Members Leedo Posted March 7, 2023 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2023 I have heard some women get more brave as they get older, there inhibitions relent. my wife is JUST the opposite, I know it’s the same old story, but it is aggravating. I used to give her sensual massage and would still, if she let me. I use to use a strap with vibrator tip, that she said she loved. I would put a sleeve on me with a vibrating bunny ears as she sat on top, and she love it. But now all she will do is give me a quickie, which I use to appreciate, but now, I go on forever before coming because she just gets on her back, legs up in the air, and doesn’t try or is not interested in getting a nut. Of course I immediately think, she is cheating or getting hers by other means. I have tried to talk with her about it, but she won’t. Sometimes I think she is trying to get me to get it somewhere else. I am at wits end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted March 7, 2023 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2023 Have you tried talking to her about your needs and how you used to like the way it used to be and asked why she doesn't feel that way anymore. Could be something physical. Going through the changes and have a dry vagina which would hurt quite a bit for women. Communication is a big part of a good sex life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members marka09 Posted March 7, 2023 Members Report Share Posted March 7, 2023 Sorry to hear it man. Could be just that her hormones are messed up. I'd start with a doctor to see if there is something physical going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members juliesjoy Posted March 8, 2023 Members Report Share Posted March 8, 2023 Can I ask how old is ure wife??? N if she has had natural children? If she is at a certain age n birthed kids, could be menopause, I went thru that shit when I hit 45-50'ish, I'll be 59 this yr n my sex life is awesome right now! I'm a widow for over 3 yrs, i was with my husband for 26.5 years when he lost a battle with cancer. We hadn't had 1 bit of sex for 7'ish yrs before..u couldn't get me to touch myself or suck/rub a dick, there wasn't anything that he could do, EXCEPT, kept talking to me, he didn't pressure me, or ridicule me. He would call me "pretty" every day n tell me he loved me! I felt guilty n thought maybe I would get back into being intimate with him again but he was also 14 yrs older, n then the damn cancer came up n we both knew it was over, he fought for his life tho, in the end it was a fast year (stage 4-lung) , so consider what she might be dealing with n idk the situation there but I can only tell you what happened to me! Good luck ❤️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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