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How many of ya'll use bondage? I love being tied down with handcuffs or rope. 

Set the scene tell me a time you have used bondage and what other toys if any where used. (Who was the dom?)

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Personally, I enjoy being restrained with cuffs or straps. I find it extremely erotic and usually involves nipple clamps and blind fold. My husband is always willing to accommodate. Being blindfolded allows him to surprise me with different toys, a flogger, some spanking, and I really enjoy the whole conversation that goes along with it whether he tells me what he is going to do or I ask.

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I enjoy being blindfolded and cuffed around my ankles and wrists and be tied down spread eagle to the bed. I then want my wife to just do whatever she wants to me. I wish she was more adventurous and kinky.

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On 1/28/2023 at 7:09 PM, Cheeky said:

Personally, I enjoy being restrained with cuffs or straps. I find it extremely erotic and usually involves nipple clamps and blind fold. My husband is always willing to accommodate. Being blindfolded allows him to surprise me with different toys, a flogger, some spanking, and I really enjoy the whole conversation that goes along with it whether he tells me what he is going to do or I ask.

With the nipple clamps, did they hurt at first? Did you ease into them? I'm a puss and feel like that would hurt even though I love nipple play. I tired the nipple suctions and it hurt so it kinda turned me off on that for a while. 

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On 2/2/2023 at 2:03 PM, Rio said:

I enjoy being blindfolded and cuffed around my ankles and wrists and be tied down spread eagle to the bed. I then want my wife to just do whatever she wants to me. I wish she was more adventurous and kinky.

My SO wants the same and I have tied him down legs and arms spread apart, I've figured his ass while using a bullet on his cock. He loves it!

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8 hours ago, sexcravedcouple21 said:

With the nipple clamps, did they hurt at first? Did you ease into them? I'm a puss and feel like that would hurt even though I love nipple play. I tired the nipple suctions and it hurt so it kinda turned me off on that for a while. 

Hello, I first started with some jewelry on my nipples, they weren’t very tight but they were snug. Then I moved on to jewelry that had a clamp on it, slowly increasing the tightness and adjusting my tolerance to it. Lastly I ended up with nipple clamps on a weighted chain, that keeps the tension perfect and allows my husband to tug on it this really increases the pleasure and the sensitivity is something that you will eventually be accustomed to. When that happens you can always ask for the clamps to be tightened or the chain to be pulled anything that will increase the pressure as much as you can take it.

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I used to have THE BEST four post bed for getting tied up. I know it’s low key bondage to use socks, ties, etc but it was so exciting and I begged for it. My college BF and I played quite a bit. I loved being tied up on my belly the most. Pop your bum up in the air a little and give access to the clit and pussy. Damn, I miss that bed! 

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I completely understand! Having a fourposter bed myself, we moved past the socks and ties and right onto actual bondage straps. I like being on my knees and restrained at the same time. I also really enjoy the feeling of being held down.

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2 hours ago, Cheeky said:

I completely understand! Having a fourposter bed myself, we moved past the socks and ties and right onto actual bondage straps. I like being on my knees and restrained at the same time. I also really enjoy the feeling of being held down.

Mmm…being held down is sexy. 

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We've got bed restraints that I love being bound to. And the blindfold definitely adds another dimension. I wish my wife would get more kinky when I'm restrained.

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On 2/5/2023 at 10:11 PM, Katie Did It said:

Mmm…being held down is sexy. 

Agreed, with the right partner.  Can be a very emotionally rewarding experience. 

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On 3/20/2023 at 1:10 PM, Dancer said:

Agreed, with the right partner.  Can be a very emotionally rewarding experience. 

Yea. I have to make too many decisions in my daily life. I want a man that can take over and please me 

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21 hours ago, Katie Did It said:

Yea. I have to make too many decisions in my daily life. I want a man that can take over and please me 

I know!  How is it that being restrained can feel so liberating?!?

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I have a system that goes under the mattress and has four point restraints.  Use it for photoshoots, but may try it for real.  Photo is of a shoot, but not the 4 point one.  

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I have a 4-point under the mattress restraint system as well. Love it. Especially when you add blindfolds to go with it

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Hi, Amia! First of all welcome. Also, I've been reading a number of your posts and you sound like a pretty fun loving, sexual, young lady. Hope you have fun on this site and find what you're looking for. Would love to hear more about your likes and your experiences.

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1 hour ago, Mountain Man said:

4-point Harness under the mattress, and padded cuffs.

 

Now here is someone who is prepared. 😃

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2 hours ago, Mountain Man said:

Or it could just be my OCD.  🙂

 

No, I believe you are spot on.  Failing to plan is a plan to fail!

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On 3/23/2023 at 6:34 PM, marka09 said:

I have a system that goes under the mattress and has four point restraints.  Use it for photoshoots, but may try it for real.  Photo is of a shoot, but not the 4 point one.  

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Toe hold and hog tied!

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12 hours ago, Mountain Man said:

Yes ma'am!  All good Men are always prepared!

PPE - Plan, Prepare and Execute!  Works for many things in life, but definitely gets the most positive response when making love goes seamlessly.   Especially props/objects used in the sexual pleasure world.  If folks think a condom breaks the mood, imagine trying to tie your lover while giving excellent nipple pleasure and getting the vibrating butt plug lubed up for the next evolution of the day. 

Or it could just be my OCD.  🙂

 

You’ve ignited my curiosity, MM . I’m wondering how the subject was even approached? Like sitting down for morning tea she asked you to bondage her, or it was your interest? She enjoys it most or you enjoy it more?
 

I’m not sure the conversation is a realistic one for   “vanilla” couples and perhaps not wise if the partner is conservative to say it lightly. Perhaps it can be suggested with little steps so he isn’t turned off. You find most males actually enjoy this or it is a rarity?

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A way that I got my conservative wife to try different things sexually is, if we're watching porn, and there's a small segment with whatever it is that I thought would be interesting, for example, anal stimulation, I would comment to her "that looks interesting and might be fun. What do you think"? And then the conversation would go on from there.

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8 hours ago, Amia said:

You find most males actually enjoy this or it is a rarity?

A rarity.  But then again i will guess most guys I've dated didn't know I enjoyed this either.  Not something that easily comes up in discussion. 

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