Members mixbabe13 Posted July 22, 2005 Members Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Hey everyone,This is a really embarassing and weirdc question. But I'm a virgin, and I was wondering what you guys thought about anal sex. Whether you thought it would count as losing you rvirginity or what not. I know its ultimately my decision but I wanted to know your opinion. Also I wanted to know whatto expect if I were to go through with itThanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members admiraltolokus Posted July 23, 2005 Members Report Share Posted July 23, 2005 good question, never really thought about it much myself good luck finding an answer tho theres plenty of people here who can help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hunny Posted July 25, 2005 Members Report Share Posted July 25, 2005 Hey mixbabe,I suppose it's your opinion that counts. I wouldnt suggest anal sex before normal sex though. Is it because of religion or something that you dont want penetrative sex? like your waiting til your married? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie rm69 Posted July 31, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted July 31, 2005 Hey everyone,This is a really embarassing and weirdc question. But I'm a virgin, and I was wondering what you guys thought about anal sex. Whether you thought it would count as losing you rvirginity or what not. I know its ultimately my decision but I wanted to know your opinion. Also I wanted to know whatto expect if I were to go through with itThanks<{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you do anal sex you may as well do regular sex. One does go with the other. Do as you feel comfortable with. However, be sure to use condom on both options of sex, anal and vaginal. Better to be safe than sorry later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie ropergaljojo Posted August 13, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 no it's not .but if you use tampons you r no longer a virin any ways talk to your doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hot-pants-kate Posted August 13, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 no it's not .but if you use tampons you r no longer a virin any ways talk to your doctor.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Hey Roper Gal, if i stop using tampons do i get my virginity back? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chris4u Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 People have many ways of explaining virginity. If you break the hymen during sex, then obviously you've lost it. However, some go with anal sex all the way up to marriage, because they think it doesn't count. My definition is that once you engage in "sexual activities" your no longer a virgin. I classify virgins as those who haven't experimented in sexual acts. Otherwise you could say bjs, 69, anal, muff diving are not part of sex.So many girls do anal because they want a "white wedding" since they think since their hymen's intact or no penis has broken it, they're virgins and virtuous in the eyes of God. That's to relieve their concience after performing erotic acts.I don't know if your religious and how strongly you hold the faith, but if your very religious then you may want to wait till marriage. Otherwise start with vaginal, please. Vaginal can be a little discomforting at first, for some girls. Anal can be disasterous if your partner is inexperienced or has no idea what he's doing and if your not mentally prepared.Anal isn't something you just dive into, especially if your both pretty green. If you choose anal then:1. have him use a condom (for his sake and yours to a degree)2. use plenty of lube...prep. not only his penis, but also your anus with it3. don't start off with doggy...this is a popular position you see in pornos, but they're experienced and you aren't Try spoons first, because your more relaxed (doggy your muscles are contracting)4. Relax!That's about it...good luck and make him go in slow. Some have a bad first experience and are traumatized afterward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hot-pants-kate Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 People have many ways of explaining virginity. If you break the hymen during sex, then obviously you've lost it. However, some go with anal sex all the way up to marriage, because they think it doesn't count. My definition is that once you engage in "sexual activities" your no longer a virgin. I classify virgins as those who haven't experimented in sexual acts. Otherwise you could say bjs, 69, anal, muff diving are not part of sex.So many girls do anal because they want a "white wedding" since they think since their hymen's intact or no penis has broken it, they're virgins and virtuous in the eyes of God. That's to relieve their concience after performing erotic acts.I don't know if your religious and how strongly you hold the faith, but if your very religious then you may want to wait till marriage. Otherwise start with vaginal, please. Vaginal can be a little discomforting at first, for some girls. Anal can be disasterous if your partner is inexperienced or has no idea what he's doing and if your not mentally prepared.Anal isn't something you just dive into, especially if your both pretty green. If you choose anal then:1. have him use a condom (for his sake and yours to a degree)2. use plenty of lube...prep. not only his penis, but also your anus with it3. don't start off with doggy...this is a popular position you see in pornos, but they're experienced and you aren't Try spoons first, because your more relaxed (doggy your muscles are contracting)4. Relax!That's about it...good luck and make him go in slow. Some have a bad first experience and are traumatized afterward.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Chris 4 you, you impress me. You seem right on in your Anal Sex post. My first experience with Anal was very very painful, he was in no hurry to stop and i beared with it for quite a while. His rod was very thick at the base, maybe thats a factor. But he never got all the way in. I still dont enjoy it, and if my guy must have it i tell him to keep my clitty really busy.And the posts about sticking your tongue up there...YUCK!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chris4u Posted August 14, 2005 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Yah hot-pants-kate, I'd never stick my tongue up there. Rimming, yes, but definetly not tongue penetration. Rimming is safe since you can see if it's clean. With anal sex, I pull out and see faint residue of feces and that turns my sexual drive off somewhat. I have to pull the condom off with my eyes closed and toss it away, refraining from looking. Your bad experience was probably due to a bunch of the factors listed in my last post. If you gain the nerve to try it again, just make sure you have those 4 basic things checked-off.I didn't write it in the last post, but thickness of the penis is a factor. If he's thick, like me, you have to condition your girlfriends anus. The Julie Ashton's anal kit that you can buy I believe off tootimid.com is what I'd recommend.I'm sure there are girls out there that even with such preparation still wouldn't find anal to be their thing. It's not mine. I do it with my gf once in a while to keep things diverse and interesting. The cleanliness factor is what keeps me away, because as hard as you try, they're always be a tiny bit left in there. If you douche, which I strongly don't recommend, then you can be spotless. But like I said, refrain from douching, unless you do it once in a long while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie chick Posted September 22, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted September 22, 2005 Hey mixbabe,I suppose it's your opinion that counts. I wouldnt suggest anal sex before normal sex though. Is it because of religion or something that you dont want penetrative sex? like your waiting til your married?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>I defintley wouldn't try anal sex before regular sex especially if I am a virgin! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members admiraltolokus Posted September 22, 2005 Members Report Share Posted September 22, 2005 Man I have not posted here for months now, phew. Cleanliness is important, your right about the turn off I know that for sure With me I have always used this one little saying, be clean, be safe, and have fun, it all starts from there. Now as to anal prep work, I adjust my diet if we are going to do anything anal on myself, I also play in the shower before doing anything anal, jsut how I prep *shrug* Hmm, starting positions, yeah don't really want to start off with doggy for anal, now that I'm used to it, I like it. After several hours and completely wiped out muscles in there actaully will have had a work-out (then I go off to karate practice and wonder why doing chinese splits starts to irrate me). But yeah, douching, not something I'd really want to do... Oh well its nice to be back, met alot of wonderful people at the university I started at.Think I wrote too much again... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted September 24, 2005 Members Report Share Posted September 24, 2005 hey mix babe chris4u & howard are well rounded in their values. I come from a long line of traditional values myself. This is one time I am at a loss for words... 12G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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