Members mikethinker Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 Im a straight guy, in a committed relationship. For some reason I'm totally curious about wearing womens panties as a kinky bedroom play thing with my woman. She has some really great undies in all sorts of colors and textures and I love to see her in them. It drives me so nuts that I want to try them too. My ideal situation would be for us both to be wearing them while passionately making out. The thought makes my spine tingle. Im just curious as to what the women out here think of this, have they ever experienced anything similar and what their advice is as to the best way to approach it with my woman. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shypuppy Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 Im a straight guy, in a committed relationship. For some reason I'm totally curious about wearing womens panties as a kinky bedroom play thing with my woman. She has some really great undies in all sorts of colors and textures and I love to see her in them. It drives me so nuts that I want to try them too. My ideal situation would be for us both to be wearing them while passionately making out. The thought makes my spine tingle. Im just curious as to what the women out here think of this, have they ever experienced anything similar and what their advice is as to the best way to approach it with my woman. Thanks.I had a similar experience but I was wearing my guy's boxers..he was in the shower and came in th eroom and I was wearing a shirt and tir..and a pair of his undies...he was very turned on...and guess what happedned..next????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members joey9817 Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 I had a similar experience but I was wearing my guy's boxers..he was in the shower and came in th eroom and I was wearing a shirt and tir..and a pair of his undies...he was very turned on...and guess what happedned..next?????Not a woman but I will drop my two cents in..............well this can be concieved as a double standard but...most men think it is very sexy to see wives or girlfriends wear their shirts and/or boxers..But many women dont like the men to wear the panties...I am not saying that many women wouldnt warm up to the idea..I am just saying.I see nothing wrong with it as long as both sides are comfortable and open with it. But I have never heard of a man freaking out over finding the woman wearing his clothes like I have heard of woman finding the men wearing her clothes.Just the thought of seeing my wife in one of my button downs makes me smile, but the thought of me wearing one of her thongs cracks me up.I couldnt fit into them if I tried though! I am not saying anything is wrong..just saying what I have seen.My sister is currently dating a man who likes to wear womens panties and when she discovered it...she freaked, left him, and is back with him now.Another double standard of life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 I've put my wife's panties on before and it drove her absolutely wild(in a great way) knowing I had them on. I think it will depend on your partner whether or not she'll like this or have a problem with it.Thurisas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MANDYC Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 Have you found any porn that shows a man with a woman, and the man wearing woman's panties? If you found a movie like that, which you know there must be out there, and watched it with her, you could gauge her reaction, and then perhaps even suggest that you two try something similar. Worth a shot! As a woman, it wouldn't freak me out, and would probably turn me on for a change of pace, I don't think I'd like it all the time though. I'd hope for a 1 and done, I can't see that being an ongoing turn on for me. But that's just me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 3, 2007 This is a very common fetish / interest. Nothing wrong with it and your woman should think the same way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mikethinker Posted December 4, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted December 4, 2007 This is a very common fetish / interest. Nothing wrong with it and your woman should think the same way.OK but how common is it? What do women think of it? I kind of wanted to open this up to some candid discussion as to what women think about it and how to get women to be accepting of it. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members roxie Posted December 4, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 4, 2007 OK but how common is it? What do women think of it? I kind of wanted to open this up to some candid discussion as to what women think about it and how to get women to be accepting of it. ThanksI have no clue how "common" it is, if I had to guess there are probably a lot more men out there that think about doing it vs. ones that will admit it to their SO or even TRY it.I dated a guy several years ago that was into cross dressing, at home only. He initially approached the topic with me after sex one night, I had had on a piece of lingerie that he found specifically attractive, he told me so and jokingly asked if he could try it on. I good naturedly agreed and found it a bit of a turn on watching him try on MY lingerie and model it for me. After that he told me about his cross dressing, showed me some of the things he already had and asked if I would go shopping with him sometime. I was 100% fine with it, I actually found it quite attractive to watch him try things on and model for me!Does that help at all? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bridgeportcat Posted December 5, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 5, 2007 There are many, many woman who are into men crossdressing. I've known quite a few myself, and hell even I think that a dude wearing lady underwear is a bit hot. It really just depends on the woman, but it's not that freaky at all. A LOT of woman love a guy who's not afraid to wear feminine things/act feminine, even if only in the bedroom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mikethinker Posted December 6, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 There are many, many woman who are into men crossdressing. I've known quite a few myself, and hell even I think that a dude wearing lady underwear is a bit hot. It really just depends on the woman, but it's not that freaky at all. A LOT of woman love a guy who's not afraid to wear feminine things/act feminine, even if only in the bedroom.Wow so what do some of the other women out there think of this? Is it becoming more common or accepted? Have any of you ladies ever suggested it to a guy or convinced them to do it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mommybaby295 Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 Sorry, but you want honest input from women... this wouldn't be a turnon for me, at least not initially. That being said, if my hubby really wanted to try it, I'd be game; who knows, maybe it would be arousing for me eventually. It's just that at this point, the thought about him putting on mu undies seems funny/gross/ick. Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Willow~ Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 It wouldn't bother me at all. I'm all for whatever it takes to help someone have a mind blowing sexual experience. My man isn't measured by society, what happens in our bedroom is between us. Sex is play time. Dress up, fantasies, whatever. So if that's what he wanted, then I'd indulge it, it's not a big deal. I think your fantasy is great and you should talk to her about it. Start by discussing your fantasies perhaps after some really great sex when you're both relaxed and satisfied. Good luck and most of all have fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Infahmust Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 I'm a straight guy, in a committed relationship. For some reason I'm totally curious about wearing womens panties as a kinky bedroom play thing with my woman. She has some really great undies in all sorts of colors and textures and I love to see her in them. It drives me so nuts that I want to try them too. My ideal situation would be for us both to be wearing them while passionately making out. The thought makes my spine tingle. Im just curious as to what the women out here think of this, have they ever experienced anything similar and what their advice is as to the best way to approach it with my woman. Thanks. As a woman this would not bother me, my boyfriend has put on my underwear before. It made me laugh more than it actually turned me on. I say try it and see how she reacts if you guys have a close relationship I doubt she will react negatively. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members roxie Posted December 6, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2007 My man isn't measured by society, what happens in our bedroom is between us. Sex is play time. Dress up, fantasies, whatever. So if that's what he wanted, then I'd indulge it, it's not a big deal.AMEN!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mikethinker Posted December 10, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 AMEN!! So what are some good panties that the women here would recommend? Any links with ideas would be appreciated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members roxie Posted December 12, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 So what are some good panties that the women here would recommend? Any links with ideas would be appreciatedWell... you mentioned that your SO has some that you think are attractive and would like to try... so why not start there? If they're not in a size that would fit you - go to a lingerie dept (or VS, or where ever) and find some that are similar to what your SO has that are IN your size. The folks at the store will have no clue that you're NOT buying them for a lady friend.If you're looking to shop online, there are a TON of sites - including VS and Freddies... wicked temptations... just do a simple google search for lingerie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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