  

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13 hours ago, SexMaster said:

Last longer? 

Speaking personally, my wife calls it quits on round 2 cause I make her cum a lot. She has to finish me off orally. 

You might want to make sure she is cumming enough to get her satisfaction fulfilled. 

Are you preheating? Lots of guys don't. 

I guess im in not I do make her cum but then im busting right after I want to stay longer 

 

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6 hours ago, M.mikey said:

I guess im in not I do make her cum but then im busting right after I want to stay longer 

 

Pull out, right before you cum. Suck her tits and lick her pussy. Tell her you are not ready to cum. Trust me, your cock will get harder. Finger her and tell her how your hard cock made her cum. The ladies love to hear it as much as we do. 

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1 minute ago, SexMaster said:

Pull out, right before you cum. Suck her tits and lick her pussy. Tell her you are not ready to cum. Trust me, your cock will get harder. Finger her and tell her how your hard cock made her cum. The ladies love to hear it as much as we do. 

I appreciate that in a give it a try

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14 minutes ago, SexMaster said:

Pull out, right before you cum. Suck her tits and lick her pussy. Tell her you are not ready to cum. Trust me, your cock will get harder. Finger her and tell her how your hard cock made her cum. The ladies love to hear it as much as we do. 

Or, go ahead and cum. Cum in her pussy. Cum on her tits. Suck her tits, and lick her pussy. Make her cum, and get hard again, and start over! 

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2 hours ago, Kinkster said:

Or, go ahead and cum. Cum in her pussy. Cum on her tits. Suck her tits, and lick her pussy. Make her cum, and get hard again, and start over! 

If your goal isn't stamina do what he recommends. If your goal is stamina.. you know what you need to do. 

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One thing about cumming more than just one time, is the second time, takes longer! And the third, takes longer than the second....and on & on! 

Just a matter of staying interested in keeping her going, until you have recovered to your old horny self! 

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On 3/9/2022 at 5:25 PM, M.mikey said:

What exactly do you mean if you don't mind explaining it a little more please thank you

Here's my thinking....and this is from past experience, seeing a friend of mine....

He's been with his now wife, for about 21 yrs. Before he met her, he was very adventursome, liked it a bit kinky & rough (he was my FWB). 

Fast forward after us moving on, and he was her First, and has been with her all this time, and they have 2 kids together. I think he did their marriage a disservice for not teaching her what he liked, and slowly introducing her to the things he enjoyed. He admits to not really even trying, and they have vanilla, and satisfying sex, though he would love more excitement. 

As a past lover, I told him that he really didn't give his wife a fair shot to even TRY to do stuff he liked, and it's honestly not fair to do to her. He thinks that it's too late now, and she'd wonder HOW he came to like this, & why didn't he show her earlier. He has a valid point.

As far as spicing things up, you can try all sorts of things! 

Rekindling romance, having an all oral night, make it all about her night (where you make SURE she cums several times and you may not), if you're into toys, getting a new toy to try out, go shopping for a new toy. Watch a sexy movie. Give her a massage that may not end in a happy ending (sex). 

For women, bringing romance back, showing her that you're not taking her for granted, will make her also do the same for you!! For women, it's not about the physical, it's about how she emotionally feels. If she feels valued, sexy, and secure, that's the best way to make her want you even more.

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