Members Wannerer Posted January 10, 2023 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2023 If it depends on your will, and your partner doesn't insist having sex in different circumstances than you would like: Do you prefer to have sex with the lights on, or in darkness? A) preferably with the lights on, or in daylight B) preferably in very dim lighting C) preferably in complete darkness D) it doesn't matter, all options are equally nice You can also explain your preference, if you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lonely and divorced Posted January 14, 2023 Members Report Share Posted January 14, 2023 I have a wall of mini white lights on one wall in my bedroom. I think they create a romantic mood. They add just enough light so you’re not fumbling in the dark looking for lube or toys. I also have a light on my nightstand (with 3 settings) so I don’t need to turn my overhead light on. I also love those led candles. That way I can see my lovers face when we are having sex.☀️ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sexcravedcouple21 Posted February 4, 2023 Members Report Share Posted February 4, 2023 On 1/10/2023 at 6:40 AM, Wannerer said: If it depends on your will, and your partner doesn't insist having sex in different circumstances than you would like: Do you prefer to have sex with the lights on, or in darkness? A) preferably with the lights on, or in daylight preferably in very dim lighting C) preferably in complete darkness D) it doesn't matter, all options are equally nice You can also explain your preference, if you want. D.) Sometimes I like when it's dark so it's like a elimate of surprise, but I also like watching so light helps with that. I like watch us in the mirror I like watching his body move against mine. So any possibility works for me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lancelot Posted February 4, 2023 Members Report Share Posted February 4, 2023 On 1/10/2023 at 9:21 AM, Lady said: D. All options. I love looking into my partners eyes and seeing their desire and pleasure. Since I like exploring the body from head to toe during massage I like to have at least a dim light. Love candle light as it sets a sensual mood. Mmmm exactly Lady...D for me also and for the same reason Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lancelot Posted February 4, 2023 Members Report Share Posted February 4, 2023 2 hours ago, Mountain Man said: The best is a ceiling mirror the size of the bed. That would be a sight! Have not had the chance for that one but have watched in a mirror across from the bed...sexy as hell! 🔥🔥🔥 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie hardkockincali Posted February 5, 2023 Newbie Report Share Posted February 5, 2023 Light Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cheeky Posted February 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted February 5, 2023 I really like it when the lights are dimmed so I can see my lovers face, but I also like wearing a blindfold or a sleep mask and being surprised. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted February 5, 2023 Members Report Share Posted February 5, 2023 1 hour ago, Cheeky said: I really like it when the lights are dimmed so I can see my lovers face, but I also like wearing a blindfold or a sleep mask and being surprised. Yes yes yes to all of this! 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 17, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 17, 2023 Lights on, please. Sight is a very important part of being aroused for me. I want to see every little curve and bulge. I want to see where his hand is going, and see the look in his eyes and what their looking at. Darkness is only for sleeping. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted September 17, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 17, 2023 I agree with you Dancer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 21, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 21, 2023 All senses (touch, taste, hearing, seeing, smelling) need to cum into play for the best sex. Lights on BRIGHTLY please. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mtphoto Posted September 21, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 21, 2023 Lights on! I love to see my partners face and body reacting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 On 9/21/2023 at 12:50 PM, Mtphoto said: Lights on! I love to see my partners face and body reacting. Exactly. But just as important. I want my partner to see MY body, and how I AM reacting. Increasing the intensity of his ejaculation improves my orgasm as well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 day time i love to see my wife pussy and boobs move when we are doing the deed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mtphoto Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Dancer said: Exactly. But just as important. I want my partner to see MY body, and how I AM reacting. Increasing the intensity of his ejaculation improves my orgasm as well. I’m guessing your body is worth seeing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NervousNelly Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 32 minutes ago, Special K said: Love can be so mysterious in the dark! Mmmm….I agree!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 24, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2023 1 hour ago, Mtphoto said: I’m guessing your body is worth seeing! Not what it was 15 years ago, but yeah.😉 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiptaste Posted December 3, 2023 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2023 Lights on for me. I have a few friends that I see and I can't remember when we shut the lights off. For anything. As a guy...and as a guy who knows that men like visuals....I love to see everything and watch. The slick lips of her pussy, her mouth closing around the head of my shaft, her nipples rising, her face twisting as she gets pleasured. All those are missed in the dark. The girls that I see aren't exactly newcomers to sex so we don't even imagine turning the lights down or off. We just have at it. Love that! Besides, I can't take any good pics in the dark! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted December 10, 2023 Members Report Share Posted December 10, 2023 Do both Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Samson Posted January 1 Members Report Share Posted January 1 Lights on! I want to see it all!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jeepgirl Posted February 18 Members Report Share Posted February 18 Either I just ho with the flow 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members all the time Posted February 18 Members Report Share Posted February 18 Light, camera, action! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Goodthings Small Package Posted February 23 Members Report Share Posted February 23 I prefer being able to see what I am doing... fumbling in the dark is not for me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted February 23 Members Report Share Posted February 23 @Goodthings Small Package wish we were able to post pictures of our packages these days. I'm sure you don't live up to your forum name. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members eagle143 Posted February 23 Members Report Share Posted February 23 Not necessarily lights on but some sort of light whether it be from the tv, candles or just some dim lights...~I want to see ~ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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